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Seeing Eye to Eye  

rm_fun2play6709 50F
131 posts
7/7/2015 8:39 am
Seeing Eye to Eye

When communicating with our significant other, we don't always see eye to eye. Why is it that sex takes up the least amount of time in our lives, but yet it causes the most problems? I like being on this site because I can find out what I am getting into before dating. Unlike pof or the matching one...where guys pretend to want a relationship, then try to jump you on the first date...

Why is it that it has to be so complicated? I know what I like and what I need...In the past, the guys I were with were pretty vanilla. I need a little more than that, but I know what I don't like which is a good place to be. At least I thought it was...

Guys are looking for a girl to fuck, because a lot of the things they would like to do, they can't do or won't divulge that they want to do with their wife of 10, 20 , 30 years. Hence, maybe the sexual needs change when you pick a life partner, only to come out again later in life. By this time, you have spent a lot of time with your spouse, gone through a lot of things together, share , friend, and money. So men won't leave their wives (THEY NEVER DO, AND YOU ARE NOT AN EXCEPTION). Anyway, when you decide to get married, do you leave those needs behind? How important is it to see eye to eye on sexual preferences in a long term relationship/marriage, etc.?


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Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
7/7/2015 12:43 pm

First, other dating sites are no different except for here there is less clothes and more direct about sex.
Second, things change in marriages over time. What is said in beginning may not hold over ten plus years.
BUT, communication is highly needed and being true to the statements and agreements. It is a give and take relationship, more give than take.


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rm_fun2play6709 replies on 7/7/2015 2:27 pm:
Communication is key, honest communication is best! LOL
Sure as we get older, it is possible to grow together. I want to believe that. While honesty without empathy is brutality, there has to be a way that we can be honest to our partners of several years, instead of going else where to find what we need. What a wicked web we weave....

KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
7/7/2015 3:11 pm

Your post brings to mind that maybe the people who have open marriages are kind of on the right track. They openly admit that at one point they were sexually involved with their partner and mate, but then... life has a way of suddenly making you realize that one partner doesn't fulfill all our desires.

I was with my partner for 19 years. He slowly started turning into his father, a man that most people would agree was just an awful asshole. I was glad that he had an affair, and in talking about my discovery of it, he admitted that he had decided that our relationship was over. It released me from the guilt of not having had an orgasm with him for several years prior to its end.

Good post. I know Eros got another post out of it, and now I probably will also. Thank you,
Kitkat

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rm_fun2play6709 replies on 7/7/2015 3:41 pm:
Go for it Kitkat...sometimes I am spot on, other times I'm a little off track. Happy to have inspired.

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