Dick pics( The majority is sick of it)
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Posted:May 26, 2016 1:03 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2018 10:07 am
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Okay gals I know are really sick of getting dick pics. I mean really, why are we as men sending our junk to women?? Do we really think of the 1000 emails they get a day, and of the 75% that are dicks, your penis is the one they are going to say "alright I think that dick is the best one I have seen. I want that inside of me" Or thanking God that you made her day by sending your dick to me..NO! It has gotten to the point to where women are asking me please do not send your dick to me. Like I was planning to do that crap. I have a personality, such that it is, but I have one. The G-Spot is simple, it is right there out front. It does not take a skud missile to hit it. Plus if you have a penis that is the "DESTROYER OF WORLDS" and you want to show her how long that fucker is?! 9 times out of 10 many women will run from you. Keep that private until the unavailing, less chance of no replies. If you want to tell her how long it is at some point? Great! Tell her. If she believes you and she wants you(hopefully for personality) and your ginormous penis.
You want to know what a woman wants besides a personality and good hygiene? Stamina. That's right! Stamina! Can you give her orgasms all night with the junk between your legs or not. That is the secret, the penis is just filler( Pun intended). So get in shape my friends, get those abs and heart rate up if you want this woman to call you back buddy.
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I am gonna level some info...
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Posted:Oct 20, 2015 7:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2018 10:10 am
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As the years I have been on the site one thing is consistent. We all want some sex. Lots and lots of sex. But I think guys we have to come to the cold reality and the cold honest truth when we date someone(most of us the opposite sex)....*Sigh* we gotta admit not every woman is a porno actress or wants to be one. I know some of you are confused, others are denying the truth and are going through the 7 steps, however let us be honest, we all know the this is true. I have found out not every woman wants to have a face full of our goo on their face. I know it is hard to believe, but it is true. Or wants to drink it...It blows my mind as well. I know the porno's tell us that every woman is a sexoholic deep down, but I am told and found, (leans over and whispers) they are not. And also, they want a relationship not a one night stand.
And I have found out not every woman likes anal or ATM for that matter. Shocks the life out of me. I know, I know..It is some type of conspiracy like big foot or the pyramids. But I am serious, and not every woman wants to lick your ass or suck on our balls. And rabbit holes go even further and they prefer if you wear a condom and not give her a cream pie when your done. It has to do with some silly thing like getting pregnant or something like that. Apparently some do not use the pill or anti preg measures and want us to be responsible and wear one. Plus a good majority wants to cuddle afterward and not see us walk out. Going back to the whole relationship thing.
And the last damning evidence I have found(brace yourself)...They are not all closet lesbians who love to be in threesomes with you at any given moment. Impossible and conceivable I get it, but yeah. So now some of you are asking what about the ones who in porn like to be tied up? No. Again, not all of them. "What about the slapping and abusing?" Nope and I am sure it is illegal and you can go to jail for assault.
So there ya have it, with the exception of a few ladies on here who love being exhibitionists or in "open relationships", the majority just want friendship/relationship without the games and being treated as tho they are just here for our amusement like women in porn. Nothing else left but to treat them like human beings they are and get to know them, and be as respectful as possible and in turn perhaps something great will come of it.
(Note: This is meant as satire and hopefully humor at no point am I asking men to be brow beaten. Just as my posts have always been about, realizing we are all damaged individuals who carry a lot of baggage in life without having to dump more and perpetuating the vicious cycle on to another person and they on another. We all have fantasies and all want to do things that turn us on, however do them with someone who is into it as you are. Women and men do not want to be belittled or made to feel like a piece of meat. If you find someone who likes to be a porno actress or actor? Kudos and good job you found the right one. However and I cannot stress this enough talk with each other, if she/he has borders? Respect them and do not force it or them into something they are uncomfortable stepping into.
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A no duh post
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Posted:Jul 22, 2015 1:15 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 3:59 am
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In the years I have been on this site, there is some unique ways of thinking that brought people here. It should be noted I am not talking about swingers or couples in general. I am more directing the post towards the single people here. On one side you have the ones who want sex, but with a relationship attached. Now this is not a bad thing. I know some people equate sex with love and that is fine. No one is judging you. You have a goal and your cool in my book, just remember as I have said before, do not settle for anything less than you deserve. Not compatible? Move on til you find the right one.
Friends with benefits, this is as old as anyone can remember. People who want a sex without the complications of attachment to it, sometimes on her terms. They are sometimes find a good one( in one form or another) that makes them happy. They are comfortable, they go to bars and do friend things like if they are with a relative or a coworker. If one is down they can always count on their friend to pick them up. They have their apartment or home, and their partner has theirs. No one is getting jealous and can enjoy each others company without the pressure. Now these people know how to keep their feelings in check and I find if you can do it, your awesome and better than I.
Then there is of course the ones who just want sex. I have seen both sides of the postings( thanks to some kind ladies who let me see what they get as replies). I have found that the majority of the ones here are men who fit in this. This perplexed me and the reason I was inspired to post this. I have found only a small amount of women who just want no strings attached compared to men. Which brings up the question: Are men going about it the wrong way compared to women? Now if you have muscles or cash or both? We know you attract women like a magnet, stop gloating.
Which brings me back to the other two. I guess in conclusion, most women want either someone who they can trust as a friend to that would (possibly but no guarantee) evolve into a relationship, or have a relationship and commitment with their trusted friend who will not( hopefully) cheat on them.
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False advertising.
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Posted:Sep 12, 2014 2:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2015 7:27 pm
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RANT POST:
We can all admit that we are adults here. So why do we still have to lie about who we are? Seriously! I cannot tell you the many times I read posts and meet someone who tells me that they are someone who is either a bisexual sexoholic, loves being nude, or love to watch porn too only to be disappointed when I finally get to know them. People! When your asked or you advertise to get the attention of someone, be that someone. Your a grown up and do not need to continue to put on a image of something or someone your not, like you did when your 20's. Be who you are and be proud. If your not into porn 7 days a week, say so. If you are introvert and loves indoor reading, do not say you like to go out for walks, do not say your exciting to fun to be around and be shy. Your getting up the hopes of someone who might think your the "one" under false pretense who could be using that time to be finding that someone who actually is what they are looking for.
It is 2014 people. We do not need to lie about being anything about who we are. Can we be honest and upfront about what we want out of partners without lying and deceiving them because we fear or impatient about needing to being with anyone? I know social networking has made it easier to project who we wish to be, but seriously! if your say you have the body of a and muscles to boot, have those muscles and body. No one wants to be disappointed in who they will finally meet.
The truth goes a long way and builds up a foundation if not the first stone in what could be a long and happy relationship because you allowed yourself to be who you are and it tells the other person that if your unhappy, you will let them know without fear. Speaking of which if your motivation is based on "fear" of being rejected, I say "FUCK EM!" It just means they were not the one and the person your after is still out there waiting for you. As I said before, do not settle for anything less than you deserve.
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Stop being an asshole to camers.
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Posted:Sep 24, 2012 9:03 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2014 1:37 pm
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You know what I hate most on this site. Rude people who think it is okay to put someone down. When I look at an individual who is brave enough to put themselves out there on a webcam to show off what they have for the world to see, only to read nasty comments, most of the time it is directed at women who are overweight, and who are already self conscious about the way they look get mad and log off when the comments get too much for them to handle. Now I respect a person who is gutsy and wants people to see their goods or be the exhibitionist they have always wanted to be, and now found a outlet in order to do so, but only to find an person who goes out of their way to click on their cam and type in disgusting comments in order to make themselves feel better or empower themselves. "Wow, she is a fat hog, what a fucking , bitch,cunt,slut who needs my cock juices". You get the idea. What woman has not seen this?
Now I like dirty talk as much as the next guy and I am sure there are women who love this kind of talk. BUT, not every woman needs or wants to be put down, and as guys we need to figure out which one wants to hear it verses the ones who do not. Use good judgement. And as for the guys who get off on a power trip over this, STOP IT! You ever notice there is more men caming then women? Ever stop to ask why? The majority of women do not like this and will not continue if they feel unappreciated or feel that they can not come here in fear of being insulted. If this makes you feel powerful to insult a woman, ask yourself, "Is my attitude preventing me from having sex or seeing women naked on cam?" Yes it is dude. If it wasn't you would not be HERE and women more would be willing to be naked here! GET A CLUE!
To the brave souls out there on cam, kudos ladies.I encourage it and love you all and thank you for showing me what you have and how sexually free you are. I always believed a woman should express herself in a way that makes yourself and the people who see you happy and hope you all continue to find either love or fulfill the fantasy and desire that drives you to be here. Do not let these guys get you down. Do what makes you happy.
Cya.
Oh and before anyone comes after me and says "he is only typing this because he wants to see boobs and encourages exploiting the women here, hypocrite". We are on a sex site. I love boobs, I love seeing women naked. There are women who love to be seen naked,and thus not a hypocrite. so what is the problem? It is consenting adults looking at each other, but I cannot do that if they choose not to cam anymore. So SHUT UP AND LEAVE THEM ALONE!
I'm out!
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Men: We love sex.
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Posted:Apr 2, 2012 10:05 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2013 1:07 am
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Can I just say, as a man, I love sex. I love it alot. Can't get enough of it. That said lets move on. One of my lady friends has decided to give up on sex in her life because she in her words "has no interest anymore". When we hang out she is always shocked to see the comments I make thay are perverted in nature, so she asks why do I do this? I reply "I am a guy, we love being dirty". Apparently she is not the only one who is shocked at this behavior by men. Three others also show that amazement at our behavior, one went as far as to say how can men want sex even when we have the classic headache? As I have addressed it many times in this post I will say again, WE ARE MEN! We will want to have sex when we can and anyway we can. We can have a broken arm, leg,cracked skull, even in a wheelchair, as long as our penis still works we will want it. A woman says she is horny to a man you can bet you sweet bippy he has already undressed you in his mind and searching for a way to covertly find a way to be the one to do it with you.
Ladies, some of you gotta understand(or some have figured it out) that a way to get a man's attention is by sex. Sad I know but, we realize your the emotional part of the spectrum and were the physical so when were in moment we hear nothing else. Granted there is some emotional men out there, that's cool. But any man who says they can have a relationship without sex is really not into you or has a problem, or cheating on you with the woman next door who is doing things to his body and fulfilling his deviancy in ways he never thought of.
Now I am not asking you all to have sex with the first guy you see in order to find love, but be aware that were men, and we are natural hunters and sex addicts so are gonna want it and prowl for it, and if your sexually compatible and can fulfill our deviancy we won't need anyone else(again, some women here figured it out).
This is my opinion, I needed to get this out since I cannot post this on FB or any other social network site, I just feel I want to help some of you on how men think.
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Short blog
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Posted:Apr 18, 2011 2:15 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2013 1:05 am
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I have been back on this system for about 6 months now, and I want to give props to anyone on here who is showing their goods for all the world to see. No, I am not being sarcastic or rude, but legit about how many can do the one thing I can never do in my life. Full frontal, just boobs, your butt, masturbation the whole nine yards, you all have shown that you love your bodies and you want someone to love it back that you see fit the true nymphomaniacs. Of course you also realize the majority of the props(99.9 goes to the women on here. The one reason I don't do it, I find that women can see penis any day they want, and the small portion of the population here is impressed with seeing it, but I think the majority just want to see your face. On the other side as men I can speak for them, you women can flash us any day of the week is fine with us. We can never get tired of seeing naked.
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Warning: Rant ahead.
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Posted:Apr 2, 2011 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2015 1:21 pm
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I have not been looking forward to this or last weeks blog the reason why I skipped it. There has been so much building up to this I really wanted to avoid it. But there comes a time as one told me "one must pay the piper and eat shit waffles". I found myself at wits end this week after talking to people and I am tired of the preconceptions we come up with not to generalize underlining resentment to each other over color of skin. I am the first to admit there are a lot who do fit into this mess of my own ethnic background, but the idea that each and every last fraking one of us are all the same has become this inexcusable pile of shit that made me as of late lose a little more of my faith in human mental evolution and that some should go back to living in caves and have lion and cheetah skin togas showing how retarded and backwards they are.
Some people rationalization of their actions are almost laughable if not tragic to the point where Shakespeare and Edgar Allen Poe stop writing their material and start taking parts of our society and make real life horror and tragedy after witnessing the stupidity some do to one another. Bad analogy I know, but the things we have allowed to become acceptable or try to hide it under a rug hoping it to go away is not working. I am tired of the whole "your not what I expected" line. I know I am not who you expect, because I spent my life entire life being a normal human being who cares about me and how I am viewed by others. Because I have a self esteem and confidence and self worth.
I am here to date possibly find a lady who likes the same things I do,(sometimes geeky but that's my shtick)but only to run into the same preconceptions that I am either lazy(no job), drugged out, selling or overall a burden on society. I am reminded a thing my dad would tell me when I was a wee lad "the first two words out of your mouth will tell the other person all there is about you, and the way you stand and look also determines how they view you." I try to live by this, in fact it is why I never got into and all that stuff.
Now that my rant is over, can I ask one favor? Before you go out there, give the other person a chance. I know they are a different color, religion and any other reason than you, but let them get their words out before you judge them. You may find that they are not as bad as you may first think. I think as a person personal responsibility is important and give not reason to these preconceptions that will eventually tear us down.
Thank you for letting me vent.
Cya next week(?)
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We forgot something.
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Posted:Mar 19, 2011 11:45 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2015 1:54 am
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Hello again, it is me doing another installment one of my favorite past time, blogging. This week I like to talk about an experience that has happened to me that inspired this weeks blog. This week I realized I have a gal friend who she and I has in the past dated and remained friends for, get this...Were moving into our 19th year as friends. Can you believe it? 19 years of putting up with alot of the stuff most people would have to be married to endure or enjoy.
I know, I know, what is the big deal? Well this week we had a fight. The end all be one (Some of you know what I am talking about), and I thought to keep to myself. But since I really do not hide my feeling well, she wanted to know what was wrong and after a while of finally talking we resolved the situation like friends. Can you believe a man and a woman resolved a situation by talking and telling each other what is wrong, like friends? And this brings me to my point. We tend to forget a very important element in our search for that perfect mate, and that is friendship. We use terms like boyfriend and girlfriend (which has no meaning these days) and treat them as tho they were badges of honor thus forget what the core meaning behind them were. In our rush to be with someone we forgot to build up that foundation of any lasting relationship. And we deny ourselves of something meaningful and long lasting, something that (could)better ourselves to, something to define ourselves to.
Another Example: My friend know alot about me, stuff I don't tell my male friends. She knows what I can and cannot eat, drinks I prefer, even stuff from childhood, and I her and we have come to an agreement to never keep anything from each other. Sometimes I try but she can get info out of me if she really wanted.
But what is friendship? Dictionary term in short term: Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
* The tendency to desire what is best for the other
* Sympathy and empathy
* Honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
* Mutual understanding and compassion
* Trust in one another (able to express feelings - including in relation to the other's actions - without the fear of being judged); able to go to each other for emotional support
* Positive reciprocity - a relationship is based on equal give and take between the two parties.
And that last part is what many take for granted "equal give and take". And being able to share ourselves with someone, and not just take,take,take. When we date we really try to be king or Queen of the hill with the ones are interested in. This kind of coincides with my last blog on Mind Gamers. Those who will use us until were a mass of emotional flesh devoid of any self or compassion. Then we find people we may want to be with and we still don't trust them even when we have been with them for months. This does not help to make a good relationship if there is no love for your friend there.
Most I say is from my own accounts, each person is different. But one constant is friends who make us who we are. They are who define us. They can make us strong, happy, wanted and appreciated. And each one of us want those these and more from our friends and even our closet friend who is we hope will be our future Mr or Ms.(insert name) and when the next generation asks the secret of a lasting relationship, they will know it is not really a miracle or secret, and that is you were friends and THEN lovers when the time was right. And even if it doesn't you still have a good friend you can depend on.
And after nearly twenty years, through the headaches and heartaches and the pain the ass we have been to one another, that is one constant. Were can depend on one another if the chips are down, and never forget that.
That's all for now. Cya next week.
** This Blog is subject to reworking***
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The games people play
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Posted:Mar 13, 2011 1:36 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2013 12:54 am
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This week, I would like to talk about something we all have experienced in our lives when we date or are dating someone currently, "Mind Gamers". Lets talk about what is a Mind Gamer, they are the ones who have agendas, who use and abuse us because they either want something financial from us or physically(sex with multiple people) or enjoy taking pleasure in hurting the other gender because they were targets of Mind Gamers so they feel justified in their actions up to if not physical or psychological abuse. But like them we have either experienced this or been the instigator of such an action and continued the cycle. I am not going to waste time berating or insulting any one group, but address the how and the why. The How: Since the beginning we all have sought the perfect mate, that special someone, the person who is suppose to make our lives whole or at least attempt to so we can be happy in some way.
Since we were (some of us) we're told about the house,car and that white fence and the in the yard and for some people, a fairy tale fantasy. But we found we were not told the "but", you can have the life "But"...We were are not told to watch out for that wolf or widow in sheep's clothing until after the fact. Social media is guilty of this by telling us to do this, and making us believe that jumping in with both feet or blind is okay then months later tell us how to feel after a break up and how the other person is scum and it was not your fault and this causes us to be jaded if not down right angry with the other gender for years to come. This does not help us, this builds us on some impossible if not some outdated mode of thinking and sets us up for failure by selling us in some pre-fabricated image or fantasy that the writer says we should be, thus an easy target for the "gamer" and thus fueling the fire when it fails and filling us with hated. This is counter productive.
Which this leads into the "WHY". Why do we do allow ourselves to fall prey to "Mind Gamers"? Because I think were afraid or feel lonely for sometime(months or years of not dating) and thus we are not ourselves and fail use our better judgment and not jump into something without thinking and getting to know someone first. And why? Because were told not to do so. We are so willing to sacrifice our self esteem and thus, we get so caught up in the moment that we tend to let our guard down too quickly and fall for their charm or their beauty we don't see or want to see if they are bad news or not, because they have some how struck a chord inside us we have been told that were longing for or missing. Many women and men today are shut ins( it's 2011 I don't know why), and meeting people is hard for them anyways and thus more easy prey to the "gamer", because they want to be loved so badly that they are more willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance. This is both bad and good on some level. Good because your out and finally meeting people, bad because you forget the brain and common sense.
All in all this tends to lead to a conclusion or a continuing drama we all need to avoid like the plague. Because we really do not want that drama and a disservice. So how does prepare themselves for the "Mind Gamer"? I really do not have an answer, all I can offer is go with what your mind tells you, or at very least take your time to get to know someone. It is okay to have friends, friends are who make us what we are. And make your intentions known up front. Do not take the first date as that a date, make it like your hanging out with your friends or a business lunch. I mean you would not sell your company on the first day would you? Dutch is not a bad thing either. Paying for yourself shows both independence and intent and because you set a line saying there is no expectations. Guys who pay are like investors we (sometimes) unwittingly want to see a return on that investment. If he wants to pay, let him. But, let him know there is nothing going on that night(unless you are horny and want to get yours, then by all means go for it), and if you let him pay without letting him know, then your become the gamer. And guys do not be so quick with the $1000 meal and movie. Some just want to get dinner anyways so they can hook up with the bad boy who is waiting down the street til your gone. if sex is what you want make it known from the start,if it is love take your time.
One quote comes to mind that someone gave me: "Don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can't love and respect yourself - no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are - completely; the good and the bad - and make changes as YOU see fit - not because you think someone else wants you to be different."
Stacey Charter
I followed this, and reason I have stopped being a target for Mind Gamers. But the choice like all things are yours.
Cya later.
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You know what is odd
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Posted:Mar 7, 2011 1:33 am
Last Updated:Apr 10, 2018 10:17 am
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Our baggage. We bring so much baggage into relationships that so much we have forgot to start over fresh. Give you an example: when we have a messy break up we wait five or six weeks or months(depending on the person) and finally we go back out again to find another, and when we finally do we put up our guard. How crappy is this? Our baggage has followed us so closely(sometimes without realizing it) that when we want a new relationship we view the potential person as tho they were our eventual future ex. We spend way to much time hurting and being angry at the other person we have forgot to put that bag in the overhead compartment and walk away. We sabotage ourselves without even realizing it or do realize it and shut ourselves off form what could be a potential successful one.
The worst baggage is the one that attacks our self esteem. That no matter what we do we are not worthy of a good decent relationship and when we finally get one we look for ways to tear it down or nip pick it to death to find something to break it off, because we feel that were not good enough for it or foolishly feel we can do better, only to end up with the same person who abused us before we met the good one. How stupid is this? We got away from the abuse only to throw ourselves back in the hell we escaped from? Our parents and their parents/parents use to just date to have fun and take their time in the hopes neither had any expectations thus not allowing baggage to stay where it doesn't belonged.
In our fast pace world we have forgotten to slow down and unpack that baggage to let things go. Relationships has been reduced to NOW,NOW,NOW, and jump into something without getting over what we have been through and coping with the issues at hand. It is like a if your a soldier and you have been injured badly you would not run back out with a huge bullet hole in your chest or a missing limb, but that is what were doing. No healing, no rehabilitation, just dust off and deal with it as it comes while the wound pusses and boils over making us sick and diseased. That is not fair to ourselves and were doing a disservice to the other person when we do.
My only finding is this do yourself a favor, take some time for yourself. Find a hobby, take some classes on something, or find a good friend you can confide in, anything so you can have YOU time. And when you find you are no longer angry and held up by feeling of both inadequacy or hurt, go find that love and maybe you will find that person is not as bad as you thought they would be if you didn't take the time and when you do your happier without that baggage.
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I know this is gonna sound bad
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Posted:Sep 9, 2010 12:41 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2015 1:36 am
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There are alot of women in my area, but the person or auto administrator on this system who sends me alot "fake" flirt, does not realize the person has either turned it off or has not been on for months.
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