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Fathers and Sons, Truck Driving and Depression: The Molotov Cocktail of Fun
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Fathers and Sons, Truck Driving and Depression: The Molotov Cocktail of Fun I wrote the entire blog post and went to post it to my blog and poof.. it was gone. Like dust in the wind.. I'm pretty sure this will be nothing like the original draft, but here we go... Yesterday, I found myself in a conversation with a woman online here. I try not to speak about my interactions here, i know people put themseves on the line here and are sensitive to seeing their thoughts in other people's blog or rant.. So I'm going to tread lightly and keep the details vague. When you are speaking to someone do you ever get an overshared backstory that leaves you convinced that you're going to walk away with herpes... or wake up in a bath tub full of ice with a note urging you to go have that missing kidney looked at by a professional. This time there was enough personal tragedy laced into this story to make you realize why some of her decisions in life were valid at the time. But also enough to give you a broader picture of the scenario that you are dealing with. On the opposite end of the spectrum, I got a friend request from another woman who proudly declares that she is too good for a site like this. Which I couldn't exactly argue with and applauded her for her brashness. We chatted and exchanged pic and even moved our conversation to a more reliable platform. Then I realized, I started to get nothing but one syllable word responses. I just politely removed myself from the conversation and wished her luck finding what she is looking for. It obviously isn't me, but who am I to fault her for that? Which made me start to think.. Maybe I'm too good for this site too. I mean, I may be just another faceless guy here with a bunch of dick pics.. but I think we should all ask ourselves this question. Just for perspective. These two interactions made me wonder what I'm doing here. Not necessarily in a bad way, but maybe I should just pull back from meeting new people. Soooo, this is post #100 and an unofficial end to Volume 3: The Prince of Persuasia. Stay tuned for Volume 3: The Coconut Oil Chronicles. This volume will follow me through my path to quit looking like a person that just ate a ghost pepper after having sex. |
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Speaking of looking like a person who just ate a ghost pepper.... now I'm thinking of that Mac Lethal video where he tries to after eating one! Completely unrelated but hey, that's me.
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 I'm not good enough for this site cuz I don't even know what a ghost pepper is!Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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I very much like the Goethe quote to the effect . . . I'm paraphrasing . . . that if you treat people as though they were what they ought to be, then you help them to become what they are capable of being. Despite the often sleazy promotions the owners of this site conduct, the name is still about finding adult friends. That's a good thing - finding new friends - that isn't always easy in the adult world . . . compared with most peoples' experiences in secondary-school or in college where so many of our past friendships were formed. Oh sure, there are plenty of people here - perhaps even the majority - who may roll their eyes and think "Sheesh, don't be naive! This is a hook-up site for horny people looking for use-and-discard types of sexual encounters." Fair enough that many people think this way. But that's not the reason that I spend time here. And happily, I don't need to strike jackpot with "many" people. Just a few (more) will do - full smile. Because what I'm looking for are other people - new people - who I feel that same-wavelength "click" with of comfortable conversation and easy laughter. That's a mini-jackpot when it happens, right there! Ideally, those friendships will move beyond sharing conversations to sharing other things, including - but not only - naked-on-the-bed sorts of activities. Regular coffee-dates . . . even occasional lunches together . . . provide their own sorts of fulfilling pleasures. Usually - I gotta say in the spirit of full candor - even long-term friendships I have developed with women I have met through this site, do NOT result in having sex together. That can be because I'm married and an otherwise-willing woman won't cross the line of fucking someone else's husband. Or it can be because our paths are never likely to cross in the real-world. She may live in rural Ohio, eastern-Canada, Greece or Portugal, to cite several friendships I value with women I have met through their blogs here. So although I might like it even better if a friend-"only" shared her pussy with me, it's already a good and welcome thing to add - or to build on - a new friendship. I've never thought of asking whether I'm "too good" to be on this site. That makes no more sense to me than asking whether I'm "too good" to look for new friendships. Treat people you encounter here as though they were already your friends, people. Who knows - your doing so may help them become exactly that. Who already has "enough" friends ? Certainly not me - not yet . . .
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I will never understand how someone would ever say they are "too good for this site". I think most of the time they mean "this site isn't doing it for me", or "I'm not sure this is the right site for me"or something similar. If they are "too good for this site', it may also just mean that they have been interacting with the wrong people. The trouble may be that, because of the large membership here - it is even more difficult to find someone who is looking for the same thing, when the reasons why people are here could be just as varied as the number of people on this site. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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