well i know toys will not save a bad relationship, and it is not or should not be looked at as an insult some times it takes a bit longer to get there. bigger is not always better,some times smaller can better and it should be worked in very gently not over the phone to your boyfriend it should enhance sex not detract from it
if you haven't figured it out yes i have a toy or as i refer to "IT" B,O.B. battier operated boyfriend 11" 3 around takes a while to get it in but when i do its great have not had an organism from the toy alone but trying yes i using it anally and using lube hope to bring myself to climax with the toy alone