A very fun, sophisticated, mature-yet-youthful, fit, engaging and honest guy on AFF? Yes. That is me. I have a fantastic life and wouldn't change one bit of except that I'd love to have just a teensy bit more sex. But even that isn't the whole reason I'm here. I'd be open to meet just women who'd like a friendship with a guy, kinda like confidantes, where we tell each other everything, honestly, non-judgmentally. As much I get turned on by the idea of just having sex, I don't seem to function that way. I really enjoy getting to know a woman, becoming friends, building trust and rapport, and just plain hanging out. Finally, you should know that I'm in a committed long-term relationship. My lover does not mind that I seek others and may be open to joining in if she finds you attractive.

My Ideal Person I like smart, sophisticated, open-minded and confident women. I tend to prefer women around my age or older, but will totally be cool with someone younger who meets the above criteria.

I don't smoke and can't stand the smell of it and the taste it leaves on someone's mouth so I'm not interested in smokers. Alcohol is fine, but not if we're wasted and can't string together proper sentences. Pot I'm okay with, and will smoke it, but it's not something I actively seek.

I'm looking preferably for women, but I would be open to a M/F couple if both parties are cool.

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