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What makes a good lover
What makes a good lover A really open question I suppose. I dont want to talk about what i like and what I am like, as i beleive to classify yourself a certain way is a little arrogant. Anyways. Does a good lover start with the visual aspect. I find many people I speak to are intersted in seeing a picture within minutes of talking to someone. Does this mean they are superficial, hell you may not be a model, but a great lover. Some think personality is the key. A good lover is receptive to listening, talking and discusssing sex with the partner. But if you dont get past the visual aspect, then this you would never find out. Is it actual performance in bed that counts? Does pounding the pavewalk so to speak for 1 hour make you a good lover, or does that mean you are a good stayer. Does having ultimate foreplay comlement this or does forewplay alone make you a good lover. Not saying that one is right or one is wrong, just an open thought, happy to hear comments if you so wish to add a reply. Thanks... Mark. |
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10/4/2008 7:54 pm |
Hmmm good question and hard to answer... maybe the answer is some of all of the above... I think people ask for a photo to try to ascertain that you are who you say you are..that is, you say you are 35, but are really 58...this happened to a friend of mine once, so a photo is another form of validation, although not infallible obviously. A good lover is someone sensitive to their parnter's needs. Whatever they may be.. Personality comes into it when looking for something longer term, a friend with benefits/ long term partner, not so much in a one night stand for some. A really good question, you have me thinking about it now Mark, thanks. M x
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10/4/2008 9:38 pm |
I think the word, "lover" itself holds the answer. A man who can truly love with his heart makes a good lover. Throw away the technical sex manuals. Just try to find someone you truly love and the rest will fall into place. Of course, this is from a woman's point of view!
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