Can people get together as sexual partners & still remain (or become) friends down the line? I have found a few who have no problem with this aspect of a friendship. But, there are many who don't seem to care (or want) to stay friends after the sex has been 'had'. I think this is a very sad thing. If you don't 'click' with the one you meet for the first time, don't allow it to go any further. Be honest & straight with the person his/herself. But, please do it in private. Not with an audience. Unless you feel you might be harmed in some way. Then, have 1 witness for your safety only, but, not within earshot.