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Details about getting together  

SandraLATV_4Fun 57T
1 posts
6/3/2010 6:44 pm
Details about getting together

.............I love to be Sandra and she exists to be a sex object for men.
I am 100% for real and if I say Iwill meet you, I will.But there are some thingsI want you to know. First I am like the mailman, I always deliver. If we met, I will do whatever it takes, or whatever you want, or whatever you have fantasized about.

Bad Moves

These are a much more common than any girl would hope, but its a sad truth that most men are clueless.

1. Don't ask me if I'm passable. I have pictures available which you have likely seen. That should cover the subject. I am a TV/CD, I have some positives and some negatives in that role.

2.Don't ask me about my age. Again, I have pics on display. The other standard questions in this area are also going to eliminate you in most cases.

3.Don't ask me to contact you when I'm available for you .The ball is in your court, to basically court and persue me. However, I promise to respond to every e-mail you send me. It may be a few days, but unless I delete it by accident, I'll respond.

The Basics of scheduling

I am mostly available weekday afternoons

I can get out about once every 5-6 weeks for a long night, usually on a Wed, so you'll need to be patient if nights are your only option.An e-mail every week or so should be enoughto check on my status and just say "Hi"

All meetings need at least a week of advance planning. I'll cover the scenario for the weeknight meetings a bit latter. The more in advance we plan, the more likely it will work out. If you're visiting LA, I am in the San Fernando Valley area and you should plan on coming to that general area rather than me coming to you. Of course there are always exceptions !

Are you ready for this?

If you have never been with a TV /CD you need to decide if you really are "ready" to go for it. It might just be a fantasy or you might need more time. Thats cool. What is bad are the guys who stand us up, after we go through hours of preparation, leaving us all dressed up with no one to play with. Its also easy to get all excited about a real time meeting when we first meet and chat on-line, but I'd guess its a very small percentage of guys that continue to keep in touch so we can meet.

Another thing is I am a part time TV, not a TS so there is allot of illusion in my femme side. There are soooooo many things that a girl does to keep her femmme personna in to shape and its seldom I can cover all of them. On a major night out, it takes me 4 hours to get ready. Sometimes I certainly look better than others, but who doesn't ! I have a femme face, legs to die for and a very nice ass so there 3 things are usually working for me. But I can't compare with some of the more "experianced and professional" girls that you see at the clubs and elsewhere.

However,I have the attitude,the lust,and slutty nature that is what so many men are looking for, and desireto be with. I am a seeker of erotic adventures. The more imagination you have, the more you will stimualte me, and them more I will please you.

About meetings
While this might sound complicated and maybe even demanding to some, it is the best scenario for both of us to have some fun with a limited window of opportunity.

It's possible that I can meet you already dressed, but if I'm coming to your place, that might not be something you'd want others to see

I might becoming directly from work so the issue is where do I change/transform into Sandra? I do not want you to see me as a guy at this point and I bet you feel the same. The way thiscan work is for us to meet at a desiganted spot, recognizing each other by the cars we are driving. We then drive to a close drive-up sleazy motel. You get a room, open it and then drive away for an agreed upon period of time. I go in and start to get ready. While I won't be doing the 3-4 hour job, I can do a 30-40 minute make-up/glamor job and be a slut-in wating for you.We spend some time together and I then use the room to change back into my "other" self. There are some variations on this plan in which I come to your motel room, sleazy or not,give a special knock.You open the door, but proceed to jump out of the line of sight and I quckly slip into the bathroom to change,unseen by you. One drawback to look out for are the motel rooms where the main mirrors and shink area is outside the actual bathroom and is more a part of the main room. I need space to do my make up and a mini mirror isn't much help.

Also I should say again, that if I say I'll meet you, I wil be there, however, I do seem to always run late. Do not give up, if I wasn't going to show up, I would have let you know. I'll be there. I'm late becuase I'm trying to look my best for you

Other Details

I enjoy adult bevaerage from beer to wine to JD, I am not a cigarette smoker, I have an open mind to other experiments. Please have some condoms on handand some type of lubricant is a good idea. When I come out to be with you,please have the lighitng subdued to medium dark and the room nicely chilled. Harsh,bright lighting is not a girls best friend.
I will be there to be a girl toy for you and I get most excited by being a sex object and being submissive,I will play what ever role you want so don't be shy with expressing the fantasy you have always dreamed of. If you want to take pictures of me thats fine as long as I can get copies. If you have something you want me to wear,lets talk about it so I can help you get a size that I can wear.

What Happened?

So with all this up front, it would seem that it would be easy to pull fof such a meeting, however I would guess about one out of 30 guys who talk to me ever get to the stage of selecting aday. And I have actually met very,very few people this way.

Most guys don't follow through. The burden is with you to get the ball moving , so to speak. Have a firm day or days in mind. Have a location in mind. Give enough notice. Confirm a few days in advance and we need a way to confirm the day of our date. Busy professional people do have things come up that ruin the best of plans, but if you haven't ever done this, I think you need to be honest about if you'll back out at the last minute. Or worse just don't show up and stand me up.

So be a good boy scout and be prepared. If you contact me about getting together and ask me to e-mail you sometime , it won't happen. Its not personal, it doesn't reflect on what i may or may not think about you, its just the only practical way for me to manage possible internet hook ups. If you haven't thought about the logistics, it means to me, there's only about a 2% chance of even moving to the next stage.

I go through allot to be your girl, so I ask you respect the process a meeting involves so I can be the trashy slut you want me to be

After all these details about planning , quickies may be possible?

Yes...its true. Sometimes when I was out dressed the night before or very recently, I am like in heat. Becuase I was out so recently, I am usually still prepared. WIth a day or less notice,I may be able to meet you somewhere for 15-30 minutes, if the place and time are right.

But this is very,very rare, and usually if you're meeting me for the first time and ask to meet me that night, you're moving towards the pack of my list quickly.

I know...What a bitch ! You need to have an idea if I'm in heat or at least propose the "quickie" scenario eloquently with style and manners and it will be fine


rm_the_chefsfv 56M
5 posts
12/14/2014 4:25 pm

I like this ,u express yourself well....I'd love it if u shot me a message,I'd like to chat about some of the things u wrote. Plus hell I haven't had any for almost 50 months...


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