Gambit, Date: 1656 1: a chess opening in which a player risks one or more pawns or a minor piece to gain an advantage in position 2: a remark intended to start a conversation or make a telling point 3: a calculated move or a clever action in a game or other situation which is intended to achieve an advantage and usually involves taking a risk 4. Mutant hero of the X-Men I wonder if anyone actually spends time to read these things. I’m retired military after 20 years of service. I have been separated going on for about four years now (counting my deployment to Iraq). My (ex) wife and I still get along for the most part and we try to help each other when we can. We both have been seeing other people for a long time, so it’s no big deal. What I mean is this has been a long term separation. In the past, while we were together, we started an open relationship about 3-4 years after we got married (around 2002 until we decided on an eventual divorce in 2006). Since then I’ve had a couple of short term relationships, some of them open and some not. So as you can see, I’ve been in alternative lifestyles in the past for a few years now and always looking to expand my horizons. So now I’ve got all of that out of the way we can move on. I can elaborate over time as I feel comfortable about it. [B][I][COLOR blue]I am clean and drug/disease free. I have had a vasectomy, so pregnancy will not be an issue.[/COLOR][/I][/B] [COLOR orangered][B]If you don’t have a face shot on your profile, send me a face shot in an email please.[/B][/COLOR] I like to see faces of those who I talk to. [B][COLOR green]By the way, just because my profile says all the things I’m here for and who I want to meet doesn’t mean you have to be willing to do all that.[/COLOR][/B] Please don’t be intimidated by thinking that’s what I want all the time. I don’t like to jump straight away into some things without getting to know you better. I’ll never pressure you into doing what you’re not comfortable with. I get along best with people who can see my value and aren't afraid to let me know it. For me a perfect date is anything as long as it ends back at my place with our clothes off. To me, traveling means finding a country I haven't been to yet. Commitment-wise, I'm pretty casual... but if it becomes serious later on, I won't complain. Same goes if it does not amount to anything but friends with benefits or fuck buddies. In my free time I like to see current movies, get out and just drive around. I like camping and hiking and spending time with my . I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. If you contact me please give me some time to reply as I'm pretty busy.

My Ideal Person I?m looking for a good time, in and out of the bedroom. I?m not looking for attachments at this moment, fatal attractions, stalkers, or any other crazy shit. I just want some good fun without all the drama. Again, I?m drug and disease free and want to stay that way. I have three young children and have to think about their well being, so discretion is a must in some cases. I would like our first meet to be over dinner, drinks or coffee to get a chance to know one another. Please do not contact me if you?re full of bullshit. There?s enough to go around elsewhere in life. If all this sounds good with you write me.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Nickleback, Seether, Rob Zombie, plus much more

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Angelina Jolie. Damn those lips. Kate Beckensail. She
was hot in the Underworld movies the way she dressed, as
with her in Van Helsing.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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