It seems to me that most of the people on this site dont take the time to be polite. If you receive an email or a wink, return it. If you ask to meet other people, answer your requests!
I see many people on this site that advertise for another guy or girl that never follow through with the meeting. There are many posts on the discussion boards seeking men that are never answered. Dont do that. If you post on a board ANSWER your post. Just say thanks but no thanks!