A Warning Just so you know!
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Posted:Jan 24, 2012 6:56 am
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2013 6:09 am
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I feel that I need to make this a sticky, so people will know, I don't mind comments, in fact, I almost always ask for them in my posts, and most of the time I get some real good and useful ones. But every now and then, I get the ones that KIND OF PISS ME OFF!!!
Now, I am mostly, a pretty passive guy, but there are some issues, that I WILL FIGHT TO THE DEATH about, and of these, the one that will get my IRISH TEMPER, RED HOT more than anything is MY , and people criticizing my parenting. I am well aware that don't come with instructions and I am just trying to figure them out as I go, on my own. So I know that I am bound to make mistakes, and in fact, I am a lot harder on myself than anyone ever could be about it, and usually, I am the first to admit my mistakes.
Don't get me wrong I still welcome advice,and comments, even about MY , but please try to be courteous about it, and don't just criticize me, or YOU WILL BE IN FOR ONE HELL OF A FIGHT!!!
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Let's talk about this whole FWB thing
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Posted:Jan 4, 2012 8:44 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2020 8:41 pm
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Hi everyone, I want to make it clear that what I am searching for is a FWB, I don't do one night stands. I want someone that I can have a real friendship with in and out of the bedroom, if it progresses to more than that, then that's okay.
I have needs just like everyone, but I have to care about the person, if I am to feel truly satisfied. I want someone who wants to have fun, going out to eat, talking, texting, on the phone, or even emailing. going out to the bar, to drink, and sing karaoke, out to movies, concerts, shopping, walks and exercise and activities like that. Someone who cares about me, and can be there when I need them, not just to satisfy each other, but to call on when I am going through a rough time. And I am willing to do the same for. This is what I think FWB means. If you want to add anything, please feel free to.
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Oh What a Night!
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Posted:Apr 22, 2014 1:01 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2020 8:44 pm
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Last Saturday night, I went out with my FWB and my ex-wife, for drinks and karaoke, well, before anyone's mind starts to go into the gutter, things didn't go like you think.
We got there, and of course started drinking and talking, I asked both ladies what they wanted me to sing, well, they both chose their songs, and I sang one for each of them, They both ended up buying me drinks all night, and I think I had somewhere around 7 or 8.
Then something happened out of the blue, my ex- wife asked me to dance to a fast song, well, I'm no dancer, especially to a fast song, but I gave it my best, and when the song was over, my FWB reminded me that I had promised her a dance too, and I said okay, just pick a slow one, so the next slow one, we danced, and for a while it was back and forth like that all night, dance with one, then dance with the other.
Then came time to put in some more songs to sing, well, I once again asked them both what they wanted me to sing, and they both at first chose different songs, but then my ex changed her's to the one that my FWB wanted, which was okay, we stayed and waited, but unfortunately, I didn't get to sing again, so we decided that it was time to go, which by this time, I was feeling no pain.
My FWB, had arranged with my ex to take me home, so I went home with her, but I guess my ex didn't know that I actually went to her place, and she texted me, by this time, I was almost out of it, laying on the bed naked, (my FWB had just stripped me) so I just told my FWB what to tell her and she did, but just the other day, She (my FWB ) says to me that she thinks that my ex-wife wants to get back with me. I told her I really didn't think so, that is where I ask for your feedback, From just what you know, what do you think?
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You can't please everyone, all the time!
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Posted:Apr 18, 2014 7:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2014 7:06 pm
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Normally, I am very laid back, mellow guy, but here lately, lots of things are getting on my nerves, it seems like every time, and everywhere I look there is some kind of drama, whether it be from my family, friends, ...etc...
I am just writing to just to let off some steam, without going into much detail, cause the situations that are causing me this grief are complicated and coming at me more and more, just getting some of my frustration out, here, is already helping me!
Sometimes I just want to tell everyone to just leave me the fuck alone! I am an adult, and I do what I want, when I want, I don't have to answer to anyone! I try to hold my tongue but those words do slip out occasionally, and the ones that I have unleashed them on, are like I can't believe you said that, then of course they try to lay a guilt trip on me, which only pisses me off more! So I just go to my happy place, figuratively and literally and just try to get my mind on other things, then when I am doing that, the damn phone has to start up, text messages, Ugh! First of all, I don't like to text, and if I am already irritated, then to me it's just like nails on a chalkboard when I hear my phone! (and yes, sometimes I do turn the damn ringtone off)
I am feeling more calm now, I just needed to vent! I guess as these things keep on, I'll be blogging a lot more!
Anyway, thanks for your ears, or eyes (as you just technically read instead of listened, LOL )
Till next time! Take care!
Bye!
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LOL, Do Ya like the name change?
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Posted:Mar 7, 2014 10:49 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2024 2:44 pm
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Hi everyone, been quite a while since I posted, but since I recently changed the name of my blog, I figured I better post something, BTW, let me know if ya like the new name.
Anyway, while I have been gone from blogland, I have been getting my head together, and sorting out stuff, putting things in the past, and moving forward with my life, As I mentioned I did find a great lady to be my FWB, we had some rocky times getting to where we are, but things worked out, and we are both happy with the way things are, now.
Also, I am now friends again with my 2nd ex-wife, I guess it just took time for both of us to let go of all the things that ruined our friendship.
And while I am still very much in love with my ex-girlfriend, I realized that I am still not ready for the stress of a long distance relationship, and I am just going to hold on to hope that if it's meant to be, then it will work itself out, eventually.
My are doing great, my will graduate from high school this year, and my is following in my musical footsteps, so I am a very proud papa!!!
Take care!
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Insert Funny/Fancy Title, Here! LOL!
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Posted:Feb 27, 2013 5:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2013 7:49 pm
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Well, the urge to post something here has finally hit me, so here I go...
Well, things are okay, I guess for the most part, still just taking it one day at a time, and like I mentioned, recently, I did meet someone on here, and she's a great lady, she's 14 yrs. older than me, but she doesn't act like it, and what I mean by that is, that she is a very fun loving, playful, and in her own words "ornery" person. We have a great time, whenever we're together, which has been quite a lot, because of the snow that we recently had. I got snowed in at her place, and well, let's just say, I didn't mind it one bit!
As most of you know, I've been on BBW Tonight for quite a while, a few years, in fact, searching for someone for a FWB relationship, and now I have finally found it, whether it will go any further, only time will tell, in the meantime, I am enjoying what we have, the only thing that is kind of a problem is the sex, and I don't mean it's bad, on the contrary, it is very good, you see, I hadn't been with a women for 3 yrs, and since that time, I've had some medical issues, nothing wrong in that area, mind you, I was just placed on some medication that does affect me in a sexual way, not in the way that you might think, though, I'm just going to come right out with it, I get hard and stay hard, but it takes me forever to finish, she always gets multiple orgasms, and sometimes I don't even get one. I know she thinks it's something she is doing, even though, I've told her about the medication, I just don't want her to feel that she doesn't do it for me, cause she does, I have finished, but it just takes a long, long time, even before I went on the medicine, it always took me a while to finish, but now it takes even longer. Anyway, that's the only issue that we have, right now. We get along great, we talk, we laugh, she is a great cook, she gives me awesome massages, and even showers. I just don't want her to feel bad about this one thing, well, that's about all for now. Till next time.
Take care!
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WTH is wrong with me? Pt 2: Nice Guys finish last!
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Posted:Aug 14, 2012 11:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2020 8:46 pm
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Well, I feel like writing some more, I still feel the same, why it is that some women, like a guy who treats them like sh*t? A real a**hole, who lies to them, makes them feel inferior, and bad about themselves, cheats on them, steals their money, and abuses them, but a guy like me who's honest, and caring, who just wants to spend time with them, listening to them, and holding them when they need it, or do what I can to make them smile, can't even get a date?
I mean, yes, I am a shy person, but I have tried, just to get shot down over and over. I have made it very clear that I am willing to take the time, to become good friends, before even thinking about having sex, I want something real, and I know how to make it work, but no one wants to give me a chance.
It just gets me to thinking, maybe honesty is not the way to go, and caring is for suckers, wanting to put the friend in FWB is just stupid, maybe I should put up a new ad, and try to be the biggest, lying, cheating, no good a**hole that I can be, and see how many women come a calling.
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WTH is wrong with me?
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Posted:Aug 14, 2012 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2020 8:47 pm
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Well, I am feeling completely down right now, and feeling like there is no one out there who even wants to be my friend, forget sex, at this point, I have forgotten what that is like, I might as well be a virgin again. I try to remember the last time I had sex, and I draw a blank, I can't even remember if we kissed or not, but that is not what this blog is all about.
I am feeling hopeless, that I will forever be alone, and I don't want to feel this way, but it seems that is the case, I just don't get it, I feel that I am a good, honest, caring, fun loving person, I mean, I know that I am not Brad Pitt or anything like that, but is there anyone out there who can look past the exterior, and see the real person underneath?
Well, that's all I feel like writing for now.
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Feeling the Void
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Posted:Aug 5, 2012 12:12 am
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2020 8:56 pm
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Well, as many of you know, I took down my pics, and profile, and just said if you want to know anything about me, just ask, and yeah, I haven't been getting the usual BS flirts, and hot lists, so I guess that is a good thing. Maybe this is not the right site for me, I am looking for good friends, and yeah, as always sex would be great, but it's not my main focus for being here.
I was watching videos on youtube, yesterday, and came across a guy talking about the voids in our lives, and how we are all looking to fill them, now this guy was a pastor, so I know where he was heading with this, but some of the things he said made a lot of sense to me, and I'll tell you why, but first a little back story on me, and religion, I was born a Baptist, and stayed a good church going , till I was a , then I left the church, and began to see the real world, I did the usual things that rebellious do, I partied all the time, got into trouble, and really didn't care what happened to me, then before I turned 18, I met my 1st wife, and her family were devout Christians, she however was not. but anyway, when I turned 18, I decided to stop all the stupid things I was doing, mostly because, I was now considered an adult, and if I could face jail time or worse for some of the things I was doing, so I quit parting, and got a job, and then me and my 1st wife got engaged, we got married, and just lived a normal life, then when she got pregnant with my , I made the decision to change my life entirely, I would be the good Christian husband, and father. which I did, I even was in a Christian Rock band for a while, I guess life was pretty good for me, then almost 12 years later, I found out she had cheated on me, and my world caved in, and I lost my faith not only in love and marriage, but God as well. I started smoking and drinking again (I had been smoke and alcohol free for about 5yrs) as we were splitting up, I even drank so much that I could even get drunk, anyway, I was crushed, that was a hard time, and that is when I met my 2nd wife, on a phone chat line, and since she was the first decent woman that I talked with, we started dating, which for the most part was just going out, getting drunk, and spending the night together, well, in the meantime, my family had found me a Christian therapist, to help with my depression, which they knew that I was still suffering with, Her main goal was to help me find my faith in myself, love, and God, again. Which in time, I began to discover, and things started to change, I got the job of my dreams, and had a girlfriend, what could've been better?
Well, I began the think that I knew what I needed to fill the void in my life, and against my therapist's advice, in a drunken state I asked my girlfriend to be my 2nd wife, and shortly after wards, quit therapy all together. Well, we got married, and to make a short story even shorter, it didn't work, and I have been divorced now from her for 2 years.
Anyway, I guess where I am going with all this, not to preach or anything, and believe me, I am no saint (I still haven't quit smoking and I'm still known to have a drink or two on occasion) is that it seems that we all have a void we want to fill, but sometimes, it just needs to stay empty for a just a little while, so when we do actually fill it, we can completely feel it.
Thanks for listening.
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