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The "Safety" in Married Guys  

LuvsToLick53 61M
15 posts
6/25/2008 12:20 am

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6/25/2008 3:57 pm
The "Safety" in Married Guys

Well, I see this is a twist on something I wrote earlier, but I'll post it anyway as it has a slightly different slant to it ...

You might not think meeting up with a married guy would be all that safe. I mean, there's this "fear of discovery" looming over his head (at least in most cases), and he brings that "baggage" with him. However could I say that he's "safe"??

Well, unless he just doesn't care about his home life anymore, he's going to be extremely careful about meeting with someone. You won't have to worry about him talking loudly in public about what he'd like to do with you "behind closed doors". You won't have to worry about convincing him to wear protection because he's as concerned about taking something home as you are. And, there's very little likelihood of him becoming so enamored with you that he turns into a "clingy pest" that won't leave you alone.

If he's lacking in attention at home, he may seem so appreciative of what you feel is just average attention from you. He'll probably treat you like he did others when he was dating, taking care to be "extra polite" and such. (That may be good ... or bad.) He may be hard to schedule with, but most likely will do his best to make sure he does get to see you. He may be more open to exploring some of your fantasies than someone that's usually all wrapped up in themselves.

Now, I'm not saying there's nothing to be concerned about. There's still his other half. But, if he's really concerned about protecting that part of his life, well you'll surely sense it in all the questions he asks ... the tight time frames for meetings ... and the desire to keep his private life private.

Considering all of this, there's probably quite a few situations where a married guy would fit right in, be a good match, and turn out to be that great Win-Win for all.

rm_loveslilies 57F
36204 posts
6/25/2008 3:55 am

 but what isnt safe is if the wife finds out
If Love Is Not The Answer,
Then I Misunderstood The Question


LuvsToLick53 61M
43 posts
6/25/2008 3:57 pm

 True. But her anger would be directed mostly in my direction. (Completely so, if the other person wasn't uncovered.)

But, knowing that, I would think would cause one to be much more careful and discreet.


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