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Friends.............
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Friends............. Alotta ppl ask me after reading my profile. "Why do you even bother to come here?". My response is  ... I still have my friends here and I come to hang out chat & have a laff with them, that's not gonna change anytime soon. What disturbs me is SOME (and I did say some) of the attitudes I see. Some ppl take the chat experience wayyy to seriously. I realize that sometimes relationships do develop here, and that's fine. My own relationship was formed thru A FF. And when you meet someone and "get to know each other" and you BOTH decide to become mutually exclusive, be it just in the cyber world, or maybe outside this venue, such as email, IM or even phone that's fine if it's your thing.. Or meeting and having a relationship out there in the real world. It's all good. I'm not knocking anyones preferences I've been thru each of those stages myself, and I've if nothing else learned something from them, and I've wasted my time with some of them, that were going nowhere.. But At the end of the day, I won't say I regretted any of them. One thing I cherish besides meeting my 'hunt' is my friendships I've developed here. And though I'll probably never be fortunate to meet most of them outside of the cyberworld, I am better for having known them, glad to call them friend. You girls know who you are... Tulip/Juicie (my partner in crime) *grins* and my Sis for always, one whom I came to know and grow close to thru a mutual understanding of "Our Fuckers" ..lmao ... see even the most catastrophic (being dramatical here..lol) A FF relationships bring about something wonderful, and one such failed A FF relationship brought us together and made us friends and so much more. *glances @ the dusty leather couch & the old fading "Wanton Girls" sign....big Sigh* Tight my soul sister.... a cyber goddess, one whom I connect with on a different level, a kindred spirit, with feelings & thoughts much like my own...the first female in A FF to call me her Sis and truly mean it when she called me "Friend" .... one who can make me laff my ass off, and always bring a giggle, a smile and always a laff, and brighten even my darkest day. Cinn (Cinnabar) A woman I admire, she's not into the drama & the A FF games. Witty and intelligent, she can chat about anything from music to cooking and beyond, she's a really sweet person who will respect you and treat you nicely, unless you fuk with her and then (understandably) "watch out" cause she takes no shit from anyone, she's sweet & friendly, but tough when she needs to be. When provoked or bothered by the idiots & trolls she'll kick them right into in the iggy bin *giggles*... but usually not til she lets 'em know what she think of them. I always enjoy chatting with her on any topic. Wild...(wildnsexy25) another soul-sister ... omg she is just what her name implies...she is the epitome of sexy ...she can turn a man crazy with her teasing alone, not to mention great looks & a killer body, totally outspoken..the life of the party, I sooo miss her sexy ass since she moved away.... when she's befriended you, she'll be there for you in a heartbeat, ready to come out fighting when you need back up, but ALWAYS there with a soft shoulder to lean on & a sweet smile, or anything you need, when your in need of a friend... and I am privliged to call this sexy woman my friend online & off. So many have come and gone thru A FF, and most are sadly missed, and for a few the thought "Good Riddance!" comes to mind, these girls are the few remaining from way back when. and there are some I've yet to get that close with. Friendships take time, and anything that develops in a week of hugs & hi's are never really TRUE friendships. Like any relationships friends take time to grow.... and then there are the occasional aquaintances that will never be anything more than just that. But as for my Friends... They are as important to me as my offline friendships. Let's face it this is a cyber generation. Cyber friendships, cyber relationships and yes cyber sex, for some this is the venue they choose, and that's fine, sometimes your online friends are there for you alot faster than the "real world" friendships. Regardless of the types of relationships or reasons for them, it's not my place (or anyone else's) to judge anyone for their choices. Whatever floats your (or their) boat. I can't help but laff at some of the trolls, the lurkers and the fuktards, but I do give them credit (when they aren't trolling, lurking and causing trouble undercover) they are who they are, and don't hide it, I personally get along with most anyone as long as they are respectful to me. But would you prefer a troll who makes it known "Hey Ima troll" ...OR... someone who sit's in a chatroom, or comes to your blog, laffing and joking with you and pretending to be your friend under a regular handle ...YET... has this other handle (or even under their regular one) they keep hidden for times when they want to come in and bash you and tear you down to your face or behind your back?. Yes I could name a few of these people, but I'll just keep quiet and smile & pretend right along with them, but always keep my back to the wall when they're near. But when they decide they want to start hatin' on my friends I'll not keep quiet. Tight you are one of my best friends, you've been a real friend to me, and as I write this I think of you, and I write this because I think of you, of how you have experienced this first hand....and because you support my blogs I dedicate this one to you. I know there are haters that smile in your face yet cut you down behind your back, those are not your friends, but a lifes lesson learned. Never let them get to you. Never give them the satisfaction of bringing you down Sis. I'm not that naive to believe everyone in A FF likes me either...and quite frankly [bling 47282]. *smiles* And I can tell you til I'm blue in the face not to worry about those ppl, but I also realize it hurts to find out that ppl you love and trust would turn out to be that way. I guess I'm hardened to the ways of these types of ppl and I just laff  and move on. I choose my FRIENDS and who I trust wisely. I'm suspicious of 90% of the ppl I don't know personlly...I'm suspicious by nature (experience has taught me to be)...lol...so I quietly observe...and I've come to this conclusion.The following is not for my friends, but for the haters & drama queens AND kings out there. So don't be offended guys...lol..So here goes.......... Again I repeat [bling 47282] about those who hate me or talk shit about me BUT  . For those that sit around complaining and bringing the rest down (or trying to) I say   .For those that love the drama & continuously cause trouble ...I say :  no one want's to hear your bullshit, lets try and keep this a  free zone plz. For those that think they can come in hang out awhile and then begin to regulate things *glaring @ them raising a brow* telling us what they think and how we should or should not act ...wellll....ya know  and honestly [bling 47282] about yours..... soooooo  while you sit down and  .And for those that get mad cause you can out-cyber their panties off and/or you just cybered the guy they cybered last nite ... *shaking my head*  so why don't you just GET OVER IT! and  .You know   to bad you don't do sexy.This is just my 2-cents from an  ......I believe [bling 38322]....If you have a problem with me you can call  .....   Some ppl havecome to the conclusion that I'm a bitch, maybe but always a        ~Juicy~ |
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Laffin my ass off here Sis, ^5! I love the fact you always tell it like it is. I miss our wilder times we used to have. Things have changed but, alas, not the drama. Thank gawdd....you, Tight and Cinn stay the same. True and honest as always. Love you all for the strong women you are. Grinzz. *blows a kiss*.
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Great post, great bling in all the right places. You sound like a true blue friend. All the best to you and your girlz. Happy Thanksgiving!
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11/23/2007 8:31 am |
Awwwwwwwww~{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Sis }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You know I love you way more then all these other women..lol..(no just kidding ) How can anybody not love you,you are epitome of all you spoke about here sis...If you only knew how I smile when I see your handle...if you only knew how much your friendship means to me and if you only knew it's because of you all your sis are really the *Lucky ones~Muahhh....now I'm not gonna tell ya what I really wanted to say here cause then all the others would know how to *Steal ya away from me..lmaoooo....  Thank you for including me among all these intelligent women...I'm flattered.. 
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You are without a doubt in my mind, the kindest, sweetest most beautiful person i have ever met.You're my very BEST friend,and I can't count the times i've thought how lucky i am to have you in my life, ur the 1 I know I can always count on, you've been by myside thru the good and the bad. And it's made me love you even more. Baby you have no idea how SPECIAL you really are. And I wanna THANK YOU for saying YES to me 2 yrs ago when i asked you to be exclusive. I smile everytime I think of what WE'VE built as a cpl, you brighten everyday for me baby, and i'll love you heart and soul for the rest of my life. Thanks babe, you brighten everyday for soooo many, often putting urself out for the ppl you love. Smiles...you'll always be, MY BABY, MY LOVER, MY FRIEND....I LOVE YOU, ALWAYS tight,tight hugs, deep passionate kisses....
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Check ur email babe, love you, kisses
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12/5/2007 7:27 pm |
Agent ~ JG-420 ~ Get your friends cumming!!! Please!!! Help... damn he left me with too much work to do!!! Oh no! You have been a no show. If you have you must return with more earthlings. We have lost Glef to an error in translation. Please return to your station and feel the Blex... its most important or the Insane Bloggers will be lost without their leader. He has been most generous with all his purple splooge. It has most infinite healing powers. Please return to [post 1128267] and CRAJELFONX THE BLEX or we are all lost. Agent OralCall4U PS: Please sign in with your Secret Psycho Blogger ID... its important that we know you passed muster... not gas.
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Laffin my ass off here Sis, ^5! I love the fact you always tell it like it is. I miss our wilder times we used to have. Things have changed but, alas, not the drama. Thank gawdd....you, Tight and Cinn stay the same. True and honest as always. Love you all for the strong women you are. Grinzz. *blows a kiss*. I just tell it how I see it or say what I think...some things need to be said *chuckles*... Aww Sis I miss the old days of A FF too... Poly as it *used* to be....when everyone was there just to have fun & hang out to get AWAY from the drama not create it...lol...the cyber auditions...the *tulips special order couch*...the wanton girls and of course "our" sign...giggles... yes things have changed 200%...lol...the drama is crazy...the jealousy & pettiness in A FF is ridiculous....*sigh*...there aren't enough of us old schoolers left to reclaim Poly ...lol...but we'll always have "our couch" and our place in there will always be ours *smiles & winks*.... But opening up our own room still sounds good to me...lol Thank you Sis for the comment....awww and your right up there in that catagory the true & honest.... Love you too Sis  *Blowing back a big ol' kiss*...lol...muahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ~Juicy~
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Great post, great bling in all the right places. You sound like a true blue friend. All the best to you and your girlz. Happy Thanksgiving! Awwww I just don't like to see my friends smiled @ & chatted to by people acting all friendly when they enter the room, but then by those same ppl, talked about and belittled when they aren't around... If I don't like someone I simply don't speak to them, and if they're that dense and can't tell lol and insist on posting to me, I'll give them a short and simple hello and hope they realize I can't be (as the Brits say) arsed to say hi or do the huggy stuff and then proceed to converse with them...*chuckles* I've gotta get over to your blog & catch up... I've not gotten a chance to read anyones blogs yet, but I will get to them soon. Well thanksgiving is gone (along with all the major holidays)...lol...but Easter is around the corner so I'll wish you an early ~Happy Easter~ in case I don't get in here around that time...lol..again ty for commenting...I guess if your here you've seen the issues I'd had with the blog page..A FF go figure!...lol...*hugs* t/c ~Juicy~
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((((((((((((((((((((((((( Cinn )))))))))))))))))))))))))  ...awwwww your welcome and ty.Just speaking the truth, like tulip you are up there with the "honest and true". And that's not something I'd say to just anyone...especially in A FF...lol...actually theres very very few I respect as much as you & tulip. And very few I can honestly say "I really like her", but you are definitely one of them .I always enjoy chatting with you, we can talk about anything and it's always interesting. It's also fun hanging out with you, joking, laffin and watching you handle the trolls...lol...and in the late hrs when the random ones come in, you got me holding my sides & lmao when you mess with them...it's always a pleasure to hang out and chat with you Thanks for commenting Sis and for the compliment *huggggggggggggggs* ~Juicy~
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Awwwwwwwww~{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Sis }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You know I love you way more then all these other women..lol..(no just kidding ) How can anybody not love you,you are epitome of all you spoke about here sis...If you only knew how I smile when I see your handle...if you only knew how much your friendship means to me and if you only knew it's because of you all your sis are really the *Lucky ones~Muahhh....now I'm not gonna tell ya what I really wanted to say here cause then all the others would know how to *Steal ya away from me..lmaoooo.... Thank you for including me among all these intelligent women...I'm flattered.. Awwwwww yeah but ya love all those other girls too  ...lmao j/k.aww ty for the compliments  .lol @ you....nope no one can steal me away from you...hehe...I told ya... I always tell all the girls if I ever make that leap over your gonna be my 1st *giggles*..... Awwww of course I'd include you, I couldn't leave you out, as a matter of fact you were my inspiration for starting that post *smiles*. You know I love ya Sis muahhhhhhhhhhhh ~Juicy~
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You are without a doubt in my mind, the kindest, sweetest most beautiful person i have ever met.You're my very BEST friend,and I can't count the times i've thought how lucky i am to have you in my life, ur the 1 I know I can always count on, you've been by myside thru the good and the bad. And it's made me love you even more. Baby you have no idea how SPECIAL you really are. And I wanna THANK YOU for saying YES to me 2 yrs ago when i asked you to be exclusive. I smile everytime I think of what WE'VE built as a cpl, you brighten everyday for me baby, and i'll love you heart and soul for the rest of my life. Thanks babe, you brighten everyday for soooo many, often putting urself out for the ppl you love. Smiles...you'll always be, MY BABY, MY LOVER, MY FRIEND....I LOVE YOU, ALWAYS tight,tight hugs, deep passionate kisses.... You know me I won't say a whole lot here, I'm pretty much private when it comes to putting our "stuff" out there...but theres nothing I can say here I haven't already told you *smiles*.... But I think I am a pretty lucky girl to have you in my life...it's been a long long road and we've managed to keep it together so I think that says we've been doing something right...lol...you've been there for me thru the good times and then alotta difficult times in my life and then @ the worst time in my life when I lost my Mom *soft smile*.....just wanna say once again, thank you so much for being there...lending an ear and a shoulder ... caring & giving me your love.... awwww it's because you love them that you put them, their needs before your own when it's called for. And now that I've got more fingers ...lol.. than ppl that are that close to me left in my life I'm so glad your one of them...I Love You babe....always ...*kisssssssss* ~Juicy~
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((((((((((((((( Wine )))))))))))))))).... nods and smiles as he bows.....*giggles*....you are such a sweetheart....your smart, charming, witty and the list goes on... I believe it's best to tell someone what you think and who cares if they don't like it....odds are they didn't like me in the first place...lol....but I won't sit and smile and chat away acting like I'm someones friend if I can't even stand them...lol I don't like chatroom drama it's so childish and ...well...just plain stoopid...lol....I try and be civil to everyone and those I don't care for I'll avoid any kind of chat with them, or even a hello, but theres not to many I dislike THAT much.... there are those I know but really don't KNOW and some I really don't wanna know...lol... if that makes any sense? then there are aquaintances, then theres that few I ...hmmm.....I won't say hate, thats a really strong negative emotion, I refuse to carry that kinda baggage around with me messes with my karma...lol..dislike strongly is a way to put it ...lol... (ok there is one in Cyber Fantasy I absolutely abhor)*laffs* but I can't stand anyone who act's like they are above everyone else, normally I will just chuckle @ this person's insecurities or laff at how stooopid and idiotic this persons posts are. I have to bite my tongue quite often, cause I'd never chance giving them the idea that there idiocy actually gets to me. It doesn't but it does piss me off to watch her treat ppl like shit just because they aren't up to her standards of chatroom etiquette. Anyhow enough ranting...lol... Aww ty and it's always a pleasure to see you in the room and chat with you too. I think that'd be sooo cool to meet you and hang out in person...wish I could gather up Cinn & tulip, tight & you and a few others and just have one big party...lol....but we are all scattered all over the place...*sigh* TY Wine and you stay the sweetheart that you are as well....*tight hugs and a big skotc* ~Juicy~
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Agent ~ JG-420 ~ Get your friends cumming!!! Please!!! Help... damn he left me with too much work to do!!! Oh no! You have been a no show. If you have you must return with more earthlings. We have lost Glef to an error in translation. Please return to your station and feel the Blex... its most important or the Insane Bloggers will be lost without their leader. He has been most generous with all his purple splooge. It has most infinite healing powers. Please return to [post 1128267] and CRAJELFONX THE BLEX or we are all lost. Agent OralCall4U PS: Please sign in with your Secret Psycho Blogger ID... its important that we know you passed muster... not gas. ~Juicy~
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