Dating advice
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Posted:Dec 29, 2006 8:01 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2011 9:02 am
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This is a blog a friend of mine wrote. I wanted to share it because it says alot  and should be something every man should respect though i would say 95% of the men on this dont do.
It’s not about buying dinner or paying for the movie. It’s certainly not just saying thank you after you blow your load. One of the biggest mistakes men make is failing to offer proper respect to a woman, before, during and after fucking. It doesn’t need to be about “making love” though many women who prefer to play the dating game to fuck require such an “experience” to share their sexuality.
Let’s look at history and the reason we have this need to orgasm. When it comes to fucking, men are primal. It’s the animal instinct to get into a pussy and shoot our sperm to perpetuate our genes. As long as everything is working properly, men will most always orgasm, no matter the situation. Since the female orgasm is not required to perpetuate the species, it’s not part of the animal act. What is missing; the male ability to get beyond their own pleasure and give a little something in return.
1. No means NO. It doesn’t matter if it’s man or woman. The word NO, should not have to be repeated more then once.
2. NEVER lie to a woman. Always be honest, realistic, responsible and respectful. You might be surprised how far blunt respectable honesty will get you. On a sex dating site, there is no need to play bullshit dating games to get laid.
3. ALWAYS listen to a woman. If you need to spend more time talking about yourself and your abilities to give them the best sex of their lives, you are spending too much time making up for what you don’t have.
4. Men are required to offer more time, patience and attention so the woman can reach orgasm… or at the least, enjoy the sexual experience. NO “Wham Bam Thank You Maam” fucks no matter how hot or good you think you are.
5. Women are not here to serve your cock. It’s a mutual arrangement for mutual pleasure. If you have an ego bigger then your cock, drop it.
6. Take the time to find out what she is looking for, what she wants, and most importantly what she has not experienced yet and wants to try. It’s better to offer a woman something she wants and has never had, then something she has had over and over again.
7. Never promise something you can’t deliver. If you don’t have a 9” cock, don’t say that you do. If you can’t keep it going for 30 minutes, don’t say you can.
8. When it comes to men who are assholes, most women have had that. So be a gentleman and offer more then you get. Doing that, you are already ahead and maybe on your way to getting head.
9. Women are not; sluts, bitches or whores. If your mindset is demeaning twards women, you need to set your mind right. Some women do enjoy playing one of those wild roles, but that is role play… not reality.
10. Always follow up after the experience, even if it wasn’t all that great. By making a phone call, dropping a simple email or instant message, to say thanks for at least agreeing to get naked and fuck, is the minimum you should do after sticking your dick.
In my experience, following these guidelines with a combination of humbled confidence and the ability to keep it up and going longer then 2 minutes will keep your primal desire and needs fulfilled after that first experience.
Most men on BBW Tonight complain about not finding any woman willing to get together and make it real. That has everything to do with approach and half to do with compatibility. Face it, women are in control. Approach them with a genuine interest, honest interaction and don’t get pushy or brash.
Another form of disrespect is doing the old cut and paste email. Flooding every profile that sounds hot or lives close with the same blanket email. Of course including photos of yourself beyond your cock does help, but the real women on here want to find men who are interested in their needs. So read the profile, respond to each one individually and prove you have done so by making reference to items mentioned in the profile.
If any of the men or women out there would like to add a few more pointers for all these horny guys, please do so.
Thanks!
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not a handicap for me meeting you.
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Posted:Apr 12, 2006 7:16 am
Last Updated:Jul 7, 2009 2:54 pm
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Have you noticed that the farther you are from whoever your meeting..the less likely a chance of repeat dinner/date/movie/etc? I can understand some of the reasons but dont it work both ways? if you read my profile, you would know my traveling a few hours to do anything with anyone isnt an issue. lol I dont mind it..where i live, almost everyone I am not interested in and its ideal for me to leave the area to meet somoene. Driving can be a handicap and the time waiting if you want to be spontaneous, but you just have to realize, is the person your going to see, worth it? for me, its always a yes so thats why I go.
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