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Off putting I talk to alot of guys on here. I really like the different conversations each person offers. It could be serious, playful or sexual. It makes no difference, I enjoy them all. I put in my profile that I wasn't willing to do meet and greets because it's a toss up. It can be good or bad. Since I wasn't finding what I was looking for, I took an different approach. Honestly the meet and greets were becoming time consuming. I blog, I chat with different people. Sometimes the conversation could lead to me wanting to meet. The thing that is kind of off putting is when a guy tells me we are fucking on the first meet and greet. I'm aware that this is a sex site. I'm on here for a sexual purpose. Looking at my post may let you know that I think about sex quite often. That doesn't mean that I can fuck sight unseen. I disclose this. I could never get into indiscriminate sex. So the thought of expected sex is a turn off. If it flowed naturally, I wouldn't have a problem with it. Expectations put on pressure. There's no guarantees in life. A reason why I think I got frustrated with the meet and greets, was my expectations. If I do start back meeting and greeting, I won't have the same expectations. So another disclaimer: Expect nothing |
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"I know nothing." Do you know the reference? 
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8/19/2016 3:24 pm |
I do Sargent Shults.....or maybe I am just way too old. As for guys expecting sex. Don't let them bother you. Don't let then change how or what you do. This site is about fun if it isn't fun.... what the point.
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8/19/2016 3:28 pm |
Schultz on Hogan's Hero's.....
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yeah can be fun but in general you have to look at what youre willing to do no stress
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Schultz on Hogan's Hero's.....
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wasn't willing to do meet and greets because it's a toss up. .good or bad.. ... Well off course,... they all are. Honestly the meet and greets were becoming time consuming. ... Only allow about 30 minutes for any meet&greet. Don't put a lot of effort into makeup and clothing. Go casual, or schedule these around something else you need to do, that day. The thing that is kind of off putting is when a guy feels as if I should fuck on the first meet and greet. ... You can't do anything about his optimistic attitude he might have before meeting a woman from a sex site. You can try to clear that up with him before meeting, if he seems too eager, or better yet, just don't go. Btw, any woman who is saying ,"I won't have sex on a first meeting", is also just as off-putting on him about meeting with her . She doesn't know, with any matter-of-fact certainty she won't be sexually moved [enough to actually fuck] when meeting him the first time. For both, a meet&greet can go either way. The better way for each to approach a meet&greet is with an open mind, no expectations, no negativity. I'm aware that this is a sex site. I'm on here for a sexual purpose. Looking at my post may let you know that I think about sex quite often. ... So that reasonably can sway a man to think there could be sex on a first meeting.
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8/19/2016 4:50 pm |
this place is no different than meeting another way, generally speaking, it's good to chat and have a connection first before discussing a meet, let alone actually meeting
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8/19/2016 6:19 pm |
Stick to your guns my dear and do what is best for you. Happy Friday. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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wasn't willing to do meet and greets because it's a toss up. .good or bad.. ... Well off course,... they all are. Honestly the meet and greets were becoming time consuming. ... Only allow about 30 minutes for any meet&greet. Don't put a lot of effort into makeup and clothing. Go casual, or schedule these around something else you need to do, that day. The thing that is kind of off putting is when a guy feels as if I should fuck on the first meet and greet. ... You can't do anything about his optimistic attitude he might have before meeting a woman from a sex site. You can try to clear that up with him before meeting, if he seems too eager, or better yet, just don't go. Btw, any woman who is saying ,"I won't have sex on a first meeting", is also just as off-putting on him about meeting with her . She doesn't know, with any matter-of-fact certainty she won't be sexually moved [enough to actually fuck] when meeting him the first time. For both, a meet&greet can go either way. The better way for each to approach a meet&greet is with an open mind, no expectations, no negativity. I'm aware that this is a sex site. I'm on here for a sexual purpose. Looking at my post may let you know that I think about sex quite often. ... So that reasonably can sway a man to think there could be sex on a first meeting. But like you said I do have to be "sexually moved" I have to be feeling it. To say before we meet we will be fucking, is off putting cause I dont know if I want to fuck you yet. Just because I love sex doesnt mean I'm indiscriminate about who I have sex with, so it's not reasonable to think it's a guarantee.
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I do Sargent Shults.....or maybe I am just way too old. As for guys expecting sex. Don't let them bother you. Don't let then change how or what you do. This site is about fun if it isn't fun.... what the point. 
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I agree with everything you wrote, except the last part. Btw I never said I dont fuck on the first meet and greet. But like you said I do have to be "sexually moved" I have to be feeling it. To say before we meet we will be fucking, is off putting cause I dont know if I want to fuck you yet. Just because I love sex doesnt mean I'm indiscriminate about who I have sex with, so it's not reasonable to think it's a guarantee.The guy "Feeling" he might have sex with you isn't the same as , "Hey woman, wear clean panties cuz we're going to be banging".
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Sex on the first meet? Sure, sometimes the chemistry is snappin' and you can go for it and have a great time. But promising sex to someone I've never met is not something I do.
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To say before we meet we will be fucking, is off putting cause I dont know if I want to fuck you yet. .... You didn't say , he says "We will be fucking". Even a guy would get nervous if a woman said that to him before they met. The guy "Feeling" he might have sex with you isn't the same as , "Hey woman, wear clean panties cuz we're going to be banging".
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I found myself at odds with my self assessed "no sex on the first date" when I had sex on my first meet and greet. I was taken aback when I just felt things were right and I was not being pushed in any way. Actually, I was not feeling well and he graciously walked me to my hotel room, made sure I was okay and was going to leave when I asked if he could hang out for a bit while I lay down. Point is that you just never know what is going to happen. I do try and be open and honest ...
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8/30/2016 1:59 am |
Very on point. Great stuff.
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