Last post for this year
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Posted:Dec 31, 2007 1:12 am
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2008 2:43 pm
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Random thoughts on the passing year....
I had some fun here this year. I was blessed to encounter some new folks, and broaden my horizons a bit. I started blogging, and apparently dragged a few others down with me on that. I am now even able to converse with a lady that broadcasts a webcam.
There have been strange things happening as well. Several old friends have resurfaced after not being heard from for 12-18 months. While they all get my attention, one IM'ed me exactly one year ago (on another site), and had not been heard from since, until today.new handle, same person. Hmmmm, I knew who it was right away.
December has usually been a slow month for me as far as online dating is concerned. Not this year. Nobody has time to meet, but everyone seems to make time to talk. I am favorably impressed. The only annoying part of that is the barrage of email I get from dating sites asking me to post a picture, so I can increase my traffic. Sorry, I have nothing but face pictures in my network albums, and have had no requests for anything more anyway. Maybe someday I will go postal with that and post a picture of Dale Earnhardt and see what happens next. If you are not sure about Dale, google him.
On the down side, I helped one close personal friend move out of state, and had several others lose members of their immediate families. No weddings this year, just wakes.
On the up side, holiday depression seems to be on vacation this year. Tomorrow will bring a new day, and a new year. I am excited at the prospect of what will happen next.
Thank you for reading, and thanks in advance for your comments!
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Do You Know Who You r Friends Are?
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Posted:Dec 18, 2007 5:01 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:20 am
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Sometimes push comes to shove. I had a friend in Kitchner, Ontario, that told me that a true friend is someone you can cal at 3AM and offer to help you bury a body. The good news is that he really was my friend, the bad news is that he has been dead for over 2 years.
Anyhow, I got a call tonight from another close friend who might be stuck in Alabama. He was on his way home from Arizona, and was having car trouble. If he calls me again tonight, I will hook up a flatbed and go get him. If not, I get a break. AS it stands, it is 6-8 hours towing. to where he is, and I never hesitated to help him. I tried to give technical assistance via phone this evening, but I will know the hand we are dealt in the morning.
Updates as available..
Bobby
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What is a proper male video intro?
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Posted:Nov 30, 2007 6:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2008 12:44 am
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I will throw this out there. What would you fine ladies that read this palavering like to see of me in a video? Please tell me what positively impresses y'all.
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I know I am getting old...
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Posted:Nov 11, 2007 4:48 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:19 am
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I got a bit of a reality check.
I clicked on the view broadcasted webcams link, and saw there was one from Ft. McMurray in Canada. I have met people from there and know where that is...
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Golly,
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Reality check? (long)
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Posted:Sep 23, 2007 1:33 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:19 am
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Sometimes I spend too much time deep in thought. Most of, if not all of us are on other websites as well. I am actually a member of probably several dozen of them. I do find this one somewhat unique, and frequent it much more than I have. I have learned a lot since I joined this site. I do not have to like any or all of that. I guess I have some issues I am not sure how to address, so I will try to start somewhere.
let me start here then...
As some of you are aware of, I have an account on Myspace as well. I routinely get bombarded with friend requests from under 30 (maybe) that link to other sites. Some of the requests link to this one. Others link to "mirror" sites. As far as being a member here goes, I already know I am also listed on Passion, Amateur Match,and Lesbian Personals ( I get a lot of action from there..., right.). In all honesty, I joined this site as a method of self-defense. I was surprised to find out just how kinky some of the ladies out there are when they show up here. On the flip side of that, I have also met some folks that were sincere, and I think very highly of. I also do not complain about the pictures and the webcams...I also tend to use this site as a benchmark in the sense that on some of the other scam sites, I tend to think if you are not here too, you might not be real. I have none of these issues with anyone in my network. On some of the other sites I have seen semi cropped versions of the same pic in 3 different states, and all the email I got was scripted exactly the same. At least it was fairly simple to keep all those ladies straight. They were all named "Missy".For some strange reason, they all told the same story as well. I wonder sometimes what that guy really looks like...
I will share this, I was a paying member of a site based in Belgium. I emailed them complaining about what you just read, and they did refund all the money I had paid them, no questions asked. Hmmmmmmmm.
Ok, I have typed enough for now. more later on request..
Thanks!
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Responses to my palavering
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Posted:Mar 26, 2007 4:16 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:18 am
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Hi folks,
Better late than never. I finally found the link to actually read and approve comments. As of now, I approved all comments that included no incriminating personal infomation about the writer of the comment (like their name). Those of you that included that information were emailed and posting will be pending pending permission fron the author.
I truly appreciate the responses I have seen so far. They are all worth sharing. As time permits, I will comment on those as well.
Thanks again for reading and typing your minds!
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holy batsuckers, cockman......what does , "good in bed" mean?
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Posted:Feb 5, 2007 11:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:15 am
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Hi,
This one actually took some thought, none of it that was productive. What does that phrase really mean?
That appears to be in the eye (or something) of the beholder. If someone said that about me, I assume it was because I found a way to make them grin just a bit. Is my gratification based on another's pleasure?
Did I miss something? I am not posting this to complain, just out of curiosity. I would really like some feedback from some of you on this one. Some of you have been very well outspoken as to what you like and what you want. Many of you have been kinda quiet. I suppose, my question really is, where do you draw the line between good, and not so good?
I have some ideas that pertain to me, but y'all know that I am twisted...
For what seems like an eternity, I felt that being able to please was the be and end all of that. I suppose, that in that case I felt like I was "earning my keep". At my advanced age and senility, I am starting to think differently, if at all. I used to be satisfied by pleasing my partner, and now I wonder if there is really more to it than that.
Y'alls thoughts and comments are welcome here!
Later,
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ok, so I am in a good mood for a change.....
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Posted:Feb 3, 2007 11:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:18 am
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hi y'all, I was/am chatting with a close friend in my network from another state. It never ceases to amaze me the amount of disrespect she gets. I know her, and she has done nothing to earn that kind of treatment. On the flip side, I have a semi-intimate knowledge of the male brain. It is kinda tubular in shape, about three quarters of an inch in diameter, and somewhere between three to five inches long, at best. And to think that women might wonder why men can be stupid....
What are you looking at me for? The joke is in your hand or wherever else...
Thanks for reading, I hope you got a smile out of my prose!
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The First Time...
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Posted:Jan 16, 2007 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:16 am
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Hi,
Thanks for reading!
Where I was going with this was the very first date we had online.
What was it like, how did it get started, why did you bother do it anyway?
This whole thing kinda came up when I got a message from a friend I have not met yet from another site. She decided to just bag the entire concept. Her reasons seemed valid to me. But....
I will share this in this limited forum as discreetly as practical. When I first appeared online, I was on another site ( a very popular one, and many of you are on it too), back when it had IM capability. I had a profile posted, without a picture, for about three weeks, and got an instant message. We chatted, and it felt really good. Three weeks later, we met. The strange part of this is that she lived far away from me, and worked for an airline. At the time, I was working up to 14 hour per day, and did not really have time to do anything, but I made time to talk to her. It changed my life. I very soon became aware that what I had with her was what I had expected from my marriage, and was not getting. I felt as that I had really made a true friend. I was right about that, for once.
I do not know much, but I do know this:
She was something special, in every sense of the word. Was she what I wanted? No. Was I what she wanted? Probably not. We are still in touch, and she got married over a year ago. I was invited to the ceremony. Our friendship has lost nothing, but what we gave each other cannot be normally measured. We gave each other something that many consider abnormal, or reserve for their pets. We were able to love each other unconditionally, and respect the decisions we made.
Maybe more later, maybe not.
Enjoy!
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Simply Speachless
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Posted:Jan 14, 2007 1:45 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2008 12:16 am
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It never ceases to amaze me what happens when you ask someone to simply tell you the truth. It appears like there is a hidden agenda on the part of some of the ladies. Surely I cannot be so unique that they have to fabricate what they tell me just to get me to sleep with them. I have spent waaaaay too much time on Y! messenger tonite, and am disappointed with what I have found.
Um, women lie.
If I pulled a stunt like that, my sorry ass would be kicked to the curb in a heartbeat. Luckily, I can make a choice. It was not easy, an fact it was painful. All I asked to was to be told the truth. I do not care if the news is good or bad, just be honest with me. At worst, I will find a need to improve myself. Or so I thought. As it actually works out, nobody appears confident enough in anything to call it like they see it. It simply pisses me off that I should be treated like that. My marriage had already failed, what do I now have to lose? There is no good reason to tell me how good it was. If it was that bad, go home. Just do not lead me on, lie to me, accept my financial donations, or tell me that you really miss me or any crap like that. I expected more than that.
Yes, my situation changed. I busted some of my closest friends betraying me, and I am not a happy camper.
Tomorrow is another day.
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