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Thoughts of a man who doesn't always understand why things are the way they are, but has to deal with whatever life throws at him.
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Contacting me
Posted:Apr 14, 2008 3:01 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 2:40 am
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Leave me a message on this blog and i will get back to you. I have tried hanging out in the AK chat room, but i never seem to get to chat with anyone and the IMC messenger sucks...so leave me a message here and if you'd like to get to know me or chit chat sometime, hit me up and we can set up a time and or place to get to know each other. Does anyone really want what they say????
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What do you really want?
Posted:Jan 5, 2008 11:37 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 2:43 am
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I have been around for some time now..i've had three different profiles on this site and in the seven years on this site, i've met only about five or six people. It's not for lack of trying, but that's not reason i'm writing this. I know for me at least, what i put in my profile is what i want people to know about me and what i'm looking for. I would expect that when someone reads my profile, they will either understand what i'm looking for, or ask me to clarify what i'm looking for. Now why is it that I come across quite a few profiles that say one thing, but when you contact them what their looking for is something else? I am at a loss...i am in no way conceited, but what is the problem. I think i am just like everyone else in the sense that all i want to do is meet interesting people who share the same views of sexuality. Sometimes i feel as thought i have been branded by some sort of rumor or something has been said about me or something. If that is the case, i wish someone would say that to me. Although i doubt that is the case, (i know of a few people on this site that have had bad things said about them, but they still get positive responses) it still baffles me as to why i have to initiate all contact on this site. Now before i give the impression that no one on this site is helpful and considerate, that is not the case. I have had a few members actually take the time to respond and say their not interested and to wish me luck, but the majority of the members won't even respond. Also, i am not some sex deprived sicko who doesn't get laid, i am just curious as to why there are so many people out there who say they are looking for this and that, but when what they say they want presents itself, they turn and run. So my question is what do you want?
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My Profile in a Blog Post
Posted:Jul 12, 2012 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 2:40 am
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About me...let's see...

I have been told i'm fun to be around and very easy to get to know. I am very much a pleaser. I LOVE SEX!!! I like to be spontaneous and depending on the situation, will try almost anything (sorry guys, I am not bi!!). I have nothing against bi men, i just don't go there. If you are a couple and he is bi, please keep in mind that i will be there for the woman involved, two heads are still better than one in some cases. I encourage participation by all parties involved.

420 freindly!! If your not, that's fine but don't judge me.

Will not be meeting ANYONE with out a picture, so please have a full body (no head shots) available. Have had to many encounters where you meet someone and it's not the person in the picture.

I dislike people who are full of themselves or think the world should revolve around them,people who waste my time or other peoples time for that matter, and people who don't stick by what they say. Other than that, i think i'm pretty easy going...I am a firm believer in "don't talk about it, be about it."

If i email or hotlist you and your not interested that's fine, just say that and leave out the rude comments..thanks!

I am all about having a good time.

I am a standard member therefore i cannot contact or email those of you i would like to interact with..I can only Hotlist!

My Ideal Person: No fakers!!! Only real people, with real intentions of meeting! Don't waste my time and I won't waste yours! No expectations when we do meet because sometimes the spark isn't there...

I am just looking to make new friends to hang out with and have something in common. Of course great sex also since this is BBW Tonight, but sex isn't always the focus. Speak your mind and i'll speak mine...leaves less room for misunderstandings. NO DRAMA WANTED OR NEEDED. IF, we click and i like you, please be happy with what you get whether it just be friends or whatever...i like being able to know people and being able to call them friends without feeling like we have to have do anything.

I am looking for women(and if they come with a spouse, they can participate or watch. I am in a relationship, but I am allowed to play. If you are a lesbian, bi or like woman, and are wondering why i have hot-listed you, it is to watch you with my partner, or maybe i liked what i saw. For those of you that have met me, you know what's up and we have fun whether or not it's sexual or not.
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WTF!!!
Posted:Apr 25, 2010 11:23 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2013 1:12 am
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I was just told by someone who i was just trying to chat with that after reading my profile they were way to self-centered and too hot hot for me?? WTF lmao..this coming from someone who doesn't even have a pic up lol. Can i get some input on maybe why she felt the need to say that?
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What if...
Posted:May 18, 2008 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2011 11:57 am
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I am beginning to wonder if honesty is actually the best policy on this site...I wonder if i would get more responses if i just put what people what to hear in my profile? Or if i said i wasn't married? Or better yet, what if i said i was looking to find a mate or companion? Would my inbox be overflowing with responses then? I wonder...
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