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High School..............
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High School.............. Thats where i feel like im at again. I date someone exclusively for over 2 months and just all of a sudden poof its over. No explanation, he just disappeared. I know hes alive i see him online. I didnt think anything weird after a day and then even 2. But the third day and now its been 5. LOL the brick landed earlier right on top of my head!!! I feel i deserve an explanation, reason of some sort. I mean a date or two i wouldnt think twice about it but we saw and or talked everyday for over 2 months just about. Im sure he will read this and i just wanna add to the high school portion and say i think hes a mean ass for hurting my feelings. Yes i have em just well hidden for all u smart asses!!!!! I will not say anything mean about him and or negative but ohhhhhh i wanna, argh!!!!!!! Am i wrong in wanting to hear something from him? Thank you for all ur thoughts  Darlin |
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10/18/2006 4:14 am |
No you're not wrong. Two months is a long time for me. All those articles in Cosmo would tell you it's typical male breakup behaviour, but that doesn't make it any easier to go through.
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10/18/2006 5:42 am |
I dunno.... anymore... in relationships (kinda like the cell phone industry), two months is like.. forever! lol It's sad.... but it's true. Yeah... it speaks VOLUMES of his character (or lack thereof) that he didn't feel the need to say... hmm... ya know, it's been real... it's been fun....but it's no longer real fun. Maybe nothing so detailed as.... you have a mole on your left labia that I can't stand, you spit when you talk... you... you... you... but some sort of goodbye so you can BOTH know when it's time to move on. Just my .02...
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Not really the why im after but the its over was what i wanted. Nah we dont wanna go into the "mole" and "spit" stuff, that just starts shit talk and well i am grown up enough to not go there cept with my closest friends. Cmere and ill tell ya  We did have fun together, thats what confuses me most. But o well way more frogs out there, im off to the pond 
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10/18/2006 11:15 am |
everyone needs closure... its selfish and childish to leave someone hanging... yeah he'll read this its human nature... want I should break his legs?
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LOL Dove thanks but its ok. I always think Karma will get em!
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10/18/2006 3:18 pm |
It is juvenile to not communicate with people and just cut them off. People do it because they don't want to have to accept the possible anger from the person they are breaking up w/. They live in the illusion that they are a nice person. But that is not "nice" or mature behavior. Having honest and straightforward conversation is the only way you have mature relationships. The rest is hurtful and sucks.
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10/18/2006 3:20 pm |
1realdarlin: You are right, what comes around goes around. Maybe not in the immediate, but in the long run. He will be in a nursing home someday with noone around and wondering where all his "honeys" are.
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Sweetie if a man is not man enough to tell you why then it just proved he wasn't man enough at all for you. If he can't be honest with you why then can you ever be sure he is ever honest with you. Ladies like you deserve better so keep smiling there are real men out here. As for carma I agree with Buckeyenuts2 guys like him will grow old and alone for there past.
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10/18/2006 5:30 pm |
Hang in there girl. He's not worthy!!!!!
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Spoke to and saw him yesterday, hes a typical man in thinking and not talking. Cant say its all good yet but least we talked and i know why now. Thank u all for ur thoughts and well letting me know im not losing my mind!
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C2, u r correct. That is the same person lol. If i wasnt guilty of doing some of the same things he is doing i may not understand em quite so well. He clammed up as did i. We arent getting married or even a committed relationship but we are in some sort of a relationship, however ya wanna define it. Guards up and well the more times i put it up the longer it stays. Thanks ruff for the shoulder offer, i dont need a dry one yet, im not that hurt .
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10/21/2006 3:13 pm |
you did not tell us why he brock up with you for what reson what did he say might make a diff in my vote its just there is allways two sides but a last if he is an ass hole lets burn him at the stake wipe out all his relatives so as to remove his gens from the mother plant just kidding evil grin
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10/21/2006 7:03 pm |
rejection always hurts-u say over again to urself-"it doesnt matter"-u say to urself "theres nothing i could of done different to prevent the loss"-even if its a just friendship-thinking and not knowing what u might have done or could have done different is confusing and lonely feeling-though we all have been there -most of us will be there again-it sucks to lose something and not understand why? my best and warmest regards to ur sad heart-i hope it recovers quickly-
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happens to me a lot. I think it's internet dating, just hit "delete" and gone, no need for a face to face discussion. It sux, darlin' doesn't it.
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