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Submission - submitting oneself to another ...  

LuvsToLick53 61M
15 posts
7/5/2008 2:02 am

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7/6/2008 9:22 am
Submission - submitting oneself to another ...

Submit! - Such a harsh and foreboding word to hear. Yet many people actually choose to do so to the will of others. Why is that?

To submit (or be submissive) means to lose control of the situation, of your environment, of your immediate future ...
In the case of sexual things, it means either doing something to someone else because you've been told to, or allowing something to be done to you. Again, not because YOU'VE chosen it, but because the other person has chosen it for you.

I'm sure that word brings many different thoughts to different people. Perhaps a lady thinks of lying back (or being restrained) and exposing herself for his pleasure ... or bending down on her knees to please him in some way ... (I guess a guy would have similar thoughts, being asked to submit to another guy, or a couple ...)
What if a lady was the dominant one over a guy? What would he then be asked to submit to?

Would YOU rather be the one exercising the control, being able to do whatever you wanted to with the other person ...
Or, allowing yourself that "freedom" to be submissive, and just do what you're told?
(I guess the knowledge of whether pain was involved would play a major part in that decision. If there's no pain, would submitting be all that bad??)

LuvsToLick53 61M
43 posts
7/5/2008 5:14 am

 I agree. I'd think someone (in role playing) might find themselves more able to open up and explore their boundaries than otherwise.

So, send those Catholic girls my way !!


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