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Still Around?
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Posted:Jul 18, 2009 12:52 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 9:44 am
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Yeah, the Kat is still around here somewhere, Does anyone know where? LMAO. I can tell ya she's not looking for a piece of ass on a sex & swingers site. She's not even looking for luv in all the wrong places. She's been celibate since sometime in March, since even before she and her so called boyfriend broke up when he started acting like a jackass when her best friend passed away.
Sure BJ had been more than just my best friend. He had been my confidant, my body gaurd, my counselor, my lover, even my live in boyfriend at one time. He was the one I considered my soul mate. We had been living together when his grand was killed in a tragic accident and he himself wrecked his motorcycle shortly after and was almost killed. I nursed him back to health physically the best I could but he had permanent hip injuries and BJ never rode motorcycle again after that horrible summer and he pushed me away and told me to find someone else that could make me happy. He got his own place and buried himself in a bottle pushing me away even further. He tried to hide the fact that he was drinking so heavily but I knew it. I could always tell. I had tried to move on but nothing was the same in my life without BJ in it. BJ and I met on my 17th birthday and he died a week before my 44th. 27 years is a long time to luv someone even from a distance and now I've lost him for good. No man can ever fill his shoes so I've given up trying.
My youngest moved back home on Mothers Day and she has been affected a great deal by BJs death as well. My daughters both loved him and miss him alot. He was the father my oldest never had. I've dedicated my time to both of them and my grandson since BJs passing and dont waste my time chasing dreams. I've decided my family is worth more to me than looking for the soul mate I'm never going to find. I already had him and he's gone now. If there's a possibility of there being more than one for me, he's going to have to find me. Some day.........
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LOVE
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Posted:May 19, 2009 12:17 am
Last Updated:May 19, 2009 11:13 pm
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Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
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It's a Boy!
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Posted:Mar 2, 2009 1:34 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2009 12:05 am
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My Grandson arrived Sat the 21st at 4:13 pm by c-section after over 20 hours of labor weighing in at 6 lbs 4 oz and 19 inches long. Her water broke at 1:30 pm on Friday even though she wasn't having any contractions so they induced her at 8:00 pm and we had a helluva long night to say the least. Unfortunatly she wouldn't dilate past 9 so was forced to have the c-section since her own doctor was out of town. Yeah, we are thinking her own doctor may have done things differently but what's done is done now. We are just glad to have a healthy baby boy and they are both at home now. I have posted pix on my space and will definitely be adding more in the near future.
Kat
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Does Age Matter?
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Posted:Feb 19, 2009 10:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2009 12:01 am
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A few years ago I would have had that man arrested for dating my but now she's legal age and there's not really anything I can do about the age difference between them. I really was worried about whether or not they would have anything in common or not in the beginning but the longer I know the man, the more it seems that maybe theirs is a relationship that could work out despite the difference in their ages. My seems far more mature than her age and he seems less mature than his which helps alot. She always did say that men her age were immature and preferred older men anyway. LOL. He seems to love her alot and treats her very well. He is looking forward to caring for her unborn as his own even though we all know it's not his which is something most men would never want to do even with their own now days. He is a hard worker and has a good job. Seems like another good trait to me. He has told me he wants to take care of her and the baby and so far he has kept his promises. He calls her every day, several times a day when he is gone on the job and is very respectful toward me and the rest of the family. What more could a woman want for her ? Hell, what more could a woman want for herself for that matter besides a harley? LMAO. I guess as long as he treats them right and makes her happy, does it really make a difference if their is an age difference between them? Love knows no age boundaries right.
Kat
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Any Day Now!
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Posted:Feb 18, 2009 3:57 am
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2009 10:25 pm
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As I mentioned a while back I am going to be a grandma. We are now down to one week and two days before his due date according to the counter on my space profile but the doctor says he can come any time now. We were hoping for a Valentines baby but that has past so now we are just hoping it happens soon. My is of course uncomfortable to say the least and having trouble with a pinched nerve causing pain to go clear down her leg into her foot. The doc says that will stop once baby Aaron is born and no longer pressing on nerves in her back. One of her best friends was induced at midnight tonite so she is a bit bummed. She was hoping to beat her to the punchline. LOL.
We've seen that woman Nadya Suleman that has the octuplets on tv over and over and it is getting really annoying. Why is that they never say anything about how those eight little babies are doing? Are they all doing well? How many boys or girls are there and so on. All they do is bitch about the fact that she had them but the fact is what's done is done. Let the poor woman be and think about the health of those poor li'l babes. I want to know how they are not debate if they should even exist or if she should have had them on her income. It's not up to us to judge her for it. Where is the compassion in this whole thing? She made her choice and if it was wrong only God can judge her for it.
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