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First of all, to let you know Ya'll!!!!!!! That I am not looking for "sexual encounter" on this site.Eventhough My pictures are "Topless" LOL.But that doesn't mean, I am looking for sexual encounter.Please!!!!!! if you ask me that I will turned you down right away and you can go back where you came from(Ha Ha Ha).But anyway, I am here to date, to look for someone and enjoy being together.I am already 27 year old and I do know what I want.If you have that wont be a problem for me.I can be a "Step Mother", LOL.I would like to start a great freindship with someone and willing to be with me.Please I am not perfect and dont expect too much from me.What you see is what you get.I may not be a "Super Model" but I can be a good person inside and out.I have learned a lot of things, about online dating. And I went out with few guys on here.But most guys I have met just like sex!!!!!!!!!Maybe I am in wrong site or maybe I can be wrong.I have met nice guys on here.If you are really ineterested on me, please show it and work hard for it.The most important thing in this world.Is how we value each other.Dont look a for "perfect Girl", try to find a good person that you can really handle with.But Im tired looking and dating, I am ready to get "Married" anyone wants my ass LOL.But anyway please dont email me if your just looking for sex.Or looking for some "Bullshit Situation" I am not into it.Bye for now and goodluck for your own search!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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THE REALITY OF SOUL MATES By Rahayu Ratnaningsih
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Posted:Oct 29, 2007 8:28 pm
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One episode of “Sex and the City” threw away a question: soul mate, is it a reality or a torture device? Then it went on with the questions: what happens to those who think they have found their soul mates but then their marriage goes sour and ends up in divorce. Were their spouses once their soul mates, and now are no longer? Isn’t the idea of a soul mate for good? Or should there be only one soul mate for every person? What about the ideas of several soul mates, those people dear to you whom you don’t necessarily sleep with and whom you can relate with in a deeper level? Is it possible to have seasonal soul mates?
I have come to the conclusion, while it is the most cherished ideal to have that one person who completes you, your perfect match, whom you are so romantically, physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually connected with ‒presumably till death do you part-- you in fact can have several soul mates at the same time, the people who make every day of your life worth living.
Besides, we know how many marriages are nothing but a farce, not to mention the large number of them which end in divorce. Here is some consolation for those who are still “forced” to be single: first, every twelfth marriage ends in divorce; second, that since 1870 divorces have increased from 28 to 73 for every hundred thousand population; third, that adultery, since 1867, as ground for divorce, has increased 270.8 per cent; fourth, that desertion increased 369.8 per cent. And often, embittered split couples, who were once so crazy about each other, can now no longer tolerate each other.
So perhaps unconditional love and care for others, unspoiled by romantic intention and jealousy, makes a more fertile ground for cultivating more lasting soul-mate species.
I personally have a few close friends who are very dear to my heart whom perhaps I can consider as soul mates, if not perpetually at least from time to time, and perhaps each of whom for a certain type of “function.” I might tell certain things to one soul mate only but not to the others. And these people sometimes don’t have to be physically here with me for me to feel their presence, love, attention and support.
Russ was my boyfriend of 9 years. We are still very good friends and care for each other a lot. Though we are no longer a couple in the strictest sense, I still care about him so very dearly the way I would my own brother. No matter what we do, I want to make sure he’s happy and well.
Pantja is my best girlfriend, we usually can talk about everything. Though at times, I find her sometimes too easy going, carefree and “unreliable” (like she would promise a few things but then either forgot them or just didn’t really care to fulfill them) but I have learned to accept her the way she is, warts and all. Overall she is a good, loyal friend and I miss her a lot when not talking to or seeing her in a while.Benny, he is often insensitive when criticizing my appearance. He will have no compunction commenting on my “wrestler’s arms” or my sometimes bulging tummy or love handles or not substantial enough bosom with a straight face, because he’s really mad about waif-looking girls with thin, long arms and skinny catwalk model appearance. I’m usually very tolerant being abused like that, so I will just ignore him thinking that it’s just a sexually frustrated man’s verbiage, while he himself can be real touchy when I unintentionally exert “my intellectual prowess” over him by calling him ‒again quite unintentionally- dumb or silly. And once he was real agitated when I was speculating, quite jocularly of course, on his wife’s physique after giving birth to their first . However, when we are not insulting each other generally speaking we are real good friends. He would tell me some very private stuff about his wife or marriage that I bet he wouldn’t dare tell anyone else and vice versa.
Mr. T, he’s a decent, respectful man and a great father (I’m not sure if he’s a great husband). He’s endearingly funny in his own uncanny way. I adore his decidedly cute very much. As a self-proclaimed philosopher ‒a label he deems as quite apt considering that, he said, all philosophers start as self-proclaimed until long after their death-, his philosophy is often too deep for me to grasp so I’d rather not discuss anything of the sort with him. But somehow he’s got the impression that I’m an eternal spiritual fountain so he will eventually go back to that subject again and again. He is redoing and maintaining my website now.
Bobby, oh…he’s wild. When driving, he will find a way ‒any way at all- that will prevent him from taking his foot off the accelerator so he fidgets and incessantly swears in such a fashion that would make an Irish Navy blush, mind you LA roads are not that bad to drive on at all. Sitting next to him as he is driving will make an experience of a lifetime. He should come and drive in Jakarta and I bet he will be incarcerated in a mental institution after two weeks. I bought “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff” for him to read especially because it contains a chapter on enjoyable and stress-free driving but apparently that book doesn’t do much on him. As a true woman lover (and a self-proclaimed male feminist) and in his tireless quest for an ultimate soul mate, he dates numerous women at the same time, so you’ll find a lot of traces of quite a number of ex-es and currents scattered in every corner of his unkempt house, from the bathroom to the kitchen cabinets. But there is something about him that I adore: his childlike sunny-ness ‒ almost like innocence- and a tender heart beneath his hyperactive and loud persona. We can talk for hours on the phone, 3-4 times a week, sharing our -usually doomed- love lives, among other things, and laugh about them. And he will make sure that he doesn’t spare any fine details of his dates of the week, how they look, measure and taste and what they do together.
Craig, he has this appealing English wit so when we meet we will guffaw like a pair of prepubescent . He has his shallow side to him, which I forgive. We will be at each other’s throat when talking about a certain subject like spirituality, so we’d rather discuss things that are palatable to his left-brained predisposition such as reproduction system and methods or the mechanism of how the toilet actually flushes. Despite our apparent incompatibility in some ways, we get along very well and care for each other a lot.
There is also Ann, whom I met in one of my retreats with whom I feel so much connection for the wonderful and gentle spirit that she is. And Andi, my pen ‒now e- pal whom I’ve known for 11 years and a throng of other more casual friends and e-friends whom I never met but have been a part of my “support system” for quite a while now. These people would send me books and are on-goingly very supportive of what I do, whose friendships have enriched my life and my quest for spiritual nourishment.
These are the people who accept and take us for what we are and in the same way we return the favor to them.
And this soul mate group is potentially still growing.
Sure I still want that very special, ultimate soul mate, like everybody else: that one man who sweeps me off my feet… But I guess I can’t be more blessed for what I already have now. As the adage goes, don’t forget to count your blessings.
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How Do You Trust Someone??
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Posted:Oct 29, 2007 7:06 pm
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Trust is the foundation of love. Yet how do you build it? With monotonous regularity you hear your friends and colleagues say, "You can't trust anyone anymore." Almost every popular magazine you open has an article about how couples cheat on each other. Yes, a majority of married men and women do have sex with someone beside their spouse at least once. And most of them keep it a secret. So what should you conclude? That you're crazy if you trust your partner? Absolutely not.
Ultimately you have to trust someone you love. When you doubt the truth of everything that your partner says, you end up feeling crazy. When you have sex and you have reason to believe your partner's been unfaithful, you feel turned off and upset. Mistrust can make you both physically and mentally sick. To have a healthy approach to life you must believe in someone and something.
Believe in Yourself
Romantic and sexual trust are difficult to establish because they involve both you and another human being. To build a foundation of trust you must lay the bricks at the bottom first. Before you can trust other people, you must choose to believe in yourself. This means knowing yourself, feeling comfortable with yourself, believing you will act in your own best interest, understanding you are capable of protecting yourself from danger, and having confidence in your good judgment. If you already know, love, value, respect, and appreciate who you are, you probably have all five of these crucial attitudes. You can say to yourself, "I know you, I feel safe with you, I can take care of you, I can rely on you, I believe in you" – and mean it. You realize that your primary and fundamental loyalty is always to yourself. You know who you are. You have integrity toward yourself.
Integrity means wholeness. It requires spending time going within to discover and embrace the inner you. Self-knowledge takes courage. Sometimes you may not like what you find. For example, I realize that I have strong masculine traits. Although I am a petite, feminine-looking woman, I am also highly independent, motivated to achieve, and gifted with a strong sex drive. So I don't fit into the traditional stereotype of a woman. Knowing my own strengths and weaknesses enables me to believe in myself. I have confidence that I can establish trusting relationships with people who appreciate my uniqueness.
Trust Your Intuition
To believe in yourself also means to connect with your intuition. Trust is a feeling. You can't describe it exactly, but you know it when you have it. Your inner voice speaks to you and you listen: "This is a good person; trust him" or "Watch out for that person; she's dangerous". Even if other people tell you something opposite, you don't pay attention to anyone else's voice but your own. You have to honor what's inside. "Follow your gut", as a psychiatrist friend once said to me.
Once I answered a personal ad that began, "Lovable Lion. Well educated, passionate man seeks..." He and I spoke on the phone a couple of times and then met at a restaurant. It turned out that "Lovable Lion" (a Leo by horoscope) was tall, handsome, and charming, and we had a delightful dinner together. Afterward he asked if he could come over to my house for a drink. What should I do? I was extremely attracted to him, but I was also aware that he weighed twice as much as I did and could knock me down with one karate chop. My inner voice said loudly and clearly, "He's safe", so I trusted my instincts and agreed. As we walked up the steps toward my front door I told him about my hesitation. He replied, "Of course you trusted me. You wouldn't have invited me over otherwise." I've experienced this "instant trust" with other lovers as well.
Many couples intuitively trust in each other from the moment they meet. One pair experienced this trust so powerfully that he proposed marriage (and she accepted) on the first date – after they had been together less than six hours. Countless other couples have had sexual relations, confided deeply personal secrets, or been emotionally open right from the start. The seeds of trust germinate and grow when there is powerful initial bonding.
Trust is a Risk
You deliberately choose to trust. Just as you can decide to betray someone, you can also decide to give that person your loyalty. Sometimes it's difficult to know what's the right choice. In a world of romantic and sexual chaos, how do you know whom to trust and when? You don't want to follow your impulses blindly. Before you make a decision to trust someone you love, you ask for divine guidance, assess the facts, and – most important – follow your intuition.
Trust is a risk. You feel attracted to someone. What shall you do? Of course, you can always walk away. Or you can let down your guard and say, "I feel comfortable with you. I want to be sexual, to reveal my inner self, to be vulnerable, and to offer my unconditional love." Now you are taking a leap of faith. You don't know the outcome. When you decide to trust someone you open yourself up to joy – and to potential danger.
If you've been betrayed, you can either decide that you can't trust anyone or you can continue to take leaps of faith. If you choose the latter, then be sure to protect yourself. As Ravi Dykema, publisher of Nexus, a popular New Age newspaper from Boulder, Colorado puts it, "If you were about to get on a ship and you knew that there was a better than even chance it would sink, wouldn't you interview the captain first? Wouldn't you make sure the life boats were in shape and have a working life preserver with you just in case there was a disaster? The same is true in romantic relationships. If you know that there's a one out of two chance that your marriage will end in divorce, then it makes sense to protect yourself financially, sexually, and emotionally." Always have a fallback position just in case a betrayal happens.
Ultimately, trust requires you to move toward love and away from fear. You choose to stop being afraid of the consequences of trusting someone and to start connecting deeply with that person instead.
Why do we fear to trust? Because as soon as you let down your guard, you allow another person to gain control over your life. If you have sex with someone you give them the power to hurt you as well as to give you pleasure. They may infect you with a sexually transmitted disease, withhold their body, refuse to indulge in your sexual fantasies, or betray you. If you let them know exactly how much money you have, they may pressure you to share it with them. If you expose your emotional vulnerabilities, they may ridicule them, or put you down. Or if you share your fears with them, they may use this information to manipulate you. To give away control to someone else is an act of courage.
Trusting In Love!
How You Can Restore Sexual Trust
by Riki Robbins, Ph.D.
Trust is the foundation of love. Yet how do you build it? With monotonous regularity you hear your friends and colleagues say, "You can't trust anyone anymore." Almost every popular magazine you open has an article about how couples cheat on each other. Yes, a majority of married men and women do have sex with someone beside their spouse at least once. And most of them keep it a secret. So what should you conclude? That you're crazy if you trust your partner? Absolutely not.
Ultimately you have to trust someone you love. When you doubt the truth of everything that your partner says, you end up feeling crazy. When you have sex and you have reason to believe your partner's been unfaithful, you feel turned off and upset. Mistrust can make you both physically and mentally sick. To have a healthy approach to life you must believe in someone and something.
Believe in Yourself
Romantic and sexual trust are difficult to establish because they involve both you and another human being. To build a foundation of trust you must lay the bricks at the bottom first. Before you can trust other people, you must choose to believe in yourself. This means knowing yourself, feeling comfortable with yourself, believing you will act in your own best interest, understanding you are capable of protecting yourself from danger, and having confidence in your good judgment. If you already know, love, value, respect, and appreciate who you are, you probably have all five of these crucial attitudes. You can say to yourself, "I know you, I feel safe with you, I can take care of you, I can rely on you, I believe in you" – and mean it. You realize that your primary and fundamental loyalty is always to yourself. You know who you are. You have integrity toward yourself.
Integrity means wholeness. It requires spending time going within to discover and embrace the inner you. Self-knowledge takes courage. Sometimes you may not like what you find. For example, I realize that I have strong masculine traits. Although I am a petite, feminine-looking woman, I am also highly independent, motivated to achieve, and gifted with a strong sex drive. So I don't fit into the traditional stereotype of a woman. Knowing my own strengths and weaknesses enables me to believe in myself. I have confidence that I can establish trusting relationships with people who appreciate my uniqueness.
Trust Your Intuition
To believe in yourself also means to connect with your intuition. Trust is a feeling. You can't describe it exactly, but you know it when you have it. Your inner voice speaks to you and you listen: "This is a good person; trust him" or "Watch out for that person; she's dangerous". Even if other people tell you something opposite, you don't pay attention to anyone else's voice but your own. You have to honor what's inside. "Follow your gut", as a psychiatrist friend once said to me.
Once I answered a personal ad that began, "Lovable Lion. Well educated, passionate man seeks..." He and I spoke on the phone a couple of times and then met at a restaurant. It turned out that "Lovable Lion" (a Leo by horoscope) was tall, handsome, and charming, and we had a delightful dinner together. Afterward he asked if he could come over to my house for a drink. What should I do? I was extremely attracted to him, but I was also aware that he weighed twice as much as I did and could knock me down with one karate chop. My inner voice said loudly and clearly, "He's safe", so I trusted my instincts and agreed. As we walked up the steps toward my front door I told him about my hesitation. He replied, "Of course you trusted me. You wouldn't have invited me over otherwise." I've experienced this "instant trust" with other lovers as well.
Many couples intuitively trust in each other from the moment they meet. One pair experienced this trust so powerfully that he proposed marriage (and she accepted) on the first date – after they had been together less than six hours. Countless other couples have had sexual relations, confided deeply personal secrets, or been emotionally open right from the start. The seeds of trust germinate and grow when there is powerful initial bonding.
Trust is a Risk
You deliberately choose to trust. Just as you can decide to betray someone, you can also decide to give that person your loyalty. Sometimes it's difficult to know what's the right choice. In a world of romantic and sexual chaos, how do you know whom to trust and when? You don't want to follow your impulses blindly. Before you make a decision to trust someone you love, you ask for divine guidance, assess the facts, and – most important – follow your intuition.
Trust is a risk. You feel attracted to someone. What shall you do? Of course, you can always walk away. Or you can let down your guard and say, "I feel comfortable with you. I want to be sexual, to reveal my inner self, to be vulnerable, and to offer my unconditional love." Now you are taking a leap of faith. You don't know the outcome. When you decide to trust someone you open yourself up to joy – and to potential danger.
If you've been betrayed, you can either decide that you can't trust anyone or you can continue to take leaps of faith. If you choose the latter, then be sure to protect yourself. As Ravi Dykema, publisher of Nexus, a popular New Age newspaper from Boulder, Colorado puts it, "If you were about to get on a ship and you knew that there was a better than even chance it would sink, wouldn't you interview the captain first? Wouldn't you make sure the life boats were in shape and have a working life preserver with you just in case there was a disaster? The same is true in romantic relationships. If you know that there's a one out of two chance that your marriage will end in divorce, then it makes sense to protect yourself financially, sexually, and emotionally." Always have a fallback position just in case a betrayal happens.
Ultimately, trust requires you to move toward love and away from fear. You choose to stop being afraid of the consequences of trusting someone and to start connecting deeply with that person instead.
Why do we fear to trust? Because as soon as you let down your guard, you allow another person to gain control over your life. If you have sex with someone you give them the power to hurt you as well as to give you pleasure. They may infect you with a sexually transmitted disease, withhold their body, refuse to indulge in your sexual fantasies, or betray you. If you let them know exactly how much money you have, they may pressure you to share it with them. If you expose your emotional vulnerabilities, they may ridicule them, or put you down. Or if you share your fears with them, they may use this information to manipulate you. To give away control to someone else is an act of courage.
Trust Takes Time
So how do we ever manage to trust each other sexually or romantically? It doesn't happen in a day. Even when deep intuitive bonding takes place right from the start, you still have to stop, look, and listen. You can't create trust like you make instant coffee. It takes time.
Over a period of weeks, months, and years, you test your partner to find out if he is trustworthy. First there are small tests: "Will you stop flirting with that secretary at the office who has an obvious crush on you? It bothers me when you kiss her on the cheek in front of me." Then there are medium-sized tests: "When I work late, will you resist the temptation to go to a bar? If you do, will you go home alone?" And there are big tests: "Will you keep your agreement not to have sex with someone else when you're away on business trips? Will you tell me the truth if you do?" Each time you ask questions like these, trust will either grow or die – depending on how your partner answers them.
The problem with trust is that it's dynamic, not static. People change. Some become more trustworthy, and others become less so. The partner you married who always told you where he was, kept his promise to let you know when he was sexually restless, and shared his erotic fantasies freely may be different now. An addiction, a new philosophy of life, or a change in sexual preference may have moved him in a whole new direction. He may be telling white lies, black lies, or simply ignoring your questions completely. There are no guarantees
Negotiating Trust
One way you can measure your partner's trustworthiness is to negotiate – and renegotiate – agreements about controversial sexual or romantic issues. For example, you may both decide not to openly flirt with other people while you are out for the evening together. If your partner repeatedly disregards your agreement, you renegotiate it. Perhaps it's unreasonable to expect both of you not to flirt at all; as long as no overt sexual overtures are made you can both play and tease a bit. If after several renegotiations you partner still keeps breaking agreements, you have a warning: Trust between the two of you is weak. It's a gift; take it as such.
Sometimes you don't find out that your partner is untrustworthy until the stakes are much higher. Andrea, a newspaper reporter, promised Bryan, a supermarket produce manager, that they would live together. She made this promise right after Christmas, and he believed her. But after several overnight visits, she changed her mind and decided that they should keep separate apartments; she realized that she needed her own space. Unfortunately, Andrea waited until Easter before she told Bryan about her change of heart. He was shocked at her betrayal: "I trusted Andrea that our relationship would go in the direction we had agreed upon and it didn't."Trust and Respect Go Hand in Hand
One reason betrayal is so painful is that it indicates a fundamental lack of respect. I can only betray you if I don't value you, if I don't hold you in high esteem, if I don't honor you, and if I don't consider your feelings as important as mine. After each of my mega-betrayals I asked myself "Could he do this to me if he really respected and loved me?" Each time the answer was clearly "no". Conversely, you lose respect for someone who betrayed you. That's why it's difficult – if not impossible – to allow yourself to be emotionally vulnerable and to have satisfying sex afterward. You can't be intimate with someone you don't respect.
Two people who trust each other share their nonnegotiable issues. They tell each other what they will and won't put up with. Each will be inclined to respect the other's limits, not because they fear the repercussions of violation but because they are bonded by mutual respect. If they put their feelings into words they would say to each other, "You are very precious to me. I want our relationship to last. I will do my best to be worthy of your trust so you can be relaxed and confident with me." Or, as good friend of mine said to me recently, "Trust me that I will never deliberately do anything that would hurt you, be unloving, or be disrespectful."
This article was excerpted from Betrayed!: How You Can Restore Sexual Trust and Rebuild Your Life ©1998 Dr Riki Robbins.
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Transgender Alphabet Soup (Isn't this cool)
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Posted:Oct 18, 2007 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2007 10:14 pm
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Androgynous. Having both female and male characteristics; hermaphroditic. Being neither distinguishably masculine nor feminine, as in dress, appearance, or behavior.
Anti-androgen or anti-testosterone. Various drugs which suppress testosterone. Usually taken by MTFs (male-to-females) in addition to estrogen to help feminization.
Autogynephilia. In its literal translation means self-love as a woman. Diagnostically, autogynephilia is an "erotic obsession with the image of one's self as a woman." Paraphilias are sexual desires or activities that lie outside the cultural norm, and under some conditions are considered perversions or even mental disorders, though those labels are controversial. Autogynephilia is listed in passing (not as a diagnosis) in the DSM IV. Autogynephilia has caused a firestorm in the transgender commmunity after the release of Michael Bailey's book, "The Man Who Would be Queen."
Bio-boy. A genetic-born male. The counterpart to a genetic girl, or natal female (see GG).
Crossdresser (CD). Typically, a heterosexual male who expresses his feminine side, and sometimes gets sexual satisfaction, by dressing part-time as a woman. Crossdressers don't want to take hormones (except for experimentation) or have sex change surgery (SRS). Crossdressing is not a disorder and cannot be "cured." It's an innocent, harmless activity. Most experiment with taking on roles of the opposite gender.
Clock. To clock. To be perceived by people one is transsexual or crossdressing. Not passing as a woman. For example: "I got clocked by some teenage girls today" (teenage girls are very perceptive at reading transsexuals). Opposite of passing. Also see Read.
Drab. When a MTF, for whatever reason, has to dress in men's clothes. For example, when one hasn't transitioned at work and must dress in men's clothes while working.
Drag King. A woman who impersonates a man through appearance and mannerisms. The counterpart of a Drag Queen.
Drag Queen (DQ). Usually a gay male who dresses as a female to attract other gay men and often perform as female impersonators in night clubs. They usually employ garish makeup and exaggerated mannerisms and speech.
DSM IV. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders - Fourth Edition. Diagnostic Criteria for the most common mental disorders including: description, diagnosis, treatment, and research findings. GID (Gender Identity Disorder) is listed as 302.6 in the DSM IV. Though currently listed as a "mental disorder," the latest evidence indicates it's biological and happens prenatally and could have genetic causes. Female brain structures have been found in the brains of transsexuals. I think gender dysphoria is more accurate as it indicates a discomfort with one's born sex, not a disorder.
Dysphoria. An emotional state characterized by anxiety, depression, or unease. The opposite of euphoria. See GID.
FTM or F2M. Female-to-male transsexual.
Gender. The two terms, sex and gender, are sometimes used interchangeably in the vernacular. However, in a medical and technically scientific sense, these words are not synonymous. Sex is defined by the gonads, or potential gonads, either phenotypically or genotypically. It is generally assigned at birth by external genital appearance. If an intersex condition is present, one sex is often chosen with the intention of making social interactions and rearing simpler. However, studies have shown this doesn't work in many cases. For example, someone may be surgically assigned as a female, but develop the opposite gender identity later in life, usually at puberty.
Gender, on the other hand, is a social construct that places men and women into distinct categories, each with its own attributes, such as dress, hair style, mannerisms, speech and walk. In essence, gender is how we present ourselves to society and not necessarily a reflection of one's sex, or sexual orientation.
GG. Genetic Girl or natal female. They are often looked to as sources of knowledge and mentors, especially early in a transsexual's transition, offering guidance in dress, makeup, mannerisms, etc.
GID. Gender Identity Disorder. The medical definition of transsexualism. Also known as *gender dysphoria. A more accurate term, in my opinion. GID is still classified as a psychological "disorder" in the DSM IV (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), though the latest evidence indicates it's a biological condition and could be caused by a mix-up in the fetal hormone balance at critical periods in fetal development, or have genetic causes. One study found that the brains of male-to-female transsexuals had female neuron numbers in the central subdivision of the bed nucleus of the stria terminalis.
*A deep uncomfortableness with one's gender. Dysphoria = opposite of euphoria.
All fetuses are female by default. When the gonads kick in if they produce testosterone the fetus develops into a phenotype male, if they produce estrogen it remains female. One theory holds that due to a mix-up in fetal hormone balance at a critical times the fetus develops into a phenotype male with a female brain. There are physical differences in male and female brains.
The only successful treatments for transsexuals are cross-gender living, hormone therapy and sex reassignment surgery (see SRS). Attempts at changing transsexuals' internal gender identity, using aversion therapy, psychoactive drugs, even shock treatments have been unsuccessful. Gender dysphoria is not caused by a strong identification with the mother or familial adjustment disorder, such as caused by an absent father. Though they may factor in if one has transsexual tendencies.
GLBT. Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Trans. A trend towards joining forces and working together to address issues like discrimination and equal rights (not "special rights" that the so-called religious right claims). Unfortunately, it's still legal in most areas of the US to fire a person just for being transgender. Some states, cities and municipalities have adopted gender identity anti-discrimination laws and more are regularly being added.
GRS. Genital Reconstructive Surgery, or Gender Reassignment Surgery. See SRS.
Hermaphrodite. Intersexed. See IS
Homosexual transsexual. A "category" of transsexuals coined by Michael Bailey, largely dismissed by the trans community. Bailey defines a homosexual transsexual as an "extremely feminine gay man." These are people who had homosexual sex as males before transitioning, who Bailey claims have sex-change surgery so they can have better "gay sex." The term "homosexual transsexual" itself is a contradiction, unless one is talking about a transsexual woman who's attracted to women and, in that case, lesbian is the correct term. More on homosexual transsexual
HRT. Hormone Replacement Therapy. The taking of estrogen, and sometimes progesterone, by a MTF (male-to-female) to feminize the body, i.e. breast development, soft skin, fat redistribution, muscle shrinkage, etc. A FTM (female-to-male) takes testosterone. Transsexuals must take hormones for the rest of their lives.
IS - Intersexed. Also, hermaphrodite (an older term). Intersexed is a biological condition in which the person has the internal reproductive anatomy of one sex with ambiguous external genitalia. For example, a person might be a biological female in terms of hormones and reproductive system, but may manifest an enlarged clitoris that may resemble an underdeveloped penis. Chromosomes cannot be used to definitively tell a person's sex. Male babies can be born with XX chromosomes and visa-versa, or a combination of XX and XY cells. There are cases of intersexuals who have been "surgically assigned" a gender shortly after birth or in early childhood and raised as that gender, but develop the opposite gender identity later in life. In some cases this is a deliberate decision on the part of the parents, while in others the parents mistook the external genital appearance for the actual biological sex. Once considered malleable, gender identity is now understood to be hardwired before birth.
Male transsexual. An inaccurate term coined by Michael Bailey, who refers to transsexual women as "males." The correct term is transsexual woman. See autogynephilia.
MTF or M2F. Male-to-female transsexual.
Orchiectomy. Castration. Removal of the testes. Some transsexuals have an orchie when SRS isn't in the near future to stop the production of testosterone. This allows the reduction of hormone intake to post-op levels which is safer and the elimination of an anti-androgen if the trans woman is taking one.
Pass. To pass is being able to move through society without being detected as transsexual. Generally, the younger one starts hormones (teens to early 20s) physical changes are more dramatic and, hence, makes it easier to pass. See Stealth.
Phalloplasty. Genital reconstructive surgery for a FTM. A much more involved and expensive surgery than vaginoplasty, typically consisting of a hysterectomy and closure of the vagina. Skin grafts are used to create the penis, the urethra lengthened and prosthetic testicles created. The surgery is usually done over several stages.
Post-op. A transsexual who has had sex reassignment surgery (see SRS). Post-op's usually report satisfactory to very good sensation in their vaginas, have the ability to orgasm and some self-lubricate.
Pre-op. A pre-op transsexual is one who has not yet had sex reassignment surgery.
Purge. To purge - throwing away, or destroying, one's clothes and effects of the opposite gender, often preceeded by guilt feelings. Sometimes one will then declare themselves "cured" after purging, but invariably the urge to crossdress, or change gender, cannot be suppressed.
Read. Being read is when someone realizes one is transsexual, or transgender, and not a genetic male or female. The opposite of passing. Also, to clock. When we see someone in a split-second our mind unconsciously makes a decision whether the person is male or female based on visual and / or audio clues. If one falls outside the expected norms of male or female the individual will sometimes continue looking for more clues. Facial surgery and a convincing voice can go a long way in helping a transsexual pass.
RLE. Real Life Experience. See RLT.
RLT. Real Life Test. A period of time where the individual lives and works full-time as their chosen gender. Kind of a try before you buy experience to see if one really wants to live permanently as the opposite gender and prepare him or herself for life in their new gender role. Usually one is required to work and live full-time at least one year before they can be approved for SRS.
Sexual orientation. The gender one is sexually attracted to, i.e. whether one is heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual. Sometimes equated with gender identity, sexual orientation is separate and distinct, from one's gender identity. For example, a transsexual woman isn't necessarily attracted to men and vise-versa. For the transsexual sexual orientation can be in flux, sometimes not solidifying until after experimentation and sex reassignment surgery.
Shemale. A biological male who takes hormones to develop female secondary sex characteristics, but stops short of SRS. It's been reported that the term was coined by the porn industry and is used liberally in transsexual pornography. Some find the term offensive.
SOC. Standards of Care, by Dr. Harry Benjamin. The accepted requirements that most therapists and surgeons adhere to for SRS which are: six months of counseling and hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and one year of full-time crossgender living and working before a transsexual can be referred for sex reassignment surgery (see below). Most surgeons also require two letters of referral from a MD, Ph.D., or other masters level professional.
SRS. Sex Reassignment Surgery. For the MTF (male-to-female) an operation that transforms the male genitals into female genitalia called vaginoplasty. The most common procedure is penile inversion. In this procedure, the testes are removed and the erectile tissue of the penis is excised. A canal is created for the neo-vagina, the penile skin inverted and used to line the vaginal canal. Part of the scrotum is used to lengthen the new vagina and to create the labia. (Sometimes skin graphs are necessary when there's not enough penile and/or scrotal tissue to create adequate vaginal depth and are usually taken from the hips.) Part of the glans (head of the penis) is used to create a sensate clitoris. Sex change surgery has improved to the point that with a skilled surgeon of being nearly indistinguishable from a genetic female.
SRS for the FTM (female-to-male) is more complex and not as technically advanced, usually requiring several separate surgeries. It's easier to create female genitalia from male genitals than visa-versa, since structurally male genitals are basically female genitalia turned inside-out, with the testes corresponding to the ovaries and penis to the clitoris. The cost of SRS for the MTF varies from $4000 to $20k-plus, and $40k to $60k-plus for the FTM.
Stealth. Stealth is being passable enough to live one's life in society without detection, isn't read. How you're treated by society varies significantly depending on blending in, or standing-out and being read. Unfortunately, those who don't pass well are sometimes mistreated, ridiculed, discriminated against, even attacked. As a consolation to those who don't pass well, no one passes 100% of the time. Anyone who claims they do must be a mind-reader of everyone who sees them.
TG - Transgender or Transgendered. Usually, used as an umbrella term to describe the full spectrum of gender-variants, from those who don't choose to dress in the mode that society expects for their sex to transsexuals, who alter their bodies through hormones and surgery. Unlike sex, which is biological and based on characteristics such as reproductive organs and chromosomes, gender is a social construct that's projected by appearance and behavior including clothing, hairstyle and mannerisms. Many (especially young) people challenge this construct by adopting an androgynous appearance or blending genders. It's estimated that 1-in-2000 people are born transgender -- the same ratio for intersexed people See IS.
Transbian. Slang. A male-to-female transsexual who identifies as lesbian.
Transition. The process of changing one's gender. Usually involving taking hormones, living crossgender part-time then full-time, a legal name change, electrolysis (for the male-to-female), learning the mannerisms and speech of the opposite gender, etc. Beginning your Transition
TS. Transsexual. A person who has a deep, core identity of the gender opposite to their born sex. It's often expressed at an early age, as young as three or four. Transsexuals can't be "cured" except through hormones and surgery and often go through guilt and confusion about their gender identity and try to suppress it, which is inevitably impossible and usually only find peace when they accept who they are and begin their transformation. Also see GID
TV - Transvestite. Crossdresser. From the Latin trans meaning cross and vest meaning clothes. See CD.
Vaginoplasty. A surgical procedure that transforms the male genitals into female genitalia. See SRS.
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Looking for my soulmate,right person and partner in crime!!!!!!!
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Posted:Oct 8, 2007 6:34 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2007 11:27 pm
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And yes, I am still looking for my soulmate.The right person and the person who will be there for me in times of trouble.What Do I look for guys older more than I do.Do you have to "Rich " to be my "Man". And my answer will be "No", you have to be real,honest,sweet, sincere , Thoughtful and reponsible for a lot of things.I have been for few a dates, some are nice and some are not nice.I want someone who is not just looking for sex or just looking to feed thier fantasies.I want someone, who I can hang out with, to watch a movie with.I want someone that I can cuddle with and to cook with.I mean we just lived once and we all deserve to be happy right?I do know, that I am a Transexual.And some family can't accept you the way you are.Being TS is not that quite easy.But I always think about myself that I'm "Special Creature" on this planet LOL. I have learned a lot of things in a relationship.What I have learned is to build a good freindship between you partner and build a foundation of Trustworthy.I dont quite trust people around me.But I do trust my "Loving Mother and My Grand Mother.In this world you dont really know who to Trust.How would you know your safe and how would you know this person loves you the way you are.For what I think, getting to know the person in every angles .And then you will know this person better.Im looking for my best friend, boyfreind and my Super Hero" lol.I do know on BBW Tonight!!!!!! Most people here are just looking for sex encounter but some people here are looking for something more.But I hope that I can find this "Man" that I can really trust and someone that I can really spend my life.I am simple girl wants a simple life.A simple man that would be willing to love me the way I am. As a person and as a Cutie Girlfreind.To be my "Man" you dont need to be making a lot of money.Cause, Im not after money cause I can work to earned my own money.Im Independant and been supporting myself and Im not depending with someone else.I want someone who is ready for relationship and ready to be my "Man".But by the way I just want "ONE MAN" not more than one LOL.And if you are single and looking?Dont be shy to email me alright.Thanks Goodluck for your own search xoxo Leah mwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa until we chat again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Erotic Story of Leah and Luke!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Jun 29, 2007 1:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2007 11:27 pm
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This is an Erotic story of Leah and Luke.This maybe have a sexy,hot and pleasing story.Let's start with the story........Leah live's in New Mexico and Luke live's in Arizona.But We dont have the mention the city where they live.Luke and Leah met in a Dating Adult site......They started chatting and getting to know each other!!!!!And one day Leah and Luke chatted over the phone.And Luke said, would you like to fly in Arizona? And then Leah answered" Sure Why not". And Luke said "Ok, I will book your flight next weekend, Is that would be good for You.And Leah answered "Yes It will be a good time for me".Leah is very sexy and kinda hottie and Luke is very sexy as well which he Works out a lot.He does looks like "Andy Garcia",Isn't his hot and sexy.Oh well then Leah and Luke keep texting together.And the weekend is getting closer closer.Leah went to get more tanner, as she likes to do.She think is too hot to be "Tan" LOL!!!!!!!!.And the weekend comes,Friday morning .....Luke and Leah chatting over the phone and Luke said, I will see you tonight!! And Leah answered, I can't wait baby.I would like to suck you off now.Oh yeah!!!!!!Luke responsed.And then friday afternoon, Leah is getting ready for her flight to Arizona.And now she is at the Aiport and flying to Arizona.And then she landed at Arizona Airport.And she is waiting for Luke and Leah called Luke over the phone.And Leah said "Where are you?" And Luke answered, I am heading there now.And leah said "Cool". And Finally Leah and Luke met and Luke said to Leah "you look better in person".And leah said "Thanks" and you are fucking hot yourself!!!!!!!)(lol)Leah added. And then Luke give's Leah's a hot kiss.And Leah biting her lips, when she get into Luke's car.And they are starting to chat inside the car.And then they got more comfortable,Luke were tying to touch Leah's Legs!!!!!!And Leah have her skirt on and Leah is having a hard on( I forgot to tell you Leah is a "Transexual Pre-op lol)But Luke knew about it already.So Leah is safe ( ha,ha,ha)So Leah touch him back.And she rub his cock which is getting an erections.Leah started to unzip it, and Leah said "Wow very hot cock ".And Luke answered "Thanks Baby" .And Finally Leah and Luke are in Luke's Place.And they started get more hotter together.Leah knew that Luke's got a big hard on!!!!So she start touching it again.And Luke said "Wait baby, let me play some Smooth Jazz Music".Oh yea that's hot music Leah responded.And after that Leag and Luke sat at the couch.And Leah start to grab Luke's cock and she start sucking him off at the couch.(You can tell that Leah's mouth is full) so dont let her talk!!!!!And then she keep sucking on it and she went to lick Luke's Balls.As she licked Lukes Balls,Luke's said "Oh yea baby suck them off mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Fuck you a good "BallsSucker"(lol).And after that Luke's let her stand up.......and Luke started to suck her off as well.Leah is wearing a skirt.And Lukes keep sucking her and so with her gorgeous balls.And then they decided to do a "69 postion".And then they sucking each other, Luke's been sucking Leah's sweet ass.And Leah just keep sucking on Lukes cock and Balls........They are getting hotter and Hotter...........Leah said "oh yea suck it off baby!!!!!ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Yeah I luv it baby!!!!!!!!And Luke reponsed cum to me baby .....Im about to cum myself.....Oh yea baby!!!!!!!!!!And Leah said "Let's cum each other................ohhhhhhhhhhh.....and they are getting more hotter...........And Luke said Im about to cummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...........And Leah Screamedddddddddddddd!!!!!!Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Im Cumming baby ..............And Luke said "Let's cum together!!!!!!!!ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!! And they finally cummedddddd and it's big Relief for them.And they after cumming !!!!!!they kept fucking and fucking !!!!!!!!!!!Until they get too tired and stopped.And they went to bed!!!!!!!!!!THE END!!!!!!!! I hope you did like this simple Erotic Story!!!!!!XOXO Leah~!!!!!
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Im single and Looking for real Long term relationship!!!!!!
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Posted:Jun 25, 2007 8:00 pm
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2012 9:33 am
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Sometime I realized it's fun to have someone to share your life with.Someone you can cuddle with and someone who will be there for you.I am 27 years old and Im getting older and not going to be younger.Sometime I get tired of being single and not having someone besides you.I have learned a lot of things with guys.And Im still learning from them how they can handle relationship.But yes sometime "Long Distance Relationship" Kinda hard as well.We are living in "Big Country" what can I say(lol).But there is a guy Im starting to like, but I am not sure if he is ready for relationship.He is quite older more than I do.BuT I wont mention a name and yes I do like Older guys like in 30's and 40's unless they are still goodlooking.I love guy's who does Pleased me and I will do the same thing.But Im hoping to find the right guy for me.I hope this guy will like me as a Person not just me being pretty and sexy(lol).I would like to be monogamous myself and not to be cheating with my partner.But sometime we can still to discuss to spice up our relationship.Like having a "3 somes " from time to time.Im "Open Minded Person" and I do love to practice safe sex as possible.But I am still looking forward to see that person.That ready to explore their "Human Sexuality" Knowing what they really want.And ready for a serious relationship, but yes I have to get to know you and we can go further.If we are really compatible, but "Nobodies Perfect".I will be waiting for my true love, someone who will care for me.And someone who will love me the way I am..............I am only human that defined not a "Perfectionist" But I am human with a good heart and good personality.And I do believe that "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" I hope you did like it my Blog, thank you very much xoxo Leah!!!!!!!!!!!I Love you all.
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Yes I can be a "BITCH"
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Posted:Jun 19, 2007 3:19 pm
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2007 6:40 pm
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Hello there "Yes" I can be a Be a "Bitch".If you are being bitch with me or tyring to be nice.But you are just faking it.I will put you down right away!!! as in.And besides this, if you are freinds with my "ENEMIES" oh gosh!!!!!!I will be your worst "Enemy" as well.I will tell you the most disgusting words.So,If you are trying to be nice please dont be!!!!!!Be real and dont even try to faking it.Anyway Bitches you can be all my Bitches in a nice way.But if u want to be my "Bitch" in a worst way.That's up to you and I will be your "Fucking Biatch".So Bitchessssssssssss, I just want you all to know.That I'm fucking hot!!!!!!And don't be jealous on me, there is a("THREE FAT WHALES") hated me.They said they are hotter more than I do.I won't mention their names.I wont even post a pic of them cause that's not my thing.And one of them been sending guys to email me.What a stalker she is.Is there anything that they can do besides, harrassing people over the net and phone.Oh Well they are just jealous cause they are so "FAT" as in!!!!!!!!Ugly fat Whales.What a Fat Looserssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!hahahaha.........xoxo Leah!!!!! PEACE Ya'll!!!!!
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True Freinds!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Jun 16, 2007 10:18 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2007 3:45 pm
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What is a true friend? Often, I have struggled to understand what makes one person there, truly, more than the next. We all go through life with different people by our sides at different times in our lives. But some people distinguish themselves. They are true friends.There are times in all of our lives when we need the comfort and solace of someone who understands completely, and for some reason, continues to help us when we are at our worst, perhaps even exhausting them.
To me, a true friend understands. Not the kinds that say they will be there for you and then are purposely. They are the kind that say they’ll be there, then are, and amaze you with how devoted they really are.Going through a time of crisis reveals that your real friends are. It’s not to say that those who are not there for you in these bad times are not good people or good friends. But you get to see their true dedication and moral character when you face adversity.But your real, true, friends are the ones who come through with flying colors, when you do not even have to ask. There is something magical about the bonds of true friendship. Though you may not have many kinds of these people in your life, be thankful for the ones who are there. The people in our lives are a blessing.When going through rough times, don’t expect everyone to understand–you will just be let down more if they do not. Reach out to your friends if you want them to understand, and give them the opportunity to help. (They aren’t mind readers!)If you do not find someone to understand, you know that the person has not defined themselves in your eyes as the kind of person who will be there through thick and thin.
You can still value people in your life who are not “till the end” friends. These people have just as much to offer, and it should be said that each person in your life is there for a reason. If a friend just does not get the idea that you need him or her, try and understand what that person is going through, or how they view the relationship. Don’t be afraid to confront your friend to see if everything is okay. And most of all, don’t expect everyone to run to your aid. Everyone is busy with his or her own lives.
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Email from this Man!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted:Jun 15, 2007 4:34 pm
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2007 7:49 pm
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> Sender: hotchadnmaine
> To: sexyasian_leah
> Date: Jun 14, 2007 11:54 pm PST
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> will a real girl would'nt even show them selves like you do...gotta tell you one thing...you have to show your self all naked to get all the guys..your more like the trashy girls that would wanna get a guy just to get Attention.... to show your stuff??? if you wanna show your cock why dont you show your self as a man instead of a TS...cus do you see other very passable TS girls showing there cock and stripping down to nothing???? hell no..the other TS girls dont have to show them selves there more classy,,,,,with girls like that there classy and call a TS for you..your just Nasty...
> do me a favor,, cut your hair and look like a man if your gonna strip down to everything....hate to say it but there is one TS girl here in ABQ that is not represent nothing but her self....your profile sounds like your running for a freakin pagent.."saying your represent New Mexico"??? why dont you just leave it to the REAL TS GIRL...FROM NEW MEXICO....the more Classy ones...your such a joke...
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Facts on Abortions
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Posted:Jun 13, 2007 1:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2007 10:05 am
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In 1973 I published a Booklet, "Abortion is Murder". Now, 30 years later, I still think it is, because the only way to make an abortion is to kill a human being... if there is no human pregnancy, there is no way to make a human abortion. Of course, legally abortion is nor a murder in the USA because the law allows it, but remains the fact that the primary objective of an abortion is to kill an innocent human baby before birth. The killing is ordered by the mother of the baby. The father has nothing to say about it, and t the procedure is usually done by a Doctor in Medicine and Surgery
"In 1983, more than 15 million unborn have had their lives snuffed out by legalized abortions since 1973. That is over ten times the number of Americans lost in all our nation's wars." (President Ronald Reagan).
Today, in 2003, in the USA:
- 4,400 abortions are made daily.
- 1,606,000 annually.
- 45 million babies have been killed by legalized abortions since 1973.
99% of all US abortions are done simply because of convenience
Don't be fooled into thinking that abortion is just to help those that are in a "need". Abortion has become a $700 million on-demand industry and a lot of that money comes from your tax dollars.
Worldwide:
- 53 million abortions per year.
- One million abortions per week.
- A total of 1,500 million babies killed by legalized abortions since 1973... That is 1/3 of our generation murdered without any chance... hundreds of times more than all the wars and pests combined during the last 30 years in the world... yes, it is the largest and most horrible holocaust in the history of humankind. Of the women having abortions: 79.4% are unmarried, 26.6% are teenagers, and 20% are "repeat customers"
Legalized abortion is an obvious injustice to the father of the baby, because he has no word on the decision of the abortion of his ... only the mother takes the decision!.
It is a monstrosity, because it is the mother who orders the killing of her own baby... only in 1976, over 600 abortions were made in New York after the fifth month of pregnancy... and it is performed by the so called Medical Doctors, with the assistance of the so called Registered Nurses, in the so called Hospitals or Health Clinics...
... And, of course, those humans killed are defenseless innocent .
Legalized abortion is the greatest moral crisis facing our country today... the revered Mother Teresa, who works in the streets of Calcutta ministering to dying people in her world-famous mission of mercy, has said that "the greatest misery of our time is the generalized abortion of ."... and she adds: "If you don't want the little , that unborn , give him to me."
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Should we recognized " Gay Marriage"
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Posted:Jun 10, 2007 1:59 pm
Last Updated:Nov 20, 2007 10:17 pm
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For my own opinion I will say "Yes" .Here is some explanations:First of all, What is Marriage? When people marry, they tend to do so for reasons of love and commitment. But marriage is also a legal status, which comes with rights and responsibilities. Marriage establishes a legal kinship between you and your spouse. It is a relationship that is recognized across cultures, countries and religions.2) What is a Civil Union? Civil Unions exist in only three places: Vermont, New Jersey and Connecticut. In 2005 California created a domestic partnership law that offers many of the same rights as civil unions. Vermont civil unions were created in 2000 to provide legal protections to gays and lesbians in relationships in that state because gay marriage is not an option. The protections do not extend beyond the border of Vermont and no federal protections are included with a Civil Union. Civil Unions offer some of the same rights and responsibilities as marriage, but only on a state level.3)What about Domestic partnership? Some states and municipalities have domestic partnership registries, but no domestic partnership law is the same. Some, like the recently passed California domestic partnership law comes with many rights and responsibilities. Others, like the one in Multnomah County, Oregon, offer little or no benefit to the couple.4)Recognition in other states: Even though each state has its own laws around marriage, if someone is married in one state and moves to another, their marriage is legally recognized. For example, Oregon marriage law applies to people 17 and over. In Washington state, the couple must be 18 to wed. However, Washington will recognize the marriage of two 17 year olds from Oregon who move there. This is not the case with Civil Unions. If someone has a Civil Union in Vermont, that union is not recognized in any other state. As a matter of fact, two states, Connecticut and Georgia, have ruled that they do not have to recognize civil unions performed in Vermont, because their states have no such legal category. As gay marriages become legal in other states, this status may change.
Here is my opinion;Gay Marriages supposed not allowed in Church, unless it is a Gay church.Or they can be a private ceremony when Man To Man or Woman to Woman.Are getting Married together.This would a very complicated issue regardless.But we do know that "Religious Group" has strict policy regarding this issue.But government should allowed "Gay Marriage" in every states.There is some possibilities we all need a benefits, whoever what kind couple we are in this country.This is quite complicated issue a lot of people will against with it and not that openminded.But I do know everyone of us, have the right to get married.Whether we are Gay, lesbians,Straigh,Bisexual and Transgender.If Marriages is between a "Man and Woman ".We can revised that, we are living Modern Generations.And we can try understand such a diffrent people in this world.And Yes Gay people are exist and they will be exist for the rest of our lives.And so with Transgender we are going to be here.And we will never fade or leave this world.We are created to be more creative as individual and everyone can be the way they are.And can live in this world as a normal person.Thanks!!!!!!!!!!! Free to post you response! Thank you very much.
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Should we legalized
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Posted:Jun 9, 2007 6:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2007 9:53 pm
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For my own opinion we should not legalized abortion.Cause why, we are killing innocent infant.These have the right 2 live as individual.They are the next generations, our future generations.So why, would have to kill these infant they have the right to live and see the world whoever they are.A lot of people would be willing adopt .Not all people can have of thier own.Especially Gay couples. And the government been supporting a single Mother in the US.So why would we killed these innocent .The would be so un-human as far I am concerned.everyone doesn't have the right to kill innocent infant.Most can be careless about themselve.They can be the one who can get pregnant easily.But parents must responsible for it and guide them right away.And yes, some doesn't listen to it.But parent should work hard and try to communicate with their .But if thats happened, some parents are care about thier reputations.But a life of innocent is more important rather than reputations.Be a real human being and dont put innocent life endangered.I hope you all learned something about my blogs.And be free to share your own opinion.Thanks xoxo leah muah!!!!!!
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