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Other comments 3 Some men are more turned on by a woman's rear than her breasts and part of a woman that men find most attractive is her lips her face her eyes her smile as research has borne this out and I'm sure they weren't afraid to be honest as it was anonymous research . I'm opposed to women exposing their breasts publicly because I think a man should find a woman attractive not just as a s*xual object but as a whole person with a mind as well as a body .but male chauvinism is alive and well if you're the only woman in a conversation with two or more men they will override, talk over you not listen not want to acknowledge that you have an opinion and god forbid you actually know more about the subject than they do . Then they might close down the topic entirely as its such an affront to their masculinity . Men want women to be simply objects and no matter how they like to pretend that they value women as equals they don't. I think the Harvey Weinstein scandal has borne this out .the most talented and beautiful women were reduced to objects of hate by him .lots of men hate women for being desirable and un attainable so women are blamed for getting because they were being what men want them to be yes I've had this said to me in wake of Weinstein scandal by more than one man . Women can never win this argument cos she's damned if she does and damned if she doesn't. Women will always be second to men no matter how we try . They want the whore and the virgin and not many or any woman suceeds at being both at once ......so you see we simply cant win. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 may be in the minority among men in my personal taste, but I like small breasts. Women with big boobs turn me off.  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 When in the Armed forces we had a saying, any more than a hand or a mouth full is to much  goodbuddy781
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Other comments 1 Having fought that battle and lost, I realize that attraction is primal. You can't reason with it. You can't use logic against it. The body wants what it wants, and reacts accordingly. According to the meter, the body wants bazzoooms. Preferably, huge, skull-crushing Mams, but at least a C cup. Call me shallow and vacuous, it is what it is. They are my Kryptonite. Accordingly, I am mindful of my own weakness and am on guard against being manipulated by a gifted, yet black-souled female. I suppose many a foolish male has been lured upon the rocks and shoals of life, by some biologically-gifted Succubus. I confess.  goodbuddy781
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Tempting men to a frenzy is nothing new. It's just that women have become more subtle at it. Women pretend to be unaware that a full view of their breasts emerges every time they lean forward, that their nipples protrude through the delicate fabric of their bras, or that men might just become aroused if women's breasts keep staring at them. Men, of course, pretend that their eyes don't keep slipping down from women's faces to their chests, that their arms or hands aren't purposely brushing up against women's chests, and that they aren't so enamored of the deep cleavage that they cannot think about anything else. Who can blame them? It's what women want... Right?  goodbuddy781
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Holidays spur a flurry of lingerie shopping that seems to center around flimsy, sheer, lacey fabrics that fit into the palm of a man's hand and cover not much more on a woman's body. In fact, women's lingerie is designed to lift up, push out, or firm up her breasts in order to augment whatever delicate features she does have into something more to tantalize her significant other with. Instead of flashing a pretty smile or batting her eyelashes at a man to get his attention, a woman simply needs to flash a bit of her boobs. No offense, but you all know that the quickest way to get a man's attention, to keep a man's attention, and to get what you want, whatever that might be, is to flash a bit of skin. And what better skin to flash than the soft, tender curves of a woman's breasts? goodbuddy781
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From the time females are little girls until the time they become grown women, they are inundated with the world's perception that bigger breasts are better breasts. Cleavage or practically bare bosoms appear everywhere in print publications from the tabloids to center-page spreads of glossy magazines to fashion magazine covers to billboards across the highways. Plus, they appear in live or taped productions of the evening news, cinematic productions, racy soap operas, and theaters. No matter where you look or what you do, you are bound to spot a few well-developed, curvaceous breasts staring at you from quite a few vantage points. As if that weren't enough, the world has given us wet t-shirt contests, see-through fabrics, string bikinis, and balconettes to emphasize the very simple fact that a woman's breasts are one of her most important features. goodbuddy781
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He doesn't have an interest in meeting in person Meeting people online is great, but eventually it has to move to real life. If your suggestions to meet up for coffee are constantly turned down, you might be dealing with an online player who is just having a good time online and intends nothing more to happen  goodbuddy781
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He disappears a lot If the man you're talking to disappears a lot, or during certain hours consistently, you might be being played. If a man cannot talk to you outside of work hours, this suggests that he has a girlfriend or wife and family in real life. A man who is free from outside romantic relationships will not have such strict rules about when he can and cannot talk.  goodbuddy781
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He talks, but doesn't act People can make themselves into anyone they want to be online. A man can say that he's a businessman who volunteers on the weekends, but does he actually do them? Some people talk a big game to make a good impression, but don't actually do what they claim. Someone who lies for whatever reason, is playing you. Don't be afraid to call out inconsistencies that you find between what he says and what he does.  goodbuddy781
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He sweet-talks constantly You might be being played if the man you're talking to has nothing but sweet things to say all the time. It's nice to be sweet-talked and romanced, but that can't be your entire communication with him. If you're looking for a real relationship, it can't all be fantasy. It's important to have real conversations. If he tells you that he loves you early on and that you're the one for him, but he doesn't really know you, you're probably being played.  goodbuddy781
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The older partner already has family commitments from a previous relationship, which can cause friction with their current partner. On a similar , the possibility of starting a family may lead to tension where the younger person would like to have children but their older partner has a family from a previous relationship, and doesn't want to have any more children. Partners in relationships with large age gaps often find it difficult to relate to their partner's friends, sometimes finding their older partner's friends boring or their younger partner's friends immature. Even if this is not the case, their partner's friends often leave them out of the group, either consciously or subconsciously. Similarly, partners may have different ideas of fun places for dates. As with any relationship, insecurity is of the main issues which can destroy a happy couple. When in relationships with an age gap, partners often find themselves worrying that their other half will run off with someone their own age. If the relationship is meant to be then the partner will understand any issues, and be willing to work towards resolving them. Many people in these relationships, particularly the older partner, make the mistake of bottling up their feelings, assuming that their partner will not understand due to the age difference, or is too immature to want to change. Communication is of particular importance with regards to future plans for marriage and family. Some relationships with age gaps simply won't work, as with any relationships, however by talking things through and making the effort to respect your partner's needs you can increase the chances of making the relationship work in the longer term. goodbuddy781
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Having sex to make up after arguments is common in sex-based relationships. The couple has sexual relations then everything is fine until the next argument but the problem remains because they are not solving the issues. The couple usually spends most of their time breaking up and then making up again. Can this type of relationship work? A relationship needs substance and a secure foundation to succeed. This type of relationship can work if the couple matures beyond just the physical attraction and sexual chemistry. People sometimes confuse intimacy with sex. Being intimate with someone is much more than just having sexual relations. Physical intimacy can develop rather quickly but intimacy on a deeper emotional level takes time. Sex is a temporary fix but it cannot fulfill the need for true intimacy. People that engage in superficial relationships such as those that are centered on sex, often fear commitment. They long for closeness but fear being hurt. The fear makes it difficult to become intimate on any other level other than a sexual level. They opt for lust rather than love so they can experience closeness without allowing their emotions to be involved in order to avoid being hurt. goodbuddy781
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If your last relationship still feels fresh in your mind, even if it ended a long time ago, you should probably wait before diving into a new one. Any lingering feelings of bitterness, jealousy, or sorrow could easily seep into your new relationship. Without even realizing it, those leftover feelings might cause you to sabotage what you have with a new partner, even if it could have been great without the emotional baggage. goodbuddy781
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Good relationships can offer support, companionship, and room for personal growth. These elements thrive when both partners are emotionally prepared assist and support each other. the other hand, relationships can go sour quickly if each person requires a lot of attention, without offering much, because he or she uses relationships something counter his or her personal unhappiness. Be sure that you are in an emotional and mental place where you are prepared give much you receive. In many ways, serious relationships are a string of compromises. You have reach mutual decisions about where you want go, what you want do, where you want live, the type of lifestyle you aspire lead, and what you want out of your relationship. If you live together, you also have to compromise about types of domestic habits. When you're not prepared take part in several serious, potentially life-changing compromises, you're likely not ready for a relationship. That's not say you should never stick your guns about certain decisions, but most productive relationships involve a substantial amount of give-and-take. You're not sure what you want out of a relationship. Relationships require a lot of communication about needs and wants. Articulating these things can be difficult enough even if you have a clear idea of what they are. If you're unsure of what you want out of a relationship, communication breakdowns are more likely become a problem. You're better prepared enter into a beneficial relationship if you have done enough self-reflection to know what you require from a relationship. goodbuddy781
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Even though you can't go to the movies together, you can still see the same films and then discuss them afterwards. This gives an added dimension to the relationship and can help you both avoid becoming a little too "introspective." You can do the same with books. Try and find an online game you both enjoy playing. Many of these allow you to "chat" while you're playing thereby giving you an additional channel of communication. As important as routine can be, it's nice now and again to surprise your partner with a letter, or small gift, or even a postcard Also look out for articles in newspapers or magazines that you think your partner will appreciate reading, and send these off—again, the element of surprise adds to this gesture (this works especially well if you live in different countries and would have little chance of coming across the article otherwise). It's nice for your partner to know that you were thinking of him or her, even when doing something as ordinary as reading the paper! Above all, keep faith in your partner, and your relationship. And then when the time comes and you can be together every day, those endless days spent wishing you could be together will seem to belong in another life. The only thing you'll be wishing for then is that he or she made the bed a little more often! Comments are welcome.. goodbuddy781
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Although you and your partner might have agreed to conduct your relationship on a monogamous basis, that doesn't stop either of you having relationships with members of the opposite sex. However, it's best to be open and transparent about any relationship you do have. This will help allay any fears your partner might have. It's OK to say you like someone, that you find them funny and enjoy their company, although a little tact is always going to soften any delivery, especially if you know your partner might be feeling a little insecure. Just because you're in a long-distance relationship and can't spend time together, doesn't mean that you can't have a social life. It's important for people in such a relationship to have a social life and a network of friends—these can prove invaluable when it comes to offering support during those more difficult times when missing your partner has rendered you pretty low. Your partner shouldn't want you to curtail any of your social activities just because they can't join in. In fact, a loving and nurturing relationship involves wanting your other half to be happy, even if it is, at times, without you! Try not to dig too deep for facts about any nights out, especially where attractive members of the opposite sex are concerned. If you've established that you are both going to be monogamous then that should be enough. goodbuddy781
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It goes without saying that trust is paramount—in any relationship, long-distance or otherwise. In a long-distance relationship, however, sexual fidelity has to be discussed and, as with most other factors, parameters have to be set. At the beginning of your relationship, establish with your partner the boundaries where relationships with others are concerned. If you want a monogamous relationship then it's paramount that you tell your partner. Disaster awaits the person who embarks on a long-distance relationship with the attitude that she knows "he wouldn't sleep with anyone else." Admittedly, even if your partner says he doesn't want to sleep with anyone else, we all know that there are no solid guarantees in this game. But discussing this issue and agreeing on how you are going to conduct yourselves in relationships with others will give your relationship a greater chance of success. goodbuddy781
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Setting some sort of "expiry date" to the long distance aspect of your relationship is a good idea. Although you might not want to do this until you're a little more certain that he or she is "the one," once you've made up your mind, then you really don't want to feel that you're going to have to wait indefinitely before you can do all those things other couples take for granted. And when you and your partner talk about the future, try to do so in a practical and purposeful way. If you're both serious about your relationship, it shouldn't be too difficult for you both to come up with concrete suggestions to enable the two of you to be together on a daily basis. goodbuddy781
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Setting boundaries is also important when it comes to what you both want from the relationship. Again, it's not romantic to talk about your expectations, but if you want your long-distance relationship to have a chance of working, then you should discuss these things. It's OK to let your lover know that you don't want to be doing what you're doing in 18 months' time. Approach the subject with a "so, do you see us still doing this next September?" opener and take it from there. But try and be honest. Although you won't know how you're going to be feeling next September, let your partner know, based on what you're feeling now, how you believe you might feel and what you will be looking for where your relationship's concerned. Discussions such as these can help both parties understand the commitment each other is prepared to make to the relationship. No one wants to feel that what they're putting into the relationship isn't being matched by their partner—and that goes for anything from e-mail exchange to the number of visits each party makes. goodbuddy781
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Effective communication is essential when it comes to a successful long-distance relationship. Not just how and what you communicate, but when you do it, too. It helps to establish some sort of schedule when it comes to communication, and although routine might not sound romantic, it can play an important part. Most of us feel secure with routine; it reassures us to know that something's going to happen at a certain time on a certain day. And it's this feeling that can help your relationship survive, and even flourish. Find the most convenient time to e-mail your partner and then try and stick with it and build it into your daily schedule. Make sure it provides adequate time for you to put down how your day's gone and, more importantly, how you're feeling. (If you find that first thing in the morning works best for you, then you'll have the previous day's events to write about.) You might not be able to stick to this schedule all the time, but if you know you're going to have to deviate from it then let your partner know. If you're going to be away on business and won't have access to the internet, let your partner know so they won't worry when they don't get their 9am e-mail from you. It's that aspect of communication that's as important as what you actually say in any e-mail. goodbuddy781
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Other comments 4 Been there many times. Even without these signs. People do a big talk and then when the moment comes to show interest or keep promises or when they understand you know they are lying or when you question their weird behaviour, they start to back off. Awful. I have also noticed lot of men have very high standards for the woman they seek. Basically she should just shut up and take all the lies and drama they are saying or doing, without questioning or complaining. My advice to those men is to buy a doll, it is going to be there no stop, they can even forget about it, neglect it, and it will always agree with them! goodbuddy781
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Other comments 3 Yes, been there, and those shity are a real man! Must be they've been mentaly and emotionaly abuse by bad experience of scams. The worst is they wount show up when the times come to meet face to face, the best sissy coward ! And perhaps they are so ugly like a troll! So,what is the difference with a scammers digging wallets and him scamming emotion and mentality ? goodbuddy781
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Other comments 2 Boy ... how true ... i might be up in years but my mind is good ... i get stuck with this a lot of times... women are so good at it .. when they don't get the upper hand on you ..they scream out blue murder .. some just like to dangle you on a string ... i get tired of money hits ... i know a lot of guys are scammers and fakes .. but there are lots of women in that boat too.. just be aware ... i can read most now .. and just move on .... good this is out there to remind others ... goodbuddy781
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Other comments Look for inconsistencies in what he/she says about themselves. Keep in mind that not all those "women" are even women. Some of them are MEN and they dont give a gosh darn in heck whether you get hurt or not. OR they might actually enjoy it. Further, sometimes those "women" or even "single men" you are talking to are MORE THAN ONE MAN. You might even be communicating with a group of men. Most people know how to snatch a pic from online and post it as their own. So much for that. Marriage..frustrated How many times do i have to tell you people about marriage?? HOW MANY TIMES? Just dont do it. Marriage is an invitation to control you, in ways you cannot even imagine. Marriage puts your money AND LIFE in danger. Just because you're not being told about it for various reasons does not mean it's not happening all around you. If marriage "keeps your spouse from just walking out on you if they feel like it" then imagine what it's going to be like to live with somebody who WANTS to walk out on you. Or what if they leave you cryin and bleedin in the corner while they go out to a bar and ohhhh you never expected this! Well NOW you got to get a divorce! If you CAN. I CAN EASILY DO A FEW MORE PAGES, but i'll leave it at that. Oh-well i cant let this one go though. One more. If he/she is BLAMING YOU for stuff you know is not your fault, for ANY reason like, they "had a bad day" or it's "PMS" you had better run WHILE YOU STILL CAN! Ok with great reluctance, im going to end it here. Good Luck! handshake And if you get married, you're gonna need it! professor Realrealityonline today! goodbuddy781
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