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A Little Venting About AFF
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A Little Venting About AFF 1. I know you ladies get pissed off at us when we e-mail you some stupid shit like your hot, lets fuck ... and with a pick of a cock or w/e...Thats fine I can understand that, but trust me when I say this its worst for the straight guys....I know I'm not the only straight guy that gets this, but it is driving me up the wall with the invites from gay or bi guys. You have no idea how ridiculous it is. So not for nothing,some of us do know where you are coming from when you get those ridiculous e-mails.... ITS ANNOYING and more so just aggitating. 2. I hope I get a response to this one from some out there.... I personally am looking to make some friends on here and than whatever happen happen...if nothing good if something happens even better...but the ideal is to make friends....now when a friend asks you how ur week was or weekend, or w/e the case maybe wouldn't you respond? More so why would you want to join someones friends network if you are not ever going to converse with them. I am fortunate to say I have met some great people on this, and you can read in my profile some comments some have left... and to those thank you.... but am I just out of my mind to think, that if someone joins your network that they might want to talk to you atleast... Ok im done with that...its just fustrating that most people are here and just playing this ridiculous game, and some are actually true to their word. Yes even though we are on a sex site, and im sure we all want to get laid, but it's not always about that...Hate to say it, but I have found some real decent people with amazing personalities on this site and we are just friends and its nice....hell i think there are more decent people on this than it is possible to meet at a bar, or club or w/e form or fashion you go to look... But neways I'm done with my ranting and raving... but i'd like to hear some comments on this part...just see others pov. |
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Ok...you lost me.
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12/13/2006 10:14 pm |
No shit!!! I want to be nice and usually do an automated quick response but Jesus Christ, what part of STRAIGHT do these guys not understand. I'm even very casual about offers from gay men because I've had several gay friends over the years, but here its getting ridiculous! They're giving other cool gay guys a bad name. Here's my favorite- "hot pics dude, I just want to suck your dick, that's all, you don't have to do anything" Oh gee thanks! So what am I suposed to do about a MAN SUCKING MY DICK!!!! Here's another thing for WOMEN. If you don't want to be talked to like a whore, then maybe you should change your profile name. Seriously, what do you expect from shit like FUKBUDY and COCKLOVER or CUMCATCHER. Okay I'm done, thanks for the forum,1269Inferno!
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It was Chappelle and this is how it went.... mind you this is an ignorant way to look at it but there is some truth to this... like you want to be treated with respect but a page with all naked pictures of you sucking a dick with a s/n ILuv2SucDik does not scream respect me either... Just because i am dressed this way does not make me a whore which is true gentlemen, that is true just because they dress a certain way doesnt mean they are a certain way dont ever forget it but ladies you must understand that is fucken confusing just is that would be like me Dave Chappelle the comedian walking around the streets in a cop uniform somebody might run up on me helllppp thank god officer help us, come on there over here hellllpp us oooohhhh just cause im dressed this way does not make me a police officer you understand what im saying alright ladies fine fine you are not a whore, but you are wearing a whores uniform little miss understandings can happen
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12/15/2006 5:18 pm |
Honey i truly agree. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time, but like they say you gotta get through a lotta weeds.....it's the same on all sites. Some people are just interested in a popularity contest. And others are more serious. It sucks but it's life. It happens at bars and suck too, people just want to get phone numbers for the sake of having phone numbers. So they can brag to their friends....it's a sad world
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I too have found some very nice men on this site, but as in any other place where large amounts of people congregate, you have to plow through the weeds to get to the flowers...I also have found that my volume of responses depends on which photo I have posted as my main one. A face shot gets the least response, but it is usually from someone closer to what I am looking for. Showing my body will double or triple the responses, which also will double or triple the responses from those that only use single syllable words to communicate. That is if they get past the photos before reading the profile.. hotandhorny1082
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10/24/2007 2:41 am |
There are some decent people on this site. I think the problem with your #2 is that some people just don't know how to politely say "sorry, but I don't think we're compatable" or "not interested" or whatever. Or even, "hey, I'm swamped right now, not ignoring you." So they take the easy way out....That sucks though. (Unless you see they've been offline for a long time...)
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I understand your grief about certain bi and gay guys not taking a hint. As a bi guy, I might have an explanation. I get a lot of e-mails and winks from "straight" guys, more than I do bi or gay guys. It's confusing, but I do respect anyone's wishes. I would never try to persuade someone to do something they're not interested in. A lot of people on this site don't understand the phrase, "thanks, but no thanks" Maybe people should be more honest in their profiles. If you're even a little bi, you have to let us know. Maybe that will end the confusion. Just my 2 cents..
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