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Why the Pigeon Holes?  

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7/24/2017 9:17 am
Why the Pigeon Holes?

Well, I have been testing the waters and I am sure I am not the only one on here and for that matter other similar sites that presume you fit into their pigeon holes of what they want you to be.

Firstly, I hate being pigeon-holed and type-cast by the limiting titles these<b> websites </font></b>provide. There's no section for Open-minded Adventurous Hedonists. The profile lists aren't much better. Generalist statements that don't allow you to freely express who you are.

Some are quite happy to fall into line and feel comfortable in whatever of the boxes they have checked.

Are you a man/woman/TV/TG etc etc ? Yes to one but for some they may feel they have affinities to more than one.

Are you bisexual? Yes or No Why don't they allow you to put down "Open-minded about sex"

Why limit the possibilities and create a negative when you have someone who knows, understands or wants to explore all and have fun?

We are what we are, yet we will never learn about each other if we don't open the doors and allow free communication between us. Someone on these sites should see this as a positive step and redesign the questions and allow free flow of ideas.

It's tough stepping beyond the two dimensional, but maybe if they did this we might all discover the hidden traits and strengths that make us special.

What makes me laugh is that there is no forum for this to be posted in. I am putting it under BDSM for now.

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