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Being asked out...  

MajorEasy 54M
3026 posts
3/9/2011 4:44 am
Being asked out...




I know women are used to this...but it's not an easy passage...



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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 54M
2692 posts
3/9/2011 4:44 am

I was chatting with a friend...actually an ex of a friend...

We joked and flirted for a week...I wanted to know that she was alright...he and she are not on talking terms any more...which was a shame...

Well...that happens when one person pisses the other off...and more hurting words thrown at each other...the end!!

Anyway...after checking that he was ok...he asked me to check that she is ok too...gave me her number and I texted her..

After a couple of weeks, both of them kinda moved on and lived their lives...

She and I kept in touch and our jokes got more and more risque and flirting erupted...and this went on for the past week...no foul since he is ok with it...

When I invited her to visit for tea or dinner...to catch up...she said she would love to...just didn't like the thought of driving 2 hours up and back in one evening...so she needed a place to stay...the suggestions and banter continued to a point where we both thought she could stay with me...

Cool...I said...just don't hog the bed...

She teased that she always slept in the nude and wasn't sure I could handle it...

I replied that I sleep naked too...just stay on her side and we will be fine...

And so it went...before we knew it, we were talking about what we'd do to each other to keep warm...and that just got sexual very quickly...

This went on over 2-3 days...

Then we texted normally for a day without sexual innuendos...but she came back to revisit the sexy stuff...said she really wanted to come up now...to catch up and also to find out if what we discussed would happen...

I assured her that more than what we discussed can happen...

Suddenly she stopped texting...

Hmmm....

Half an hour later...she called...now, talking is new since we have always texted...but hey, must be urgent...

We talked a bit...then she said something like this:

I've been thinking about doing those things with you...I really want to...but...I am not that kind of girl...I need to be a in relationship before I can have sex with the person...I know you are currently seeing a few women casually...and what I am about to propose is a big ask...would you still want to do those things with me?

I had to sort out my thoughts so I kinda grunted...

She continued....
If you really want those things with me, we will have to be in a relationship...what do you say?

What about those other women? I asked...just to stall for time...

She said she didn't care about them for now, but I shouldn't contact them while we are together....if we didn't work out, I am free to do whatever I pleased....

I said...ok...more to acknowledge that I understood what she said than to agree...

She giggled and declared...
So now you are my boyfriend....

My mind went blank...

Goodness me...is this how it feels to be asked out??? I didn't have much of a say in the whole thing at all...

I do like her...she's funny, smart, sweet and sexy...nothing wrong with her whatsoever...but...I keep getting this feeling that I wasn't given a choice...

Alrighty...I can handle it...I'm game...we'll go out for a while and see how things go...

I don't know...I feel a little let down by the experience though...this is so entirely different from when I ask a girl out...

Will women please share their thoughts on this...is this how you feel when a guy asks you out...kinda get muscled in that leaves you with little choice...but if you like the guy, you'll go along for the ride??

We do learn something new everyday...

Christ oh mighty...I now have a girlfriend...hahahahahahaha


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


ericswildparty 48M
108 posts
4/19/2011 8:30 am

Hey Major!

Well its been over a month now.. hows the "Relationship" going?!?!?
EWP


Philips66112 48M

3/18/2012 3:02 pm

You really think that this is what it's all about....look me in the eye. I have learned a whole new chapter in human economics.


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