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Wish I Could Reply to Mr Right
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Wish I Could Reply to Mr Right 1I CAN'T FIND THE PROFILE OF THE MAN WHO WROTE TO ME TO SEE IF I AM INTERESTED. HOW DO I DO FIND THE PROFILE? It would be so helpful if you could do a general search of names here, the way you can on the internet or your word pages. So part of the name could bring up that person or one with similar attributes. 2 I RECKON LOTS OF MEN ARE CHASING A FEW WOMEN AND THE MEN HAVE HIGHER INCOMES (NATIONAL STATISTICS SHOW THIS) & SHOULD PAY FOR THE WOMEN TO REPLY. 3 I WOULD LIKE AN EMAIL TELLING ME THE MAN WHO WROTE IS ON LINE AND PAYING FOR ME TO REPLY TO HIM NOW ON LINE. FURTHER COMMENTS: I have a message from somebody and I have some suggestions for you. I'd like to read his message. You should help me - and him - because if he sends me messages and I don't join so he gets no answer he might fail to renew his membership. If he is rich surely he could be persuaded to pay a small annual fee so ladies like me can read his message? Or a small one off fee so one person can read a message? I'd like to let him know that if he can pay a small fee so I can read it I would be interested. I can't find out whether it would be worthwhile joining or how to do so free or cheap or how to get him to pay for me to read his message. I already belong to two other sites. They don't offer a discount for joining more. I don't want to join another site to read one message. It could me a man simply telling me no thanks. Or somebody married wanting free sex. Or an unemployed man who joined to meet a rich, educated woman. I am already a paying member on two sites. I can't afford to join another site. Especially not if they join you up for life and keep renewing. His opening message headline HELLO suggests he has nothing important to say. It would be helpful to have a signal of the content of the message. Maybe you could suggest that men send more interesting subject matter. I get 'hello' all the time on Skype from female scammers trying to make me join dating sites. He could send a word or symbol which would make it worthwhile for me to either join a full rate, join at a discount, join briefly at a small rate (from your point of view that would get me to join)or join free for a small time (that was how I got to join the other two sites - after being a free member for 6 months I had half a dozen dinner dates and considered it worthwhile to join financially and I already owed the site morally for their free help so far and wanted to keep them in business.) So For example, is his message offering a Chat b Sex c Dinner If he just wants to chat forever like so many it is just wasting my time. If he wants sex, no thanks. Every married man in Britain wants free sex from every woman. If he is offering me dinner, he is serious and then I would be really happy. And if the cost of the dinner is about £30 a head it might be worth my while to join if the joining cost was under £30. I would not be gaining, but I would not be losing a huge amount for nothing but rude suggestions from out of work strangers who have nothing to do all day but email unknown women with erotic comments. So here's my suggestion. Males should pay a small premium to tick a box sending a one-liner saying: A I want to chat. B I want to pay for your membership - if you'll have dinner with me. C Please join - I want to ask you out for dinner. D Please signal if not interested. I should be able to reply A Happy to chat. Joining shortly. B Happy to chat. How about a fee allowing me three emails. C Happy to chat. How about a year's subscriptio. D Happy to chat. Please wait. I'm about to join. E No thanks. F Only interested if you are offering a dinner date. C Sorry, not interested. Hope you have better luck with someone else. D Too far. But will join /respond if you are coming to my area. Any suggestions from 'the management' would be appreciated. But messages from you into an inbox when I can't read them are useless. You have to send to my own email which you have. Or have a place where the sites own promotional messages and replies are read for free. I also want to date men in London. Men in the USA are useless. I can't trawl through 30 pages of 'men on line now' hoping to find one in the UK. It would take all day.Then by the time I get there, they are no longer on line although their picture is up saying they are. I want to find men on line in my area for a date tonight. Or this weekend. I can be on line six months chatting to men overseas and still be home alone on Saturday night. Useless. I want to click onto an icon showing a man on line in my area. It would also be better for you to tell him to send me a membership. Another site which offered this service. But the woman had to send a one liner asking the man to pay for her reply. This did not work for me the only time I replied. When I suggested that the man pay (in a one liner offered by the service) I got a rude reply. He could send me messages which I could read but I could not reply. But your site is different because they men are claiming to be affluent. So maybe on your site he should be able to signal to you and me that he would be interested in paying to get a reply if anybody asks. 'Elizabeth'[   |
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Dear Miss Kitka Thank you for your kind comment. I clicked on to your profile which I enjoyed reading. I love the use of a pink font for emphasis. I especially liked the line about - may I quote you exactly? You said: 'I am not seeking random orgasm; I do not enjoy NSA relations. I do not mind if this is what you seek; I wish you well in your search. I just happen to consider such prospects to be unsafe and immature, to be frank.' That makes me laugh. You tell them! Take care. Angel 'Elizabeth'[
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