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♪ Ruminations ♪
 
Whether memoir or diary, this web record is here to provide some information, some entertainment, and maybe some insight. Welcome to the sexual side of this writer
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Back from the Dead
Posted:Aug 15, 2005 6:53 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Sometime during the past few weeks, with all of the software changes to blogs on the website, they have returned, as if resurrected from a deep dank crypt. They are the blogs of the unplugged. The undead. Their words still haunt us, although their profiles are no longer here.

They arrived for me surprisingly at the bottom of my “watched post” list. Who knows how long they loitered there unnoticed, because I don’t always visit the bottom of that page. They were like a greatest hits of the website’s lowlights.

First up: UrPuNkRoCkQuEeN, whom you can find in the blog entry Fakes and in her blog rawr, im a dinosaur. You can see how this under-age taunted me for her ego gratification in her entries: [post 18433] and [post 22511].

Next: Faith0713 and her blog [blog Faith0713]. I thought someone had driven a stake in the heart of Madame Faith last month after the administrators shut down her profile. You can find a more recent reference to her in the entry Advisory 6. As you can tell from her blog title and her appearance in my listing, she’s a . Interesting to see who is lined up in her blog to get her attention if not her services during the two months that she recorded various entries. Check these entries: [post 28472] and [post 38176].

Finally, there’s CuteBlkBBW4HotWM and her blog, She fucks like a dude. She’s one of the women mentioned in the entry Flakes.

If anyone has ever doubted some of what is recorded here, looking at some of these blogs may change your mind. Maybe not. But if you have an interest, visit them now before they are snuffed out again for all time.

© ♪rockwriter58♪
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Advisory #6
Posted:Aug 12, 2005 2:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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This is the sixth report on this topic. Other posts on can be found by tracing backward through the last posting on
July 15, amp Pornbot Advisory 5. All members noted here have been reported prior to this posting.


The news this month is the administrators have taken more aggressive steps to shutdown the profiles of courtesans and other questionable profiles.

Some may notice that the title of this advisory has changed. As someone who is no longer searching, I don’t encounter the porn/spambots that infect the site. They haven’t disappeared. But all the ones I found have been put out of business.

Since the last report, the administrators have shut down these profiles that we came across: misdressed; Faith0713; and MeganBabyDoll4u.

In addition, these profiles from our watchlist were closed: hollywoodscxq; IWANTMRGENEROUS; monicaffoster; sweetbbw4fun; Slut4Utouse; Gracious007; and ParamourinDC. That represents 50 percent of the list, the most aggressive month since we started tracking this in April.

In Defense of the

In an earlier advisory ([post 36139]), we also received one of the few defenses of the prostitutes on this site from [blog sunnynfunny]. Here’s what she wrote:

I fail to see what the conflict is here between these profiles existing on a sex site which is paid for by most members in order to enjoy all the benefits. If you pay to belong to a sex site then in essence aren't you paying for sex in the long run? Somebody is getting rich off all the sex that this site is generating! I am a freebie, standard member, and certainly wouldn't be on this site if I had to pay for it. I guess I haven't encountered any of these "undesirables" because I am bisexual and looking for women.....LOL.

I suppose if we want to examine the wider view on the debate about who pays for sex and how, perhaps we should revisit my last entry, [post 66870]. The reason this series exists is because these profiles are time wasters and clutter. The men who want to find hookers on the internet (or down the street for that matter) know where to find them and can get to them easily. Having prostitutes masquerading here as women interested in consensual sex that is not “pay for play” not only frustrates men but creates an atmosphere that makes it more difficult for women who are not professional sex workers to operate on the site.

Update

bigbreasts2002 Because the administrators shut down the who had been on the watch list the longest, there is a new name at the top. This , bigbreasts2002 is someone who quoted prices to me over the phone.

Currently, you can find courtesans on this watch list in the following states and territories: California, Florida, Kentucky, New York and DC.

Watchlist

Courtesans
1. bigbreasts2002
2. DangerousBeaut3
3. Lexington_lady
4. SexyMiamiNubian
5. HugeEbony44Is
6. NordicCourtesan

Questionable Profile
7. genuinebabe344

Just remember: be careful out there!

© ♪rockwriter58♪
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Darth Murax: The Driveway Story
Posted:Aug 9, 2005 1:59 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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(Editor’s Note: Today, instead of your usual author or a guest blogger we have a true story from Darth Murax, a longtime member of this website who is legendary on some discussion boards, and among some of the female members. Although Murax probably should have his own blog, he is known for leaving interesting tales of his exploits on the discussion boards. However, too often those stories are erased. After some coaxing, he agreed to let us post one of the stories.* Enjoy.)

The Driveway Story

by Darth Murax

Part I

O
nce upon a time in the Magical Land of Las Vegas.....

I had flown out on a business trip for about a week. (Yes, nice work if you can get it.) Of course, that I am, I set about arranging as many encounters as I possibly could during my stay. I got an unsolicited response from a nice, nice looking 30-something blonde (Think Brittany Spears at 17.) who is married and her husband doesn't know. (Whooo hooo!) She gave a phone number and we played phone tag a bit, and when she did answer she was always too busy to talk. I chalked it up as a misfire and went on. But not before sending her an email with my hotel and room number. The week wears on and I have fun. One night in particular I hook up with a woman, have a great time and don't get back to my room until about 10 AM.

One morning at 4 AM, my hotel phone rings. “Jesus H. Christ! Who the hell is that? !” I think. I mumble a “hello.”

"Its me. Nicole."

Oh shit, the hot blonde. I wake up fast.

"Can you come over right now?"

(WTF? At 4 AM?!)

"Um, sure. Your house? Is your husband gone?"

"No, he's still sleeping"

"Then where are we..."

"In the driveway."

(The remainder of this post will be continued inside.)

(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to an evening blogjam on Aug. 9, but your humble editor chose not to repost.)
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Top Female Profile Photos: August 2005
Posted:Aug 8, 2005 3:20 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2006 7:36 am
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Although these postings generate an average number of comments for this blog, the previous posts on women’s photos are the most viewed entries. So unless interest wanes, this will likely be a monthly feature. Give the people what they want, right? The closing of some of the profiles on the previous list also prompted this sequel. All disclaimers will now be listed at the end of the blog entry. For previous listings, see the entries from July 1 and May 19: Top Female Profile Photos Round Two and Top Female Profile Photos.

The August List

DreamMaker0000 This woman stays in the top spot for the third month. The classy way the photo is arranged along with the beauty of DreamMaker0000 are just proving to be too much.

zswade This woman is a blonde Venus. Wouldn’t you want to join zswade in that tub? My only wish is that this shot were cropped a bit closer. (I know: picky, picky, picky.)

sexylatina4u2c2 Hailing from Florida, sexylatina4u2c2 climbs a bit higher this time. (No, I did not meet her on my recent trip south!) You can tell from the pose she is quite playful.

7vixen7 As the rest of this list reflects, I like to see some nudity in a profile picture. However, 7vixen7 is so stunning, I couldn’t keep her out of these rankings. Besides, this pose shows she is a very sexy woman.

SwtNDiscreet Back by popular demand, SwtNDiscreet climbs back on to the list. I suppose folks just missed their chocolate fix. Yes, people do send comments about their favorites!

(Feel free to list or post your own choices in the comment section.)

Disclaimers

1. These are personal choices. With a site as big as this one, it is impossible to winnow the list to just the top five. My apologies in advance if you feel skipped over or if your favorite was missed. If you have favorites that were passed over, post them.

2. I have excluded all of the women with the most popular profiles (you see them enough already) and the top female bloggers (for the same reason).

3. My choices are strictly based on profile shots, not other pictures available here.

4. I cannot vouch for any of these profiles. I do not know if they are real or fake, but they have not crossed my radar as questionable yet.

5. I'm here to celebrate the eye candy on the site, not to tick anyone off. If you do not have a sense of humor or you do not like to play with what is on the site, you are not required to look or participate.

6. Does anyone read disclaimers? Why? Did anyone make it to the end of this list? Ever try reading the fine print like they read the disclaimers on the radio?


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(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to an evening blogjam on Aug. 8, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Slot Machine Premiere
Posted:Aug 8, 2005 10:27 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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With all the changes to the ranking system in the Land of Blog, rockwriter58 has finally made it to the Actively Watched Blogs Slot Machine.

I suppose this is no longer a boutique blog. Well, I have the readers who come here often to thank for that honor. I hope you keep returning.

Here was the line-up I spotted:

Barbiebunny69AmberSolaire

Now, that’s a fun line-up. I hope Barbie and Amber are into it.

I also noticed other new faces on the Slot Machine of Glory including folks like taodoug.
Congratulations to him and others.

And also send congratulations to my blogging buddy [blog straightten2002], who showed up on the Top 15 list in the new system. straightten2002 She’s finally getting her due.

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Farewell to a Friend
Posted:Aug 8, 2005 6:47 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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To those who do not follow the intricate plotlines that criss-cross in the Land of Blog, you may be unaware that one of the top bloggers, JF has shut down his profile. JF was carrying on a torrid affair with hour-glasses until JF’s wife stumbled across some telling evidence on JF’s computer last week. So JF is mostly unplugging from the site, and hour-glasses is in mourning and recovery.

By the standards of this website, I’m no longer a newbie, but I certainly don’t feel like a veteran either. In my time here, JF was one of the people who seemed to be on about the same plane with me. In the blog world, we became friends and have supported each other’s blogs. JF gave me a guest spot on his popular blog (not the boutique blog that Ruminations has turned out to be) and I appreciated the exposure even if what I wrote generated very few comments. We have swapped comments and advice on a wide range of issues and happenings for the past five months.

JF shared with me that this was his second go-round on the site and he was here for a year with nothing happening. But this time he found Nirvana in his time with hour-glasses. Now, that has changed and his relationship with her, his marriage, his family and his entire reality is threatened.

My heart goes out to both JF and hour-glasses. I wish them the best in this trying time, even if they can no longer be together.

In his blog, JF wrote that I was right to pull back from my outside of marriage search when I did and that maybe he should have seen that as a sign. I have rejected that view because I am not here to judge and each person needs to make their own decisions about what makes them happy and what brings them here. Undoubtedly, JF and hour-glasses found happiness for a brief time and hour-glasses has written that their times together were some of her best sexual experiences ever. How can the joy of that be denied?

Sometimes though in this life, such joy comes with a price. I’m sorry to see the bill being presented to these two wonderful bloggers. (And of course JF’s wife is also going through her own soul-searching and misery too.)

I am sorry to see JF go. He was a supportive friend here for me. He was someone, if he lived in my region, that I could see going to throw back a few beers with and exchange stories and opinions. Unfortunately, he has become an example, a cautionary tale for the married men here. And he is so much more than that. However it works out, I wish him luck and I hope we cross paths in a good way down the line.

(The themes in this post link directly to the entries [post 33179] on June 14 and [post 30656] on June 7.)

© ♪rockwriter58♪

(This entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard due to a morning blogjam on Aug. 8, but this author chose not to repost.)
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Forbidden Topics, No. 1
Posted:Jul 29, 2005 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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As they once said in the olden days, there are three things not to broach in polite company: sex, politics, and religion.

Alright, you are on this website, so the first forbidden topic is already more than broached.

How about the others?

As an example of what can happen when your blog ventures outside of the comfortable sexual realm, check [blog jayR63] from the beginning of July (See A Rant Continued From Papy) when she commented about the G-8 and world poverty relief. The result was a blistering debate. Some of the debate was about whether it was appropriate to put such topics on this website.

The agent provocateur inside me can’t deny that’s just too much of a challenge.

So while this blog is on hiatus, feel free to comment on these forbidden topics:

The War in Iraq We all support the troops... but don’t we need more of them there to do the job? Or should we pull out altogether and just chalk it up as George’s biggest mistake? You can’t build much on a policy that has lies as a foundation.

Conservatives Love ‘em or hate ‘em? Surprisingly, there are quite a few here. And they do love to bash liberals. Funny though, there really hasn’t been a liberal as president in the U.S. since the 1960s. (Please. Don’t tell us Bill Clinton was a liberal. That just reveals how conservative you really are.) So how can you blame the state of affairs in the U.S. on liberal America?

American Democracy Is it the same in a post-Sept. 11 world? Does a conservative president, conservative Congress, and soon-to-be more conservative Supreme Court really reflect the 51 percent to 49 percent split between the so-called “red and blue” America? Look at all of the bending of the rules in Congress by the majority (see the recent vote on the Central American Free Trade agreement) if you want examples of unprecedented abuses of power.

Don’t hold back now....

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Moon Over Miami
Posted:Jul 29, 2005 6:51 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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After the next entry in this blog (something to be called Forbidden Topics, No 1, I think) these pages will be on hiatus until late next week, and perhaps later. Your humble author will be in Miami on business. Please feel free to leave your suggestions here though. We do play requests for those who are patient. Have a great week!

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(Due to a morning blogjam on July 29 this entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard. However, this author chose not to repost.)
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Posted:Jul 27, 2005 2:29 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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One of my blogging pals [blog TomEboy10] recently made a comment in this blog comparing this website to the Land of Oz. (See: Cum Dumps Sperm Donors.) Well, that was too much for my warped imagination. Somehow, I started wondering what would Dorothy do if she had a profile here...

DorothyXXX

Somewhere Over the Rainbow

Profile for DorothyXXX

Don’t let the braids fool you, guys, I’m a very hot 18-year-old who is looking to break out of my goodie-two-shoes mold. Although I like to dress in school outfits, now, I can see wild parties and swinging clubs in my future. I’m down for the 3-D lifestyle: dancin’, drinkin’, and dopin’. And you know what comes after that....

I can sing a romantic tune to get you in the mood, and then its jazz all night long. If you know what I mean...

Pictures of me unencumbered and not strapped into my school dress are available to my network members only.

Ideal Person

I’m looking for someone who will watch out after me. I like to travel and a traveling companion or companions would be ideal. The more the merrier... although I think the limit would be four. Is it possible for a woman these days to just find someone with brains, heart, bravery and loyalty? I’d especially like to find a wizard with magic hands who can put his voodoo spell on me: someone who can really send me places. Guys, if you got the moxie, write to this shooting star.

***And of course I’m for real, aren’t you!?!***

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(Due to an evening blogjam on July 27 this entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard. However, this author chose not to repost.)
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The Invisible Comment
Posted:Jul 27, 2005 6:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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Recently, someone left a comment in the blog entry “Flakes” from July 13. But the comment is invisible. Check for yourself. There are twelve comments on the counter. But only eleven are visible. What could be in that invisible comment?

(The administrators note that Bug #30555 resides in the “Flakes” entry and for now the mysterious twelfth comment remains invisible.)

(Perhaps no one chooses to comment about this disappearance or speculate about the mysterious comment because they are afraid their comment will also disappear!)

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(Due to a morning blogjam on July 27 this entry NEVER appeared on the main blogboard. However, this author chose not to repost.)
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Cum Dumps & Sperm Donors
Posted:Jul 26, 2005 2:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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When I first signed on here, one woman criticized my profile because she said it sounded like all I wanted was a cum dump.

That wasn’t the case. My experience here shows I have turned down sex with women who did not really interest me.

But that experience in miscommunication got me thinking. And rewriting. (That initial profile was rewritten many times before it got results. Finding the right female editor is also important.)

Many folks on this website say they are interested in “no strings” sex. But when you boil it down, there are usually some strings, if not many, attached.

But do cum dumps actually exist?

In general, there are probably very few women who don’t care: women who just want a hard dick, no strings and have few if any specifications. In my early time on this site, I stumbled across two and now I wish I had saved copies of their profiles.

One woman was in Maryland and her only specification was someone with a cock that was eight inches long or longer. She clearly stated in her profile that she didn’t care about how you looked, what shape you were in, or your background ‒ just cocksize, thank you very much. She was angry with her husband and she was looking for a sperm donor who would get her pregnant. (You have to wonder if she was successful because her profile was shutdown months ago.)

I stumbled across another woman in Jacksonville, Florida whose profile was a bit similar. Her only specification was that the man be African-American. Again, the rest did not matter. Again, she was angry with her husband and looking to get pregnant. Again, that profile disappeared quickly.

In her blog, sexybbw has written about her search for a sperm donor. But a careful reading shows sexybbw also has problems with being viewed as a cum dump. She may have started out that way but her feelings evolved.

Could this be one of those gender difference issues? Could it be that generally, women are insulted by the very idea of such connections, yet quite a few men don’t care and may crave such a woman?

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Siglo Catorce
Posted:Jul 25, 2005 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 1:14 pm
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Moncada
Posted:Jul 22, 2005 6:24 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2010 9:24 am
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The Last Word on Censorship

This blog has often railed against censorship. And this blog knows about it first hand. You don’t want to learn about censorship the hard way, like we have. You don’t want to be banished temporarily like we have. Or like others.

(The remainder will conclude inside.)
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