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Blogs > sexymermaid6956 > Mermaids rear window

a piece of us is lost  

sexymermaid6956 70F
10088 posts
2/7/2012 7:04 pm

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a piece of us is lost




when ever someone close to us passes a piece of us disappears..our time with that person ...is made of memories..funny ..sad..full of love ...no matter the loss .Be it Mother or Father ..siblings or our partner..the fact is there are no more memories to make ...there are those only to hold on to..that saddens me ..but i am the kind of person who loves to celebrate ..the person..who always has a spot in the heart..mind and my very soul

grief ..i wish was brief ..to me it is ..cause i am alive and making other memories ..with my friends..my sons..my grandchild..memories ..that warm and delight me...

warm hugs to those of you who have lost loved ones...may your days not be to filled with grief but of the memories ..of smiles and laughter ..of the good times ..peace to those of you who are hurting

love you





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Seduce my mind and my body
sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
2/7/2012 7:16 pm

 this picture was taken three years ago ..after my dads service...the red was to remember my mom by as her fav. colour was red...i smile cause no matter how much i missed my dad ..i was happy he was at peace without pain and no longer lonely ca in a nursing home ...he missed my mother and i smile cause i know they see each other when they want to..they are on different levels..but see on another...the place where they are is colourful and filled with people who have passed before them ..the horses and dogs are there ..i know..i can not wait till i see it all and get to experience the joy and piece they now have...
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rm_bengl66 63M
7288 posts
2/7/2012 11:59 pm

 hi Nan
it is not easy with such feelings.


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blockhead37 55M

2/8/2012 3:00 am

 So important to make the most with the time we have....
A persons heart will tell you how they lived,and perhaps died But it can never tell how it loved.


bodyandsoulforu 73M

2/8/2012 7:52 am

 Very appropriate. I remember my mother with joy and not the frustrations she went through for several years. It was a blessing she passed quietly.


Soshogun 73M
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2/9/2012 4:07 pm

 Darn, but you are so cute, Sunshine!

As for grief, unfortunately, it is seldom brief. And for me, as you know, it is only the beginning. When part of you has been forcibly ripped out, it is quite difficult to resume any semblance of normalcy quickly. Time, as they say, heals all wound, but it takes lots of times in some cases.


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
2/9/2012 5:10 pm
    Quoting Soshogun:
    Darn, but you are so cute, Sunshine!

    As for grief, unfortunately, it is seldom brief. And for me, as you know, it is only the beginning. When part of you has been forcibly ripped out, it is quite difficult to resume any semblance of normalcy quickly. Time, as they say, heals all wound, but it takes lots of times in some cases.
people heal on there own timetable and everyone is different..it is my way to deal..not that i do not miss or even cry and i do here and there but for me i need the celebration ...not the mourning..mourning is what our dear ones wish not to happen ..and for not to long as they will not find peace in the after world if we keep drawing them back with our sadness...it takes them way too much energy to visit this world ..so through your tears ..smile my friend
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satsubplus1 66M/45F  
4844 posts
2/10/2012 4:26 pm

 I don't know the situation, but those were lovely words of reply to Soshogun
The last couple of funerals I went to were Humanist ones. They were really good (for want of a better word) and celebrated the life and times of, rather than mourning. Yes of course there is mourning but you know! Heck I'm crap at trying to explain things but hope you know what I mean. Mind you, I guess most religious ones are similar too.
Also I don't know what prompted this post from you. I'm not going to ask because I think you would have said if you wanted to. But if it's something recent or an anniversary, then very warm hugs etc right back at ya


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
2/10/2012 6:48 pm
    Quoting satsubplus1:
    I don't know the situation, but those were lovely words of reply to Soshogun
    The last couple of funerals I went to were Humanist ones. They were really good (for want of a better word) and celebrated the life and times of, rather than mourning. Yes of course there is mourning but you know! Heck I'm crap at trying to explain things but hope you know what I mean. Mind you, I guess most religious ones are similar too.
    Also I don't know what prompted this post from you. I'm not going to ask because I think you would have said if you wanted to. But if it's something recent or an anniversary, then very warm hugs etc right back at ya

well my friend ...my friend Soshogun lost his beloved wife as she lost her battle with cancer ...

i hope he does not mind me talking of his pain in such an open forum
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sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
2/11/2012 5:31 am
    Quoting  :
you dear lady have always been one of my fav peoples from here...sorry for your losses...and i know that feeling of detachment all to well...i for one are glad your back ...love you dear "S"
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able225 72M

2/11/2012 6:05 am

 Thanks Nan

Your kind words always seem to help

My Dad passed away in December(95)I miss him,at i do hav my "moments",but other wise---not to bad


rm_CurvBHldr 72M
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2/27/2012 3:36 pm

 One of the nicest, inciteful, & most succinct encapsulations of the vagaries of life and how to cope with them that I have seen.


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