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Who is acceptable to me -and you - as a dinner date?
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Who is acceptable to me -and you - as a dinner date? Who is acceptable to me as a dinner date? Read the following letter. Does it fit with your attitude? Or do you feel differently? Would you have worded it differently to make it more diplomatic? Dear ... >I love to go out and would willing to have lunch or dinner with somebody who is keen, kind and pro-active enough, after an email containing polite chit chat establishing some interest or experience we have in common, and an exchange of and some phone talk, quickly makes me an offer to treat me - because good food and good company and good conversation and goodwill is always an offer I can't refuse. For the protection of both parties and to allow time for consideration and the build up of anticipation, a first date is always in a public place and platonic. I am not interested in one night stands. It doesn't work for me. Any sales book shows you that that when you push a contact into something, they back out within the seven day cooling off period but you succeed when the other person is agreeing. I want somebody who has an awareness of diplomacy and team-work and harmony, the basis of any friendship and relationship. I am hoping for something long term. Whether it will be long term depends on how well we get on. And whether you have the time and whether your emotions and bank holidays and funds are already committed elsewhere. Surveys show that a small proportion of dating site users, usually those who have had long conversations for weeks, at least long conversations very soon after meeting, find their soulmate instantly. However, for the majority it is a numbers game. You have to go out and have an average of twenty or twenty five dates before they find one who is just right (what they do in a room with Speed-dating). To sum up, I am really looking for my dream a single boyfriend free to speak daily on the phone and see me evenings and weekends, a soulmate who could be my life's companion. But you don't have to be perfect. You just have to be willing to meet on a proper dinner date. But one can't sit around dreaming, waiting for one's soulmate to drop from the sky and land on the rose bush. One has to eat three times a day and go out meet people. So if you wish to invite me out, I would be delighted to accept. You can now run for cover or run towards me and think, she sounds agreeable, sensible but interesting . A witty psychological analysis comes free with every dinner date. Over to you. 'Elizabeth'[   |
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Well, thank you, my friend. 'Elizabeth'[
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