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Good Sex to no Sex  

klit_licker2000 71M
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2/11/2011 4:25 pm
Good Sex to no Sex

My partner and I have been together for some years now. The sex back when was great, adventureous, exciting, and loving. Thru the years her sexual appitite decreased and (of course) mine increased. I always though that the womans was suppose to increase and the mans was to decrease. I guess the people that did that study must have their information wrong.
Anyway, it's so bad now that there is no sex at all. I'm always horny as hell and she gets mad if I start to try anything. She usually says she has a headache or something like that. I can't even tell you when the last time we had sex and thats way too long.
Now, what should I do. Continue not having sex with my partner and let all the equipment deteriate slowly. Or should I find new partners and continue with a discreet sex life. We live in the DFW Metroplex and there are plenty of wonderful ladies here that could fullfill my needs (any volunteers). I know most people think that a person in there 50's are old but I have news for you try one and you'll be suprised what you find.
Let me know what you think?

AllSpiceNotSweet 71F
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2/15/2011 9:08 am

 Been there. Done that. Interesting that you don't mention the possibility of splitting from the partner.

I do understand the dilemma. No sex, or cheating, or defining a new relationship foundation.

I moved the spousal unit out after we were unable to negotiate a change. No sex and becoming a born-again virgin wasn't what I signed up for. He was unable, unwilling, and uninterested due to medical conditions and medicine for those conditions. I didn't want to cheat, so I moved him out. A year later, I'm still not certain I've made the better decision.

For me, no sex is easier to cope with than occasional and/or blah sex. I'd rather do without than to be left wanting more. Finding a sex relationship has been frustrating. Yes, being 57 is a factor, along with mutual chemistry and lifestyle, time available, and all the other bull that comes with living life.

Good luck with your journey. Life is to be lived, but figuring out the how is the trick isn't it!
Maya Angelou said: “ There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.”


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