I'm writing this to our blog because I'm still kinda new to this atmosphere. My husband is been in this lifestyle for a long time then me. At first I was nervous I don't know if I can do this or not. I was affraid that some ppl will reject me because I'm new if I should make my first move or what. So anyway.. to build this circle with you partner it was hard you have to trust each other and agree to do it. Alot of partner say yeah will do it with other couples or single and when ur done doing it and then you start thinking if you like it or not then . The more attention building up inside you and the there's the big boom.. That is why you and your partner have to really talk about being in the lifestyle. I have been in lifestyle for about 2 year and still going on. All I can say is enjoy life while you can and make it worth it for you and youre partner. Everyone in this world is not perfect so why not.