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changing sex Even when we think we know what we want I don’t think we do. I want to have sex all the time but I don’t want to have sex anymore with men that I am not attracted to or aroused by. When I get on BBW Tonight I find a wide range of profiles all introduced by a wide range of photos some face some frame and some just cock and even the penis photos have a wide range from lg and hard to flaccid or concealed. It is interesting to me that this is how I “shop” now. I look at a profile with or with out photos and I gauge people. I read the messages sent to me and I make assumptions based on what I read there. Where did it change? There was a time when I went out to meet people and make my mistakes, I would see a “cute guy” and look at him until he noticed and then quickly look away. Yea I never got very far or met many people that way. Now I see a cute “frame” or read a witty line and I send out a message (look) and then retreat when the target says or does something that strikes me wrong. I do meet many prospects now and when I meet them we chat and move on, either to a next meeting or to nothing... I think that I am just tired of not really understanding how things work anymore. There is no norm: gals are needing the sex more than the guys are, everyone treats a relationship as temporary, lots of people lie as an instinct, and life runs at the speed of reload. A state of non comprehension is not easy state to figure out and to make matters even worse what I want changes with every new experience. Perhaps it would just be easier to let it all go, because by the time I figure out all the rules and regulations of 2015 it will be 2020 and everything will have changed again. Lets Create together. http://BBW Tonight.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J |
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Those are some good point. Life is changes faster as we grow older. There are rules???? I feel like letting it go but I still keep a hook in the water. You never know what will jump in the boat with you.   Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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Like the saying goes - you've come a long way baby! But we'll add a bit more to the saying - "You've come a long way baby - and it only gets better". Take it from someone who has been in the lifestyle since their 40's - fakes come and go and you have to kiss a lot of frogs along the way - but in the end you find a unique circle of friends with whom you can truly be yourself and not have to do anything but enjoy the friendship - enjoy the sex - enjoy the time you have to spend with one another. Lovers come and go - FWB's are truly a god send. Miss you! B & J
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Sounds like never being satisfied or always sizing up others when your with someone.Going after sex for sex's sake is a learned response and when done over and over we just can't seem to be satisfied.F W B 's are perfect for feeding that learned response!JB Using more than all the road!
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Could it be that 'chasing sex just for sex' somewhat parallels The Great Porn Experiment? It gets to where more and more variety and stimulation are required to become aroused...nothing is ever 'good enough' anymore... we are always looking for more and better...
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i agree i have decided that the key for me is fun. i am just going to have fun until something strikes me as needing my directed attention then i am going to focus...lol Lets Create together. http://BBW Tonight.com/blog/jadesmith69 we can fantasize forever. J
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