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What are the women here looking for?
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What are the women here looking for? I have been here for a year now. I have written to a few women, and rarely hear back. Many times their profiles are really nice, and I think there is a real connection. If they are really looking for what they say, why don't they get to know me? I don't have the cock pictures, nor do I worry about that they look like. I like a wopman's profile who has a nice picture, a nice smile, is sexy, but also a real person. I try to be respectful, and write to women who I feel have self respect. But in the end, I want a lady who I can get to know, find common desires and interests, and meet for dinner and conversation. If a person only is looking for sex, and has no interest in anything else, I doubt we would click. Hey ladies, if you are good people, get to know me. I like ot give orgasms, but also like walks on the beach, conversation, games and roles, and giving and getting pleasure. Passionate sex is only one part of me and my life. Lets connect and go from there. |
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Dear Michael I can suggest several ways in which you could make small improvements to your presentation: 1 Folded arms is a keep away gesture. Retake the photo with arms by your side or holding something such as a book or newspaper or piece of sports equipment - but this might attract those who like your sport and repel those who don't so more neutral is just a pen or computer which is acceptable to everybody. 2 Smile. A welcoming, happy smile. If I meet you in a restaurant and you are unsmiling with arms folded my first thought is, this guy doesn't like me. Show that I will be meeting somebody happy who will put me at ease. 3 Arms look huge in the picture, larger than head. I love red but focus should be on head, not arms. Maybe try an outfit with sleeves. Stick to red. The red is great. 4 Viewpoint is from down below, as if the viewer is subservient or about to perform a blow job. Put the camera higher, so the onlooker meeting you for the first time is face-to-face. Much friendlier. 5 Fringe is untidy and spiky. Wash hair and comb it so it looks neat and soft and clean. 6 Eyes look white and slightly ghoulish. Are you wearing glasses reflecting the light or what? I want to see the pupils of the eyes, smiling eyes. 7 Background is plain which is good. But something more classy would be good, perhaps outdoors, since a simple white door suggests you live in a prison or trailer. What does the reader get on first date? A locked white door? Maybe the lady would prefer a romantic waterfall or restaurant. If you like walks on the beach, take a photo of yourself on a beach and you will attract somebody who fancies walks on a beach. They immediately know something about you from the photo - a guy who likes walks on the beach. 8 You are ahead of most people because you can construct a sentence. But since you have an above average education and attention to detail, you are able to get it 100% right and create a good impression. So, use the spell checker. For example, in your comment above the word woman has a typo and is wopman. First sentence of second paragraph reads I like ot instead of like to. Makes the reader struggle to understand. Spellchecker would have caught that. You use the word nice three times and you could change it to something more specific and use three positive words such as their profiles are attractive, an appealing picture, a friendly smile. The last sentence has a punctuation error. The word lets should be let's for let us. I can't guarantee that any one or all of these changes could move you up, but an improvement in grammar could influence a person to move you onto the shortlist, either as a conscious decision, or an unconscious decision. Since you asked, it's worth a try. 9 What makes you an individual? When you go for a walk on the beach what will you talk about? 10 Women often want to be the only one in your life. Addressing the reader as 'ladies' suggests you are looking for more than one woman, whereas if you talk about 'you' I would feel we are already a twosome, a couple in a conversation. 11 Keep sounding happy, or at least end each sentence and paragraph cheerfully. I just changed that sentence to end with the word cheerfully. Your first paragraph ends on a negative note, whilst the second one ends on a positive note. You can turn sentences around so the negative is in the first half and you put the good point at the end to leave with the impression that you are upbeat. 12 Somebody told me that most men are looking for sex whilst most women are looking for a long term relationship. This means solvent. And not rushing into sex immediately. On a first date I don't actually want orgasms and walks on the beach (everybody man on here is looking for sex and that wording might suggest he's looking for sex and a cheap date?). I want a meal in a restaurant. Maybe that's just me, but I think that before we get to that remote, romantic beach, we need to meet in a safe public place with a crowd of jolly people to lift our mood. You've got the sentence ending dinner and conversation. Switch those two sentences and don't end with doubt but with dinner. 13 When you write a comment, you might get responses from several women. But the person most likely to reply is the person who posted. So pick lots of posts by women in your area and send at least one comment which addresses them specifically by name, just as I have addressed you personally as Michael. Opening a letter 'hi' without my name, without any form of address does not start the right way for me. If the name doesn't sound right, use part of the name or an endearment. I would respond more to Hello, my darling, or Dear Angel. Michael, I hope this gives you the confidence to try again with enthusiasm. To other readers, I trust this will interest you, too, and I'd like to hear from you, as I'm sure so would Michael. 'Elizabeth'[  
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