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BEWARE OF THIS PERSON ITSUP2HER
Posted:Nov 13, 2009 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2011 4:43 pm
8645 Views
long story short, got into a chat disagreement w this so called couple a few weeks ago. After about 4 min, i put them on ignore as they werent worth the aggravation. After not engaging w these individuals for over two weeks, i receive this email. Posting it here since BBW Tonight refuses to ban them as well as blocking them from my email. YOU ALL BEWARE this individual has multiple handles and comes into norcal chat to harass women who turn him down. Including the photos he sent as well
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YOU ARE PSYCHOTIC AND FUGLY. I HAVE HAD YOU ON IGNORE FOR OVER 2 WEEKS SO HAVENT SAID A WORD TO YOU. IM POSTING THIS ON MY BLOG AND FORWARDING IT TO BBW Tonight YOU PSYCHO. ---------------------------------------------------
> Sender: itsup2her
> To: foxxxydiva
> Date: Nov 13, 2009 5:49 pm PST
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> Pics 1-3? Shows you going from doable to close to fugly urself. How ironic. Stevia's only reason Diego the Nightmare Sanchez's fighting for the 155lb title, only reason his ex Ali Sonoma's 1.5yr breast tumor vanished in 14 days drinking stevia sweet water, and plug in dan quinn vs bond lapua on youtube. See me, lean n shredded, taking everything a savage 20something Samoan freight train has to give, and then savagely stopping him with a counter right hand-last punch of a 15 punch combo= that lifts him up and breaks his collar bone. And I'm 204.6 n he's 255? And my first fight in 5 years?
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> Wake up, Condoleeza. Both stevia and that violin 'thingy' for making pussies cum over and over work. How stupid you think Norcal Chat's gonna look? Let's see. JariJustChatting? Now Azul something? Seems like no one can stand her in real life, she's a typical Leo bitch(I just got out of an 11 month affair with a former headliner at Mitchell Brothers who's a leo bitch, so I know) and she's the reason I purposefully turned norcal chat into what'll look funny as hell for a model for the ignorant savage middle ages.
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> First night I'm online ages ago, I sign out with "gb room, you don't know me yet, but you soon will" and Jari replies with 'What a whiny byatch, grow a pair will you.'lol
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> Pivotal moment. The response. Be Carey Grant like, or shut her ass down like I'd do in public if her fat pie hole sprouted words like that? I chose the latter, and it's been off to the races ever since. Do you actually think I used the room for sex?lol Think again.
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> Look at my pic, then urs that most see which looks great until you get to #3 which is probably the current chubby you, add everyone elses fake or way out of date pics, and it's no reason why all of the chubby ugly fugly lames at lorees don't like me.lol Think I give a shit? Think some don't call you N..... behind ur back? Funny thing, sista, I've been called a brotha trapped in white skin, and you're seriously bout as ghetto as Condoleeza Rice meets Martha Stewart.
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> Fact, many victims explode in fat, have trouble cumming because of it. Violin took a victim named kris, former student at Marinobles who could have maybe 2 orgasms in 2 hours to so many that she lost count in the same time period. Fact, everyone who's ingesting large amounts of stevia is reporting body miracles just by drinking stevia sweet water. Not having to work out. Could do it just by sitting on thier currently fat asses as they type away their lives in chat.
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> My plan? You could do the following, but you won't. Get some stevia, cheapest lb is from znaturalfoods.com, trader joe's sells em for $10 an ounce, that's $160 a lb when it's $44.99 from znatural, blend some in water, see water turn into a natural gas that spaceships, cars, planers could run off of, then see a huge layer of soap float at the end of the blend. Know I'm the guy who figured out how to make the fountain of youth, by first using stevia to create in water what Einstein was looking for in math on paper. Cold fusion? Try fission. in the blender. Soap floats at the end,get it all out, makes an elixer that morphs a 17yr cancerous skeletal wreck of a cat into the picture of health and now 19, and realize something very important.
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> Maitreya? Google him. Better wake up, foxxy diva. It's not like I haven't said it on youtube or Carson's Corner. Stevia proves I'm Maitreya, it'll one day make me the richest man this planet's ever seen, and with that profit I'm to as quickly as possible return women to their natural? roles as leaders of the human herd. Yes, I agree with you, 99% of men are worthless assholes. Funny thing. Norcal Chat tries to enlist NorcalBiker to intimidate me at lorees, Norcal Biker sees me as v.i.p. invited damn near royalty because i'm considered a savage among savages at Vagos Clubhouse grand opening where he learns it would have been a painful and perhaps emergency room experience had he gotten physical,......
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> If I was the richest man on the planet? I'd buy every woman a house of her own, no strings, and make it so she could take care of her . Women n first? I like that. How many times you wondered why god didn't make women like female lions? Women do know best. Usually, unless they've been broken or damaged by men. My plan? Sooner than you think I'll be able to ask for and get a multi billion loan based on projected sales of the fountain of youth, big blenders will be erected all over making pure h2o and carting off the soap to get it out of the eco system, and with profit try to erase the pyramid scheme of money and slavery from earth forever.
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> This is kinda like a trap, Foxxy Diva. You probably don't know that women actually used to run the human herd. Heard about how new theories state pyramids were poured? As in concrete? As in big ass spaceships like the ones our ancestors drew on cave walls? Not out in the open, but like they were hiding? Ever heard of the purge? When women in any kind of supervisory role vanished? Why does everything we're sold to use in our dialy lives in some way toxify and kill this planet? Why do we allow men to run this planet into a wall like Dale Earnhardt?
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> Like I said, sooner than you think I'm gonna ask for and get a huge loan, and with that norcal chat's women'll get close to first dibs on the free house no strings and good job thingy. I'm betting some might actually be stupidly indignant enough to refuse,lol, which'll be cannon fodder.
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> DQ
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> Let's see what you do with this. how so? your current pics? Heavy, you're not even close to foxxy diva. Thin, yes. You can either test what I'm saying, or become fodder when I make the ignorance of norcal chat a commonplace joke. And I should get an award for being the only one using a pic that actually looks like they usually do.lol
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> that invite to your network thingy?lol prediction: you pass, and in the future feel sick that you acted like a diva byatch when I'm famous for everything just stated above and more. victims not being able to orgasm's almost at epidemic proportions. The Violin took 1 to so many that she lost count. Gonna be hugely popular, and how much ammo to make norcal sexchat look like a bunch of idiotic monkeys?lol As if a future character, named N9 to mimick close enough N8, shuffling over like a genetically defective chimp on crutches to confront me, call me a snake oil salesman, then he trips and hurts himself and never makes it over?lol lol
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> ------ Profile Attached -------
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> We know eating prime rib every night would ruin the flavor. Same for filet mignon. So whether you consider yourselves prime cuts or burgers off the value menu it matters little. Honesty, integrity, and persona will either make you, or make you 'non grata.'lol If you 'caught that,' you'd probably like us. If you think it biased there's no category for heavy weed smokers, you might like us. Or not. And that's part of the fun, isnt it? Figuring it all out? And while you do so, remember this. it's her call, each and every time. Gotta be that way. Hard to replace a woman like that who lets me play with others, know what I mean?lol
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Shit that pisses me off about people on this site.
Posted:Jun 24, 2006 12:55 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2009 4:16 pm
11425 Views

This post is dedicated not to the flaws of BBW Tonight as a whole (never mind the fact that I got 6 of the same emails on advice on profile pics,) but a rant about the people that make it up.

1.) People who think I am a bitch, but play nice and act friendly and then make snide comments instead of coming right out and saying it. For example, I am talking to yet another asshole who mistook my statements as a intent to bash.. really not the case, just telling the peep if they are really shocked that no one planned a gangbang this week, feel free to plan one instead of bitching about the lack there of. Quit leaving your fun up to someone else. Same with the you never plan meets in my area peeps. Get off yer ass and plan something..quit leaving your fate in the hands of others. Anywho..if you consider yourself my friend, don't make comments to the effect of "People in here like to argue shit into the ground don't they." When 1, I wasn't having an argument and 2, you were just doing the same thing yourself.

2.) People who think that it is okay to send you network invites with out sayin hello. Seriously in a 4 min span, I got 4 network invites from people I have never spoken too in my life. They just logged onto the chat channel and sent me network invites. I bit my tongue the first 3 but at the 4th, I told them all, don't think you are going to get in my network without at least saying hello. Right after that post, 3 more network invites. And then I was told if I don't want network invites to log off BBW Tonight. I never said didn't want invites. Just don't want a buncha freaks i don't know that don't have common courtesy spankin it to my pics when they have empty networks and no imagination.

3.) CAM whores and the fucktards that follow them. I think the cams were a great idea initially in BBW Tonight but now it has gotten out of hand. They advertise the people on cams so heavily, that fucktards from round the world log on and flood the chat rooms with the "let me see your tits; can i see your ass" cam directing. It is distracting to the point where there are 14 back to back post cam directing and one of people actually trying to have a conversation. When you have 190 people in the room and one is doing a cam show and 150 are directing it, it is a little hard to try to make a connection if you know what i mean. I think their should be a time limit or what not. Any cam show over an hr or any cam with over 150 views should be moved to the webcam room if their convo starts to be disruptive to the room. JMO, i know luvpump will prob stick it in his enema bag like he does with all the other good suggestions but whatever.

Maybe I have just outgrown this site.....
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My Profile- Revisited
Posted:Jun 18, 2006 9:06 pm
Last Updated:Dec 15, 2006 10:50 pm
11456 Views
Here it is again, updated for those who are standard members. Please read it because if you approach me and you haven't..It won't be pretty. I took the effort not only to write it and be very clear of what I am looking for ONCE, I went a step further and posted it here *along witha face pic.* Now if you can't even take the time to read it then why should I take the time to give you my yahoo address and listen to your lines about how you want to get in my thong?

But seriously, please read. I think that it gives a pretty clear vision and some insight into the type of person I am
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PS I realize that I may not be everyones cuppa, which is fine, but I did not post this for your opinion of me. If you like it/me, fine, if not thats fine too.

5'4 great ass, sexy lips and eyes. I enjoy pleasure and all things sensual. I am looking for a homie lover friend, not a one night stand. If you can arrange to see me at least twice a week, save yourself some time, don't respond. I'm cool people and enjoy going to movies, dinner, dancing and of course, the obvious. If this sounds cool to you, keep reading, if not, have a good one.

Now these things go hand and hand, I would like to have more than a sexual relationship. If we can't have anything in common once our clothes are on, then we probably wouldn't make the best bedroom companions.
I have discovered that many men on this site aren't sure how to handle a self actualized woman. The key is to realize that a self actualized woman doesn't require handling, leave her to be her, don't try to bend her to your will and it will be a beautiful thing....

UPDATE: Seriously tired of all the fake ass men I have been meeting on BBW Tonight who have no idea how to treat a lady. I dont take kindly to being disrespected, talked to or treated like a . Don't expect me to lay idly by while you disrespect me in email, chat or person. You will feel my wrath, and oh, does it sting, and not in the good way. I can be a total kitten or an evil nightmare bitch, which side you see if all up to you...
If the convo is cool then we can move on to the next phase. I know this is a sex site, but I am not microwave pussy, so don't approach me and expect me to just spread em wide all quick like. I must be mentally stimulated before becoming physically stimulated. If your looking for a quick bang, I'm not your girl. If you can handle this, please feel free to contact me.

If you send an email, please include a pic, no pic, no response, sorry. I don't fuck fugly mens and don't want to waste anyone's time. I also would prefer it if you all didn't send me any cock shots unless requested. If you are married, looking to screw around on your wife or girl, don't even bother. If I sound a little hard assed, it because I am tired of shifting through the slimy people here making it harder for the gentlemen that really are sincere in their quest.

My Ideal Person:
UPDATE: Have a great playmate currently that knows which buttons to push and is learning which ones shouldn't. A man in the true sense of knowing when to push and when to surrender the lead. If you are looking to replace him, let it be known, his shoes are large and his footprint deep...Bring your A game or step aside...

Looking for someone for fun or something more, clean living individual. Must be single and understanding of my sexual demands. I require quite a bit of attention and need someone who can handle that. While I am very demanding in the bedroom, I give back what I receive with zeal.

I would prefer someone that understands that even though I am registered on a sex site, I am still, first and foremost, a lady. I expect to be approached and treated as such. I demand a certain level of respect and if you are unsure if your message is disrespectful, if your opening liner is "Let's Fuck." I'm probably going to hit the delete and block buttons.

PEOPLE THAT NEED NOT APPLY:
Persons that are under 22 but over 34, call me an shallow, but those are the breaks.

Bisexual females or lesbians, not interested although I love lesbians, keep the competition low. I am truly flattered by your interest, it takes someone pretty adorable to attract men and women. I do have a few homegirls you all can meet though LOL.

Married men, if you are married and you are on this site looking for ass with out your wife's knowledge or permission, you are a sick bastard and I hope you get an STI while fucking around on your wife and your dick falls off.

Couples, I'm not at that level yet, while I appreciate the interest, I won't respond to any couple inquiries.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
sade, tribe called quest, anita baker, leaders of the new
skool
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Damnit Bunz Did it and I Cant Resist A Challenge
Posted:Jun 18, 2006 4:45 pm
Last Updated:Jun 19, 2006 7:53 pm
11117 Views

If you will leave a comment, I will:

1. Respond with something random that I know or think I know about you.

2. I will tell you what song or movie or celebrity you remind me of.

3. If you are a male, I will tell you the most likely place that you and I will ever make out.

4. I will say something that only makes sense to you and me or at the very least make some something up that may give the peeps something to talk about

5. I will tell you my first/clearest memory of you.

6. I will tell you what your name would be if you were the opposite gender.

7. I will ask you something that I have always wondered about you.

8. In order to play here you should be willing to post this yourself So please repost this in your Blog. Its THE RULES.
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Can't Talk to a Psycho....
Posted:Feb 6, 2006 9:30 am
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2007 11:07 pm
12410 Views

The countdown

Okay, I have officially had it with this site. Its one thing that it an alcoholic senior citizen with a Viagra allergy properly functions more often than BBW Tonight does, I can almost deal with that. Its another when the site doesn’t function and they sell your profile or use it for advertisement by submitting your handle to various search engines. Even getting banned for posting a URL or advertising a party I could live with. The tardy posts, profile hijacks, inoperable iggy button, bot whores, even the occasional email never delivered.

What I can not take is all of the above coupled with BP (beyond Phucktards.) These lovely individuals are the ones that go 5 steps below Phucktard and won’t leave well enough alone. The individuals who are branded phucktards once they turn nasty or crude when you reject their advances and call you foul names are even tolerable. A wicked tongue lashing once or twice and they usually leave me be. Not the BP’s, they keep at it. My current BP, has literally, been damned near stalking me for the past few weeks.

About a month ago, we had our spat, and once he left chat, I let it go, let him chat in peace, but EVERYTIME he sees me in chat, he must say something defaming or derogatory. I put him on ignore and all was lovely for a while. Then the smarty pants gets a new handle and does the same thing. I try to iggy, no such luck, I even copy and pasted his handle and tried to iggy that way, no such luck. So, for the first few days, I ignored it him in chat, not responding to his commentary, thinking her would go away after a while. No such luck. The fourth day, I started getting a bit nervous and started logging all the unsolicited comments that I didn’t respond to. By the end of the evening, I had about 3 pages of copied and pasted, unsolicited negative comments he was making attempting to bait me into an exchange. Someone would approach me in chat and say they were interested, he would chime in, she’s got a dirty pussy, or she fucks everyone, or something equally mature or rude. I finally logged off.

The next day, I log into chat, same thing, so I continue my cut and paste routine, growing increasingly weireded out. Now, I have about 7 total pages of commentary w/o reaction or response from me. I finally snap, ask him to stop. Now me being me, of course I didn’t ask nicely, but like my girl says “You can’t talk to a psycho like a normal human being.” He keeps it up, so I report him to BBW Tonight. He gets banned for a day, but comes in again under his original handle, (which was magically paroled from my iggy list BTW,) making other threats, name calling etc. Now I am a big girl, I can take as much as I give out but this was going on two weeks of CONSTANT baiting for hours on end in hopes I would respond. Needless to say, we were involved in another exchange and I once again left chat.

This continues over the course of two more weeks, but has tapered to maybe 10 post instead of the normal 30. I report him again on Friday, he still hanging bout. Well, today, it went on for 4 hours straight. Last night he kept at it for about 3 hours and I just let it go. Today, I lost it by hour 4. Got into a horrid verbal match up, *although I must say, I was embarrassed by my competition.* The thing that really sets me off is I have sent BBW Tonight document proof of this behavior which, IMO is bordering on Internet Stalking and they have done nothing. My alleged “friends” in chat allow it to continue and go as far as to state that it is in fact my fault that this guy won’t leave me alone. I know what some of you are thinking 1) never spoke with the outside of chat; 2) never met the guy, 3.) Never slept with him; and 4.)Never even seen his face picture.

Now everything else on BBW Tonight I can kind of deal with. But all of those items, coupled with the caliber attitude friendfinder network has in regards to concrete concerns by a member on their safety and continually allow them to be submitted to harassment, but yet they ban people for posting a url for a sex toy, is just ridiculous.

I am tired of fighting the good fight alone and for so long. Tired of attempting to connect with members by going to and promoting meets and being repaied by a chat ban. So the countdown to the emancipation of Diva is in effect. My profile is turned off (I cant take another email from someone the complete opposite of what I am looking for, or someone who thinks that it is okay to degragrade me in email and I will swoon.) After the next meet I am helping host, My BBW Tonight days are over…I will still come and blog every now and again and stop by bootcamp to touch base with my peoples who were the only reason I would deal with the bullshit that this site has become. So, if you are interested in remaining in contact with me after 2/25, add me to your hotlist or reply to this message with your email addy.
5 Comments
Can't Talk to a Psycho....
Posted:Feb 6, 2006 8:29 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2006 4:35 pm
12103 Views

The countdown

Okay, I have officially had it with this site. Its one thing that it an alcoholic senior citizen with a Viagra allergy properly functions more often than BBW Tonight does, I can almost deal with that. Its another when the site doesn’t function and they sell your profile or use it for advertisement by submitting your handle to various search engines. Even getting banned for posting a URL or advertising a party I could live with. The tardy posts, profile hijacks, inoperable iggy button, bot whores, even the occasional email never delivered.

What I can not take is all of the above coupled with BP (beyond Phucktards.) These lovely individuals are the ones that go 5 steps below Phucktard and won’t leave well enough alone. The individuals who are branded phucktards once they turn nasty or crude when you reject their advances and call you foul names are even tolerable. A wicked tongue lashing once or twice and they usually leave me be. Not the BP’s, they keep at it. My current BP, has literally, been damned near stalking me for the past few weeks.

About a month ago, we had our spat, and once he left chat, I let it go, let him chat in peace, but EVERYTIME he sees me in chat, he must say something defaming or derogatory. I put him on ignore and all was lovely for a while. Then the smarty pants gets a new handle and does the same thing. I try to iggy, no such luck, I even copy and pasted his handle and tried to iggy that way, no such luck. So, for the first few days, I ignored it him in chat, not responding to his commentary, thinking her would go away after a while. No such luck. The fourth day, I started getting a bit nervous and started logging all the unsolicited comments that I didn’t respond to. By the end of the evening, I had about 3 pages of copied and pasted, unsolicited negative comments he was making attempting to bait me into an exchange. Someone would approach me in chat and say they were interested, he would chime in, she’s got a dirty pussy, or she fucks everyone, or something equally mature or rude. I finally logged off.

The next day, I log into chat, same thing, so I continue my cut and paste routine, growing increasingly weireded out. Now, I have about 7 total pages of commentary w/o reaction or response from me. I finally snap, ask him to stop. Now me being me, of course I didn’t ask nicely, but like my girl says “You can’t talk to a psycho like a normal human being.” He keeps it up, so I report him to BBW Tonight. He gets banned for a day, but comes in again under his original handle, (which was magically paroled from my iggy list BTW,) making other threats, name calling etc. Now I am a big girl, I can take as much as I give out but this was going on two weeks of CONSTANT baiting for hours on end in hopes I would respond. Needless to say, we were involved in another exchange and I once again left chat.

This continues over the course of two more weeks, but has tapered to maybe 10 post instead of the normal 30. I report him again on Friday, he still hanging bout. Well, today, it went on for 4 hours straight. Last night he kept at it for about 3 hours and I just let it go. Today, I lost it by hour 4. Got into a horrid verbal match up, *although I must say, I was embarrassed by my competition.* The thing that really sets me off is I have sent BBW Tonight document proof of this behavior which, IMO is bordering on Internet Stalking and they have done nothing. My alleged “friends” in chat allow it to continue and go as far as to state that it is in fact my fault that this guy won’t leave me alone. I know what some of you are thinking 1) never spoke with the outside of chat; 2) never met the guy, 3.) Never slept with him; and 4.)Never even seen his face picture.

Now everything else on BBW Tonight I can kind of deal with. But all of those items, coupled with the caliber attitude friendfinder network has in regards to concrete concerns by a member on their safety and continually allow them to be submitted to harassment, but yet they ban people for posting a url for a sex toy, is just ridiculous.

I am tired of fighting the good fight alone and for so long. Tired of attempting to connect with members by going to and promoting meets and being repaied by a chat ban. So the countdown to the emancipation of Diva is in effect. My profile is turned off (I cant take another email from someone the complete opposite of what I am looking for, or someone who thinks that it is okay to degragrade me in email and I will swoon.) After the next meet I am helping host, My BBW Tonight days are over…I will still come and blog every now and again and stop by bootcamp to touch base with my peoples who were the only reason I would deal with the bullshit that this site has become. So, if you are interested in remaining in contact with me after 2/25, add me to your hotlist or reply to this message with your email addy.
7 Comments
Can't Talk to a Psycho....
Posted:Feb 6, 2006 7:42 am
Last Updated:Dec 11, 2008 3:27 am
12042 Views

The countdown

Okay, I have officially had it with this site. Its one thing that it an alcoholic senior citizen with a Viagra allergy properly functions more often than BBW Tonight does, I can almost deal with that. Its another when the site doesn’t function and they sell your profile or use it for advertisement by submitting your handle to various search engines. Even getting banned for posting a URL or advertising a party I could live with. The tardy posts, profile hijacks, inoperable iggy button, bot whores, even the occasional email never delivered.

What I can not take is all of the above coupled with BP (beyond Phucktards.) These lovely individuals are the ones that go 5 steps below Phucktard and won’t leave well enough alone. The individuals who are branded phucktards once they turn nasty or crude when you reject their advances and call you foul names are even tolerable. A wicked tongue lashing once or twice and they usually leave me be. Not the BP’s, they keep at it. My current BP, has literally, been damned near stalking me for the past few weeks.

About a month ago, we had our spat, and once he left chat, I let it go, let him chat in peace, but EVERYTIME he sees me in chat, he must say something defaming or derogatory. I put him on ignore and all was lovely for a while. Then the smarty pants gets a new handle and does the same thing. I try to iggy, no such luck, I even copy and pasted his handle and tried to iggy that way, no such luck. So, for the first few days, I ignored it him in chat, not responding to his commentary, thinking her would go away after a while. No such luck. The fourth day, I started getting a bit nervous and started logging all the unsolicited comments that I didn’t respond to. By the end of the evening, I had about 3 pages of copied and pasted, unsolicited negative comments he was making attempting to bait me into an exchange. Someone would approach me in chat and say they were interested, he would chime in, she’s got a dirty pussy, or she fucks everyone, or something equally mature or rude. I finally logged off.

The next day, I log into chat, same thing, so I continue my cut and paste routine, growing increasingly weireded out. Now, I have about 7 total pages of commentary w/o reaction or response from me. I finally snap, ask him to stop. Now me being me, of course I didn’t ask nicely, but like my girl says “You can’t talk to a psycho like a normal human being.” He keeps it up, so I report him to BBW Tonight. He gets banned for a day, but comes in again under his original handle, (which was magically paroled from my iggy list BTW,) making other threats, name calling etc. Now I am a big girl, I can take as much as I give out but this was going on two weeks of CONSTANT baiting for hours on end in hopes I would respond. Needless to say, we were involved in another exchange and I once again left chat.

This continues over the course of two more weeks, but has tapered to maybe 10 post instead of the normal 30. I report him again on Friday, he still hanging bout. Well, today, it went on for 4 hours straight. Last night he kept at it for about 3 hours and I just let it go. Today, I lost it by hour 4. Got into a horrid verbal match up, *although I must say, I was embarrassed by my competition.* The thing that really sets me off is I have sent BBW Tonight document proof of this behavior which, IMO is bordering on Internet Stalking and they have done nothing. My alleged “friends” in chat allow it to continue and go as far as to state that it is in fact my fault that this guy won’t leave me alone. I know what some of you are thinking 1) never spoke with the outside of chat; 2) never met the guy, 3.) Never slept with him; and 4.)Never even seen his face picture.

Now everything else on BBW Tonight I can kind of deal with. But all of those items, coupled with the caliber attitude friendfinder network has in regards to concrete concerns by a member on their safety and continually allow them to be submitted to harassment, but yet they ban people for posting a url for a sex toy, is just ridiculous.

I am tired of fighting the good fight alone and for so long. Tired of attempting to connect with members by going to and promoting meets and being repaied by a chat ban. So the countdown to the emancipation of Diva is in effect. My profile is turned off (I cant take another email from someone the complete opposite of what I am looking for, or someone who thinks that it is okay to degragrade me in email and I will swoon.) After the next meet I am helping host, My BBW Tonight days are over…I will still come and blog every now and again and stop by bootcamp to touch base with my peoples who were the only reason I would deal with the bullshit that this site has become. So, if you are interested in remaining in contact with me after 2/25, add me to your hotlist or reply to this message with your email addy.
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He he he look what i stole...
Posted:Feb 3, 2006 5:29 pm
Last Updated:Jun 17, 2006 9:25 pm
11800 Views
I found this on my gurliefriends blog and it looked like good, lighthearted fun...Enjoy and be HONEST

1. Who are you?

2. Do you have a crush on me?

3. Would you kiss me?

4. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it.

5. Describe me in one word.

6. What was your first impression of me, from my profile or e-mail?

7. If you could give me anything what would it be?

8. Ever wanted to tell me something but couldn't?

9. If so, what is it? (*grin*)

10. What is your favorite physical quality about me?

11. What do you think is my best character trait?

12. Would you consider me to be your friend?

13. If you could pick one song to describe me, what would it be?

14. Are you going to put this on your blog and see what I say about you?
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My Profile
Posted:Feb 3, 2006 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2016 7:46 pm
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I am posting my profile here for standard members who dont have the option of viewing can read it.....

I can be a total kitten or an evil nightmare bitch...it is up to you which side you see....

5'4 great ass, sexy lips and eyes. I enjoy pleasure and all things sensual. I am looking for a homie lover friend, not a one night stand. If you can arrange to see me at least twice a week, save yourself some time, don't respond. I'm cool people and enjoy going to movies, dinner, dancing and of course, the obvious. If this sounds cool to you, keep reading, if not, have a good one. Now these things go hand and hand, I would like to have more than a sexual relationship. If we can't have anything in common once our clothes are on, then we probably wouldn't make the best bedroom companions.
I have discovered that many men on this site aren't sure how to handle a self actualized woman. The key is to realize that a self actualized woman doesn't require handling, leave her to be her, don't try to bend her to your will and it will be a beautiful thing....

UPDATE: Seriously tired of all the fake ass men I have been meeting on BBW Tonight who have no idea how to treat a lady. I dont take kindly to being disrespected, talked to or treated like a . Don't expect me to lay idly by while you disrespect me in email, chat or person. You will feel my wrath, and oh, does it sting, and not in the good way. I can be a total kitten or an evil nightmare bitch, which side you see if all up to you...

If the convo is cool then we can move on to the next phase. I know this is a sex site, but I am not microwave pussy, so don't approach me and expect me to just spread em wide all quick like. I must be mentally stimulated before becoming physically stimulated. If your looking for a quick bang, I'm not your girl. If you can handle this, please feel free to contact me.

If you send an email, please include a pic, no pic, no response, sorry. I don't fuck fugly mens and don't want to waste anyone's time. I also would prefer it if you all didn't send me any cock shots unless requested. If you are married, looking to screw around on your wife or girl, don't even bother. If I sound a little hard assed, it because I am tired of shifting through the slimy people here making it harder for the gentlemen that really are sincere in their quest.

My Ideal Person:
Looking for someone for fun or something more, clean living individual. Must be single and understanding of my sexual demands. I require quite a bit of attention and need someone who can handle that. While I am very demanding in the bedroom, I give back what I receive with zeal.

I would prefer someone that understands that even though I am registered on a sex site, I am still, first and foremost, a lady. I expect to be approached and treated as such. I demand a certain level of respect and if you are unsure if your message is disrespectful, if your opening liner is "Let's Fuck." I'm probably going to hit the delete and block buttons.

PEOPLE THAT NEED NOT APPLY:
Persons that are under 22 but over 34, call me an shallow, but those are the breaks.

Bisexual females or lesbians, not interested although I love lesbians, keep the competition low. I am truly flattered by your interest, it takes someone pretty adorable to attract men and women. I do have a few homegirls you all can meet though LOL.

Married men, if you are married and you are on this site looking for ass with out your wife's knowledge or permission, you are a sick bastard and I hope you get an STI while fucking around on your wife and your dick falls off.

Couples, I'm not at that level yet, while I appreciate the interest, I won't respond to any couple inquiries.

Favorite television shows:
Coupling, Alias
Favorite movies:
Labrynth, Harlem Nights, Italian Job

Favorite musicians or bands:
sade, tribe called quest, anita baker, leaders of the new skool

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Under a waterfall

What toys do you enjoy using during sex play?:
Clit stimulators (battery operated), Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs or bullets
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Birthdays
Posted:Nov 23, 2005 12:24 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2006 9:29 pm
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Birthdays, to me are very special. Of all the holidays, which is more important than the day you graced the world with your presence? I really can't think of one. Now some historians and religious groups may disagree and place other days in higher essteem. To them, I say, okay, what happens if the persons behind the reason that we celebrate this holiday were never born? We wouldn't have that day off work to shop, honor, stuff our faces, dress up etc. It would just be another day.

So I say, everyone should treat their day of birth as a holiday. Honor yourself. Buy yourself a pressie, take yourself out on the town, show yourself a good time. Take time our for YOU!!!

BTW my birthday is right around the corner. Festivities on the 3rd email me or comment for details!!!!! Presents most welcome
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